Wholly Made Life™- ReClaim your Whole Life, Tap into God-Sized Fulfillment for the Success Driven Woman, Mama, Wife, Sister

EP 31 What is Your Super Power? You are Wonder Woman! Fully Equipped with Who God Has Called You to Be! Walking in Your Purpose for your Family Super Mom Listen, SIS, you are stronger than you. Believe you have greater powers than, you know, because no matter how small, an act of kindness or generosity or simple positivity you put out into the world, it will make a difference. Do you guys know what that's from? We're going to find out in this episode! Welcome back friends to this episode of Wholly Made Life. So I want to start today and talk about your super powers and yes, you have super powers and they are given to you by God Podcast: http://bit.ly/whollymadelifepodcast IG: @angietoninirogers Community: http://bit.ly/whollymadelifefbgroup Email: angietoninirogers@gmail.com Wholly Made Life™ Short Assessment: http://bit.ly/shortassessment Angie’s Coaching Menu: Email me at angie@whollymadelife.com  So when I'm talking throughout this episode, I want you to know that. Obviously I want to acknowledge that your superpowers are given to you directly by God. So I wanted to talk today about wonder woman, have you guys seen this movie? I tell you what, it's one of the best movies I cry and cry and cry every time I watch it. It's just amazing. But let's talk a little bit about who wonder woman is. So according to vocabulary.com wonder woman is a noun. It's a woman who can be successful at being a wife and also have a professional career at the same time. Hmm. How many of us does that sound like? I just defined every single person listening to this podcast. Sister, you are a wonder woman. You are the wonder woman. So I want you to think the episode where, not the episode, the part of the movie, if you guys have seen it think about the part of the movie where they are in this bunker. And these guys have been stuck in this bunker for so long. They've not been able to progress forward to take over the area that they have been trying to take over. So she decides that because the choice was to go on and continue on their journey, her and her group, and let these men die in this bunker because they'd been there forever and they couldn't progress forward and they were going to die. They couldn't retreat and they couldn't go forward. They were just going to die. She decides instead to sacrifice herself and put others first. So she jumps out of the bunker. She starts taking these bullets so that others can go ahead and take over the enemies bunker as you watch her in her strength, put her shield in front of her and step out alone and take bullets after bullets, after bullets, also that all of the others can run forward. And go ahead while she is the one under aim, she is the one under fire. I cried and cried during this part. And this is because of her strength, her compassion for these people, her empathy and her need to serve and save that's her power because she is a woman and women have these empathetic, strong feelings. This need to care for others. It's just an innate, nurturing quality that we have. That's us. That's women. We are wonder women. We are her. We embody everything that wonder woman is because that's who God has called us to be. That's how we've been created. We sacrifice so others can go. We sacrifice so others can do. We sacrifice so others can eat and sleep. We go without so that others can have, we don't sleep because there's too much work to do sometimes. So when you think of wonder woman or the strongest woman of God in your life, who do you think of and what qualities do they have? Do you think of you and the qualities that you have when you think of a wonder woman? Why not SIS? You are that wonder woman. You are her don't you understand that there's somebody in your life thinking of you as their wonder woman. When someone asks them, who's a strong woman in their life, the wonder woman of their life, the wonder woman of God, you are the one that comes to that. Person's mind. There's somebody in your life t

EP 30 How to Bless & Release Your Adult Child. Moving from Rule Regulating Parenting to Relationship-Based Parenting. When it's Time to Let Go & Let God! For Biblical Scriptural Mamas Ladies! We are going to let go and let God sometimes that is one of the hardest things to do. I want to acknowledge it right now that this is hard, hard work, but sister, you can do it. Let's go friends. We're going to let go and let God! Podcast: http://bit.ly/whollymadelifepodcast IG: @angietoninirogers Community: http://bit.ly/whollymadelifefbgroup Wholly Made Life™ Short Assessment: http://bit.ly/shortassessment Podcast Episode Updates: https://angie.gr8.com/ Angie’s Coaching Menu: Email me at angietoninirogers@gmail.com Hey guys, today, we are going to let go and let God sometimes that is one of the hardest things to do. I want to acknowledge it right now that this is hard, hard work, but sister, you can do it. Let's go friends. We're going to let go and let God okay.  Welcome back to this episode of Wholly Made Life today. I want to expand a little bit on what I talked about on the last episode, which was going seven levels deep on your why. And I brought up this conversation about our children and letting our children go. And I'm currently in this season where my oldest is now 18, he'll be 19 in July. And he went off to college all the way to Arizona, 26 hours away. And that was one of the hardest things ever is letting him go that far and learning how to continue to parent from a place where he's a teen and he's into adulthood changing over that style of kind of a rule based parenting to a relationship based parenting because what's so important throughout. And we've talked about this in lots of other episodes for different things, but relationship and honesty and integrity in that relationship is number one. And so I've always tried to create this relationship with my kids, where they feel comfortable enough to share with me and talk to me about the truth about what's going on in their lives, what they're doing, how they're feeling, even if the actions that they're taking are not desired, ones are not ones that I would necessarily approve of, but creating that relationship where it's safe enough for them to come to me and talk to me about what's going on. It's that fine line of condoning versus loving conditionally despite their behaviors or despite what they're doing. You know, interestingly, as they transition into teens and especially adulthood, it's really important to kind of, as a parent, try to transition out of that rule based regulation based parenting, where they need those rules and confinement such as you know, when they're little and they're going to touch a hot stove, well, you're going to jump in and you're going to take over and you're going to do the things you need to do to keep them safe. There becomes a point though, when they get into this teen and adulthood where they're starting to create their own independence. And at some point we're going to have to let go and let God, right? Because despite our want to create this safe place for our kids, they still have to grow and learn and do on their own, whether they're making mistakes or not. And of course they're going to make mistakes. We all did. And I mean, when I think about myself in college and other, and even, you know, yesterday there are mistakes that I make on a daily basis, but if I didn't make those mistakes, I wouldn't have learned to do things differently to get a different result. So as a parent, we have to allow that ability for our child to make those decisions. And I think for me, when I was talking about that seven levels of why, of why I get so worried, anxious, upset, why it bothers me if one of my kids makes decisions that I don't approve of or that kind of thing. It also comes back down to that same thing that I've talked about before related to how people perceive me as a parent, as a person in society, as a leader who, whatever that i

EP 29 How to Go 7 Levels Deep on your Why- Why It's So Important to Find Start Define your Why-Your Reason for What You Do and Love For Moms Today, we're going deep... 7 levels deep. Let's talk about the seven whys, have you guys heard of this? It's, it's called lots of different things. Seven whys, 7 levels deep the 7 Why exercise... This is something that a lot of people use in coaching and in supervision leadership, as well as you know, a lot of sales teams use it to help motivate their, their workers. Podcast: http://bit.ly/whollymadelifepodcast IG: @angietoninirogers Community: http://bit.ly/whollymadelifefbgroup Angie’s Coaching Menu: Email: angietoninirogers@gmail.com Wholly Made Life™ Short Assessment: http://bit.ly/shortassessment Interested in learning how to start your own podcast? Take a look at this course to learn everything you need to know! Ppu.atrogers.com Welcome back ladies to this episode of Wholly Made Life. And I am actually in my car recording because I could not catch a break at home this week to get these episodes recorded. I mean, it's a never ending coming to and from and boys wrestling and dogs barking and a new corn team to have to start over. I mean, for the love of all mighty God, Jesus pray for me. So yeah my youngest had to go onto quarantine again because someone on the soccer team had been exposed or had gotten it and whatever the, whatever the specifics were and all of the kids had to quarantine again. So he's home again with me this week and I love him to life. But he is just a talker, not but, but, and he is just a talker and so it's not a possibility for me to record. So anyway, I had to run over to the school and pick up his, they call it the Wednesday folder. So I was like, well, you know what, I'm just going to hit record in the car and I'm going to talk about my episode. So then I was going to do for you guys and I don't have my notes or anything like that. So you guys just love on me and support me and just hang with me And we will get this thing done Then. Okay. All right. So actually today I wanted to talk about the seven whys, have you guys heard of this? It's, it's called lots of different things. Seven whys, 7 levels deep the 7 Why exercise? And yes, I'm saying the number seven and then why, W H Y and I think this is important. This is something that a lot of people use in coaching and in supervision leadership, as well as you know, a lot of sales teams use it to help motivate their, their workers. A lot of people use it within culture to create this missional culture where each person is connecting with their WHY by the way, a really good book. If you are wanting to connect with your why, or wanting to look deeper is Start with Why by Simon Sinek. , my gosh, Simon Sinek, S I N E K. I'll put a link to the show notes to what his, where his book is. I don't get anything for sharing that you guys, I just when I find good stuff, I like to share it. So, and by the way, regarding that there are some things that I talk about and share on the show and I might have an affiliate link. And what basics, basically, what that means is that I get a small commission for sharing it. It's a way that if you click that link and you happen to buy a course, or you happen to buy a product that I am an affiliate of that it's just a good it's a nice way to be supported. And it helps me fund the efforts for the bucket. So there are some things that I am an affiliate of. One of which is I, I don't, I had lots, I don't know. I don't like 12 people or something recently asked me, how did I start the podcast and all that stuff? Well, I took a course by Stephanie Gass. And so I am an affiliate of her course, because she gives you everything. You need to start a podcast. So when you go to ppu.atrogers.com, you can get her course. And so when you do that, I would get a small commission for that, just for sharing it. So that's how that works. So anyway, I just wanted to be upfront and open about that

EP 28 Fixing the Foundation of Your Marriage with Prayer- How to Fight your Spiritual Battles with your Husband We're just going to talk about how to pray with your husband. This is something that can be a little bit awkward, a little bit out of the ordinary, I guess if you're not used to doing it. So let's just talk about a few little tips that we can do, and it will do wonders to strengthen your marriage. Podcast: http://bit.ly/whollymadelifepodcast IG: @angietoninirogers Community: http://bit.ly/whollymadelifefbgroup Angie’s Coaching Menu: Email: angietoninirogers@gmail.com Wholly Made Life™ Short Assessment: http://bit.ly/shortassessment Interested in learning how to start your own podcast? Take a look at this course to learn everything you need to know! Ppu.atrogers.com Hey ladies, welcome back to Wholly Made Life. And listen, if you've been feeling stuck or overwhelmed, or like you can't really fix the foundation of your Holy made life, then jump over to my email@angietoninirogers@gmail.com and ask for a session of coaching with me. I have one-to-one coaching sessions available, and we can walk through how to fix that foundation for your Wholly Made Life™. Let's get into today's episode today. We're just going to talk about how to pray with your husband. This is something that can be a little bit awkward, a little bit out of the ordinary, I guess if you're not used to doing it. So let's just talk about a few little tips that we can do, and it will do wonders to strengthen your marriage. Let's go, Need to grab a coaching session with me? Email me at angietoninirogers@gmail.com Find me on IG: @angietoninirogers Join our FB Community: http://bit.ly/whollymadelifefbgroup Wholly Made Life™ Short Assessment: http://bit.ly/shortassessment Ladies. Welcome back to this episode of Wholly Made Life™. And today I want to talk about something that can be somewhat awkward and uncomfortable, but that is praying with your husband. Now, some of you guys may have already made this a habit, and if you have kudos to you, because it is one thing that for sure will strengthen your marriage. It has to, as soon as God is in the middle of it, it is his idea to begin with marriage itself is his idea to begin with. So when you keep him in the middle of it, then your marriage just has to get stronger. But sometimes this can be harder than it seems. Sometimes it just feels awkward. And especially you've had some sort of argument or a conflict, or just feeling kind of mad in your relationship. Sometimes it just feels hard to break that barrier and pray for your husband and or with your husband, not necessarily for your husband, hopefully you're praying for your husband and your family every day. And so I just wanted to talk about a few things that you could do to make it easier and more comfortable to pray with your husband. So obviously a great time to do that is right before you go to bed. Now, my husband and I typically go to bed at different times. I am a late, I stay up late and he goes to bed early because he has to get up at like four 30 in the morning or something craziness like that. My goodness, but I like to stay up late. So I'll give you an example of what we did tonight. What I've talked to him about is that, you know, we're praying separately, but it's really important that we come together in agreement because the Bible says for two or three are gathered, God is in the midst of it. And so it's really important that you come together with your spouse to pray in agreement for what you're both praying for and believing for, because it's just stronger. It's just, you're in agreement with someone else. And you've got someone else doing that with you. Not to mention that it is obviously a great thing for your children to see the both of you guys praying. Okay. So back to my example for tonight. So he was getting ready to go up to bed. So I just said, Hey, why don't we do our prayer real quick since I'm going to stay up and I'm go

EP 27 Is Your Work an Idol? Special Guest: Stefanie Gass! Feeling Restless Even though You're Successful at your Professional Job? For Burnt Out Overwhelmed Working Moms. Find Clarity in Your Calling Hey ladies, welcome back to this episode of Wholly Made Life™. I am so excited to share this episode with you. I was able to interview a friend of mine. She's actually my coach and my mentor. She's the one that's helped me get everything started with this podcast and help me gain some clarity over what it is I am being called to do and how I can put those things into action for the biggest impact. So she is been, she's been instrumental in getting everything Holy made life up off the ground with me. She is a wife, she's a mom. She has the Stephanie Gass Show, which is ranked top 25 in the podcast world for Christian entrepreneurs. She actually helps women uncover and tap into their God-sized calling. She helps them create kingdom businesses. She helps them launch podcasts and monetize using courses and coaching. Have you taken the assessment yet? Take it here!  http://bit.ly/shortassessment Find me on IG: @angietoninirogers Join our FB Community: http://bit.ly/whollymadelifefbgroup Wholly Made Life™ Short Assessment: http://bit.ly/shortassessment Get the Podcast Episode Updates 1st: https://angie.gr8.com/ SPECIAL GUEST: STEFANIE GASS Click Here to go to the Stefanie Gass Show: http://bit.ly/thestefaniegassshow Website: stefaniegass.com Get her HOW TO Podcast Course here: http://ppu.atrogers.com/ http://bit.ly/newpodcastcourse Need CLARITY in your CALLING? Click here! http://bit.ly/getclarityonmycalling So she loves to do this. She loves podcasting. She loves working with women, and I tell you, she has been instrumental in helping me create some of that clarity. And if you want to get some clarity in your life, get clarity on your calling, whether it is in a business or just whatever it is God's calling you to do. I highly recommend that you reach out to her. I will put a link in my show notes so that you all are able to access her course, her information and clarify your calling. It's a course, it's online. It's something that I highly, highly recommend. She also has a free group. I'll put that in the show notes as well, so that you can link to her. She's a great friend. She really just truly wants women to create a true change for themselves. And she uses her gifts that God's given her to help women create that clarity so that you guys can create that clarity for your calling and you can serve and use your gifts for God's glory. So I'm really excited for this episode guys, tune in. You will not regret taking a few minutes and listening to her. So I am so excited guys. Let's get into this episode and meet Stephanie. Hey mama, welcome to Holy may life where I believe that you are not created to do just one thing in your life. Well, you are not just your job, your title or your salary. You're not just a mom or a white versus sister. You are fearfully and wonderfully made to lead in all areas of your whole life. Your life is like a pie that's made up of different pieces that create a complete circle and girl, you deserve to enjoy the whole pie. Hi, I'm Angie Tinetti Rogers and mama. I know you are really good at what you do in your profession or business, but if you're ready to stop ignoring different pieces of your pie and reclaim your whole life, then you are in the right place. Girl, let's tap into the whole life. God has for you and experienced that God sized fulfilled life together. We're going to walk through some boundaries, leadership mindset and restoration in different areas of your life that may need to change. It's going to be some tough workup in here, girl, but we're going to block this thing out together, uncovering some bold courageous actions that we can take to experience, not just a good life, but your whole life. Are you ready to live your whole life? Holy made. Let's do it. [inaudible] Okay, guys. Wel

EP 26 Is Balance for Busy Working Moms Really Even Possible? The ONE GREAT IDEA That Could Change Your Life! Intentional Life Coach Private Coaching Session What is balance? What does that even mean? Because as you know, you know, as we work full time, as we are moms, wives, we are working in our church. We are serving and volunteering. We are the sports soccer mom. We are classroom mom. We are homeschooling kids, all of these different hats that we wear, how in the world do we create this balance? Every woman deserves to live her life, feeling fulfilled in every area of her life. Girl, Let’s walk this thing out together, you deserve your Wholly Made Life™! Have you taken the assessment yet? Take it here!  http://bit.ly/shortassessment Find me on IG: @angietoninirogers Join our FB Community: http://bit.ly/whollymadelifefbgroup Wholly Made Life™ Short Assessment: http://bit.ly/shortassessment Get the Podcast Episode Updates 1st: https://angie.gr8.com/ Tune in to the Nurses on Fire Podcast, with host Naseema McElroy on March 18th!  https://www.financiallyintentional.com/podcast Welcome back to this episode of Wholly Made Life™. How are you today? I am good. Thank you. Sometimes I wish there was a feedback where we could actually be talking so, but did you know that we can do that? We can talk. We can connect in real life. If you go over to my Facebook group, Holy made life and we can comment. We can play. We can hang out over there. So make sure if you haven't already go ahead and request to get into the Holy made life, private Facebook group, and it's free. There's nothing you need to do other than just go request it on Facebook. So Holy made life W H O L L Y made life™ just like the podcast. Okay. So today I want to talk about an interview that I just did with the host of nurses on fire Naseema. And I was really excited to do this with her. She is fantastic. Is a matter of fact, I'm going to have her as a guest on this podcast because she has an incredible story about how she has paid off. I think up to a million dollars in debt, don't quote me on that, but I'm pretty sure her story includes that, but I know she paid off a ton of debt. She is a labor and delivery nurse working full time. She's got two kiddos. She's amazing. So she just wrote a book called smart money, the step-by-step personal finance plan to crush debt. And I binge read this, I got it on Kindle and I've been dreaded so you can get it on Amazon for your Kendall. And she has a hard copy too. I think it might still be on pre-order it's so new, but anyway, she goes through a nine step plan on how to get your finances back in order. And I know some of you guys who have taken that Wholly Made Life short assessment. If you haven't already, you can click the link to take your short assessment in the show notes on the episode page. So go ahead and do that if you haven't. But some of those scores that I am seeing are related to feeling a little bit unbalanced for your finances. So this book is really helpful with that. It tells her story about how she paid off a ton of debt while working full time. And so it's really valuable. But what I was going to say is I'm going to have her on the podcast so she can tell you her story and walk through some of these things, these easy steps that you can start to take. And I know in the one episode that I did about finances and what does God say about money? I talked about doing a savings account and making sure that you guys get to a place where you have a thousand dollars in savings. She recommends that as well. So, and if you haven't heard that episode, go back to the one that says, what does God say about money? Find it at Episode 18==> What does God say about My Finances? And it'll tell you a little bit about how you can go ahead and get a thousand dollars saved up in your savings account and how that will kind of free you to deal with any emergencies, things that come up like that. So anyway, I was on her podcast a

EP 25 Why Boundaries are Crucial to Your Success Visiting the Grand Canyon Revelation about What God Has for Busy Moms Daughters Family Chat Hey, welcome back to this special episode. And this is an episode where I'm going to do a little chat with my sister and my mom. And I just reflect on the fact that those boundaries are meant for our good, and you know, if you want to bring that into your inner life and what kind of got asks of us or the rules and regulations that we can sometime feel constricted by, we can think to ourselves, these are for our good, so good. These boundaries are for our good. So when we stray outside of that, we're really going outside of that safety net, that protection that God wants for us. And I mean, I had a visceral reaction to seeing people creeping along that edge, even when I was holding tightly onto a fence post kind of peering over my legs were jelly. And I didn't even want my nephew kind of like leaning against the thing. It was terrifying and I think to myself, why would I then, you know, if, if that's what I feel in the temporal world with my temporal life, why would I put my eternity on at, to put it at risk by stepping outside of the boundaries that God has, has put for me? Podcast: http://bit.ly/whollymadelifepodcast IG: @angietoninirogers Community: http://bit.ly/whollymadelifefbgroup Angie’s Coaching Menu: Email: angietoninirogers@gmail.com Wholly Made Life™ Short Assessment: http://bit.ly/shortassessment Podcast Episode Updates: https://angie.gr8.com/ Interested in learning how to start your own podcast? Take a look at this course to learn everything you need to know! Ppu.atrogers.com   We took a trip to Arizona this week and we've been here to visit my oldest Clayton. It was about time for mama bear to lay eyes on her Cub. So that's what we did. And it was awesome. We surprised him. He was really, really surprised, but I just wanted to take a little time to have a little chat about some of our experiences and go from there. So Chrissy is my sister. So Chrissy, why don't you tell us a little bit about yourself? Well, hello. I am Chrissy and I am 41. I'm a stay at home, mom of five kiddos. My oldest is 18 and my youngest is eight. I have four girls and one young man, boy. So you're a girl mom with one boy.I'm A girl with one boy and I am a formal homeschooling mom. I stopped homeschooling about four years ago, but I had homeschooled for probably about 10 years. All including maybe a little longer with some stragglers that I kept home for a little while after my oldest went to school, I, like I said, stayed home with my kids and support my husband, who is, who runs a tech company. So he's extremely busy all the time and outside of COVID doesn't or is not home super often because he is all over the world. So it's important for me to stay home and kind of keep things grounded. Yeah. All right, cool. Yeah, that's my SIF. Y'all okay, mom, This is mom. Hi, my name's Debbie and I am retired. I've been retired about, I guess since 19 or 20 and since 2014. Oh yeah, it's been that long. Yeah, it's been that long and I retired to actually take care of my mom and for about four years. So she was about 90 when I retired which was a great experience and maybe another podcast, but let's see. Before I retired, I was an office manager for an assisted on national, well actually international assisted living company. So I've got the two girls. Do, you know, Andrea and Chrissy and are their younger brother is a Molly son. So that's about it. That's about me. Yeah. And you're right now, you're living the boating life. My husband and I have had boats and we've taken some really good trip. We bought a boat up in the Chesapeake Bay and traveled down the intercoastal all the way down to Florida and stayed there for a winter. And then we took it on around to a little place called Demopolis, Alabama. And we've stayed there for several years now. We finally sold the boat and bought another one because

EP 24 Secret to Multi-Tasking for Busy Moms- Focusing on One Thing at a Time Can Make You Most Effective. Productivity for Homeschooling or working Moms every day planning In order to be successful at being a busy, working mom, you have to be the best at multi-tasking, right? The biggest myth in the world is that multitasking is able to occur. The reality is you cannot be efficient. You can not be safe and you can not get things done. If you think that you can multitask. My email ==> angietoninirogers@gmail.com Connect with me==> https://angie.gr8.com/ Join My Community==>  https://www.facebook.com/groups/whollymadelife Ever wanted to start your own podcast? Get the same course I took to help me get started!  http://ppu.atrogers.com Hey ladies, welcome back to Wholly Made Life. And today we're going to talk about something that I think almost every woman that I know really struggles with and really feels like they have to do to be successful. So if we have to do it, then I want to give us a tip or two to think about so that we can feel more successful in doing it. And that thing is multitasking and learning how to focus. Now I will apologize ahead of time for the audio on this. Some of this is a portion of a YouTube video audio, and some of it is through a microphone. So the audio was a little bit off and there was a little bit of background noise. So I'll go ahead and apologize for that upfront. Okay. So give me grace and forgive me. Okay, ladies. All right. Let's get into today's episode today. I want to talk to you about focus. Once you're able to learn how to focus, you can be so much more productive and get so many more things done. And then success starts to come a little bit easier. First off, I want to let you know that the average number of minutes that a person can devote to a project before being interrupted or distracted is only 11 minutes. So you have 11 good minutes before you get distracted. And once you're distracted, it takes about 23 minutes to get yourself back on track. So minor distractions, such as a click on your phone, when a text message comes through or a Facebook or email comes through on your, as you're working on something else, it can cause huge consequences for you because if you are interrupted every 11 minutes and then it, after that interruption is, is completed, then it takes 23 minutes to get back on task. You are wasting a lot of your day. So we have to learn some techniques in order to get yourself back on focus. The biggest myth in the world is that multitasking is able to occur. The reality is you cannot be efficient. You can not be safe and you can not get things done. If you think that you can multitask. Now, nothing I talk about is black and white, but to demonstrate this point, I watched a video and it was a team of basketball players wearing all white. And there was a man on the video giving me a specific task. And the task was to count how many times the basketball players passed the ball after the video it stopped. And it said, how many passes the basketball team did? Now? The hard part was not how many passes and counting to get that correct number. The hard part was that there was actually a black Moonwalking bear. So it was a black bear like that you would see in the Tennessee mountains. And it was Moonwalking in the video, in between, on all around the players. But because the man had asked me to complete a task of counting, how many passes the basketball players made. I completely missed the black bear. That was Moonwalking through the video. So in this video he then says, so there were 33 passes, but did you see the Moonwalking bear? So this video just demonstrates that it is really very difficult for us to be really good at two things at once. We might be good at a lot of things, but to do all of them at once is quite a challenge. And so when we think of multitasking, this is what we're talking about. It's, we're putting ourselves out there in all of these diffe

BONUS EPISODE! EP 23 Live Clarity Coaching Call with Stef Gass: How to Gain Clarity on your Calling When You Don't Know What Steps to Take Next- Sneak Peak How to Create Pillars for Podcast And today I am jamming with my client and my friend, Angie Tonini-Rogers from the Wholly Made Life™ podcast. And we are doing a full on podcast strategy session in today's call. So this, this is for you. If you just are searching for some clarity or you have clarity, but you don't understand how that clarity translate into a podcast. This episode is for you. Have you ever wanted to start your own podcast?  Take a look at Stefanie Gass' HOW TO PODCAST COURSE right HERE! ==> http://ppu.atrogers.com Connect with our FB Group Community ==> https://bit.ly/whollymadelifefbgroup Need Coaching to create the Intentional Life your deserve? Email me at angietoninirogers@gmail.com   Hey, what's up sisters. I am so excited for today's episode because I have a special recording for you. This is an audio of an actual coaching call that I did with my friend, Stephanie Gass. She owns the Mompreneur Mastermind Show. She is amazing at what she does. And she is the one that helped me create the logistics to get the Wholly Made Life™ podcast up and running. So if you've ever wondered, how did I come up with this idea? I had a whole bunch of jumbled ideas and she helped me get this thing up and running and all the things. So I am so excited to let you get a sneak peek and how I created, how Wholly Made Life™ came to be. I'm so excited. Stef Gass: What's up sister. And today I am jamming with my client and my friend, Angie Tonini-Rogers from the Wholly Made Life™ podcast. And we are doing a full on podcast strategy session in today's call. So this, this is for you. If you just are searching for some clarity or you have clarity, but you don't understand how that clarity translate into a podcast. This episode is for you. Cause we really take her direction, which she totally has. And we plug all the pieces together for her so that she has a TA, a tagline, a title pillars episodes for the show, a vision for how this podcast is going to touch other women's lives, how it's going to help them inspire them be, be a gift of service that Angie's going to show up for. And when she does that and shows up for them with this podcast, then she's able to figure out what the solutions are that her person needs and create a course or coaching program from it, which is exactly why she is now inside of podcast to profit as well. So I hope you guys enjoy this episode, so let's get it. Welcome back to the mompreneur mastermind show, where we choose to run insanely successful, passive income businesses that light us up while consuming iced coffee, braless and flawless, and maybe breaking it down to some gangster rap while our kids aren't looking. Did we just become best friends? Yes. Yes we did. Hey, I'm Stephanie gas. Six-Figure corporate exec turned top 1% network marketer turn podcaster. I believe when we let God light our path, we experience true miracles. Welcome sister. Let's get pumped up for today's show. All right. All right. So before we get into this strategy session with Angie, you might be wondering how Steph do I snag myself one of these 30 minute coaching calls. Like I need me a boom shakalaka strategy call. You know what I mean? So this is something that you have access to as a Stephanie gas student. So awesome. Here's your great news. If you are registered in clarify your calling or podcast pro university, you get access to 30 minute strategy calls with me where we can jam out basically any of this stuff, your strategy for your show, I'm putting together any missing pieces in your clarity work. Like I'm here to support you and to bring all the pieces full circle. And you guys have heard me do enough of these coaching episodes at this point to know that I don't mess around like 30 minutes, we are getting it done. So if you are a Stephanie gas student inside

EP 22 Feeling Stuck and Unsure How to Move Forward- 7 Simple Step System to Get Unstuck for Overwhelmed Moms Are you feeling so stuck that you're unsure of how to move forward? Well, today we're going to talk about the system for overwhelmed moms and how we can work on getting stuck. So let's get ready and let's get unstuck. Podcast: http://bit.ly/whollymadelifepodcast IG: @angietoninirogers Community: http://bit.ly/whollymadelifefbgroup   Angie’s Coaching Menu: Email: angietoninirogers@gmail.com   Wholly Made Life™ Short Assessment: http://bit.ly/shortassessment Podcast Episode Updates: https://angie.gr8.com/ Interested in learning how to start your own podcast? Take a look at this course to learn everything you need to know! Ppu.atrogers.com Welcome back to episode 22. And today we're going to talk about something really fun or maybe not, but I think it's, it's fun if we can just get it, but it's about feeling stuck. And are you feeling so stuck that you're unsure of how to move forward? Well, today we're going to talk about the system for overwhelmed moms and how we can work on getting stuck. So let's get ready and let's get unstuck. Welcome back to this episode of Wholly Made Life™. And before we get started, I have some openings for some coaching sessions, a half hour sessions and a couple of one hour sessions. But at any point, if you are interested in finding out more about doing an individual coaching session with me, you can email me at angietoninirogers@gmail.com. Or you can find me on Facebook or Instagram at Angie Tonini Rogers. All right, well, let's get into it today. So we're going to talk about feeling stuck. I know if you are anything like me at one point or another, you have felt stuck or maybe it is showing up as overwhelm or, being burnt out. And this happens a lot in the mental health, behavioral health world, with the nurses that I work with or in nursing in general. And I know it happens in the corporate world. I know it happens with mamas who have full-time jobs or own businesses, and it can pretty much happen with anyone anywhere time, but it is a place where we just feel like things are not going well. And it feels like things are piling up and we do not know what to do, where to go. And the thing about being burned out or in this place of overwhelm or feeling stuck is that no matter what you do, you feel like you get deeper and deeper. And the other thing it does is I feel like it puts these glasses on that are shaded with overwhelm or shaded with being burnt out or shaded with feeling stuck. So it's like we're looking through the lenses that change the world that we see because we're coming from a place of overwhelm being burnt out or feeling stuck. And I always talked to the nurses or the staff that I have about when they are feeling this way and reminding them that, you know, sometimes we're in a place of burnout or overwhelm or feeling stuck and we can do some things to come back from that. There's a point where we can make some changes. We can do some things and start to look through a lens that lets us see the world from a better perspective. Because when you are seeing the world through burnout, you tend to respond differently. You receive information differently, you perceive information differently. You perceive conversations differently. You attach meaning to things sometimes that if you weren't burnt out, or if you weren't overwhelmed, you would not normally attach that definition or attach those emotions to that instant that just happened. Or that moment that just happened. But because you've got these glasses on that you're seeing the world through burnout. You don't even realize sometimes that your emotions of being burnt out or tired or overwhelmed or just stuck are tainting the circumstances in which you're in. So other people around you may not be seeing it that way because they're not coming from this burnt out place. It's like this concept called the mood elevator. And

EP 21 3 Ways to Leave a Legacy of Love, Service, Value- Something My Kids Are Proud to Share (And They will Call me Blessed) What Will They Say about Me in My Obituary? Servant leadership at home Are you Leaving a Legacy? Attending 2 funerals this week and reflecting on a traumatic loss in my family over the last few months, it has me reflecting on what kind of legacy they left, and what kind of legacy I am leaving for my kids, husband, friends, co-workers, in my life. What would they say about me in my obituary? Would I be blessed enough to have the nice words read out loud about me as the things I heard today in a beautiful homegoing celebration, or in the thousands of posts on a fb page of a family member we tragically lost? Podcast: http://bit.ly/whollymadelifepodcast IG: @angietoninirogers Community: http://bit.ly/whollymadelifefbgroup Angie’s Coaching Menu: Email: angietoninirogers@gmail.com Wholly Made Life™ Short Assessment: http://bit.ly/shortassessment Interested in learning how to start your own podcast? Take a look at this course to learn everything you need to know! Ppu.atrogers.com Are you Leaving a Legacy? 3 Ways to Leave a Legacy- Love hard, Serve Others with a Servant Heart, and Give Value- Let others know they matter. Let them know they are loved. Attending 2 funerals this week and reflecting on a traumatic loss in my family over the last few months, it has me reflecting on what kind of legacy they left, and what kind of legacy I am leaving for my kids, husband, friends, co-workers, in my life. What would they say about me in my obituary? Would I be blessed enough to have the nice words read out loud about me as the things I heard today in a beautiful homegoing celebration, or in the thousands of posts on a fb page of a family member we tragically lost? As long as we have breath, we have an opportunity to make a difference; show others how important they are to us and to the world. Serve others, pay it forward. Show kindness.  What a beautiful tribute reflection on the lives of close loved ones we have lost. There is redemption, salvation, grace, mercy, and love. I was honored to have shared these moments with a friend.  Share your story of your loved one's legacy: https://bit.ly/whollymadelifefbgroup Email: atoninirogers@gmail.com    

EP 20: Change your Life by Doing this Daily for the Busy Working Mom. Morning Routine for the Professional Working Woman- Pray-Dry Brush-Happiness Essential Oil-Green Smoothie Get a daily routine that hits several pieces of your pie. Here’s mine. Pray (Prepares me for the spiritual warfare I may face for that day) Biblical Affirmations: Repeat words that I know God said about me Dry Brush with Happiness Essential Oil (awakens, activates, detoxifies, smooths skin) Green Smoothie Links for this episode: Need a dry brush? Here’s a great one here: DRY BRUSH Happiness Essential Oil Facebook Community (Wholly Made Life FB group) Welcome back sister today is episode 20! So we're going to talk today about personal and self care, but before we get started, I wanted to you give a thank you and a challenge. So I wanted to, I read a couple of reviews because I am having a small giveaway content to get to a hundred ratings, a hundred reviews. And just as a reminder, the way Apple podcasts works is that in order for the podcast to be seen by other women, when they are searching for podcasts, resonate to resonate with, in order for it to show up in the search, the ratings and the reviews, the more that you have, the better chance we get to show up in searches. So that's why reviews and ratings are so important. I am so grateful for those of you guys who have taken time to give the ratings and the reviews. And of course, I hope for five stars and a written review, if you're not able to give five stars, if you could email me instead, and let me know what feedback you have, because I want to hear the feedback. If it's not a five stars, I want to be able to correct it so that you can give me five stars. So email me at angietoninirogers@gmail.com. If you have some feedback that in order for you to give me five stars, I would need to do on the podcast, because I'm definitely here for it. I'm here for that feedback. But I also want the podcast to be able to be found so that we can create this community of women that we can help each other with and live life together. And the great way to do that, like I said, is to have five star reviews with written reviews. So I wanted to read a couple of reviews, Ellie C., , the Spanglish  “encouraging, thank you for the beautiful reminder that we are fearfully and wonderfully made and the encouragement to get all that God has for me. I will have the whole pie”. Well, amen sister. I pray that for you as well. Okay. The next one is Tammi L I think, and it says “living my whole life. Angie has a way about her. That is so encouraging. I can't wait to start to live my whole life. Holy made so awesome”. And that was a five star review. So thank you so much what my challenge, but a little giveaway is we’re trying to get to a 100 reviews and ratings. I will be giving away one of my favorite things. One of the favorite products that I use, and I will drop that into the mail as soon as we're able to hit that hundred, write a review. So if you do a review or rating, of course, I will have that there. I would encourage you to sign your name at the bottom so that I know how to find you otherwise. It just shows up as the, your Apple login. And sometimes that's not always indicative of who it is, leaving the review, sign, your name. And the second thing you can do is tag an episode or tag your review that you wrote, like screenshot it and then put it up in your Insta or Facebook stories and tag me so that I can keep of the review that you've done so that you can get into the drawing to win the giveaway. Okay. So I thought that might be fun. All right. So today we are going to get into personal care. So I don't know about you, but I used to, when I thought about personal self-care, I used to think about, you know, going to the spa and getting a massage and taking a girls trip or a trip by yourself or things like that. I have now realized that it's really more about the small everyday things you can do to take care

EP 18 Let’s Talk about Money! What does God say about finances, becoming rich, and successful working women? Connect with me: My email ==> angietoninirogers@gmail.com Connect with me==> https://angie.gr8.com/ Join My Community==>  https://www.facebook.com/groups/whollymadelife   Okay girls today, we're going to talk about  “Money, Money, Money, Money” . I don’t own the copyrights to that song and I'm sure it sounded nothing like what that song is supposed to sound like anyway. Well, we're going to talk about money today. We're going to talk about money. We're going to talk about what God has to say about finances. And We're going to talk about what you can do and your Piece of the pie for your finances. Let's get into it. Hey ladies, Welcome back to this episode of Wholly Made Life™. This is episode 18, and we're just going to talk about the financial pie today. And we're really just going to talk about what are the beliefs that you have around money, especially related to a equip a Christian view of what it is you've learned throughout your life about money. So I know there's that famous scripture that a lot of people have used to say that money. You shouldn't go after money and you, it's not okay to be rich and that kind of thing. So first Timothy 6: 10 talks about for the love of money is a root of all kinds of evils. It's through this craving that some have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves with many pangs. So it's important to note, number one, that this says the love of money is the root of all kinds of evils. It doesn't say that the money itself is evil. Money is just a vehicle. Money is just a tool. It's a resource to use, uh, much like if you have an idol and you are worshiping a golden calf, that statue itself by itself is not evil. The worshiping of that statue is evil. The act of worship for that idol, which is that gold star golden calf is the sin. Okay. So much like money is not sinful or evil in of itself. It's just a tool, but the love of money, which is greed is a sin. Okay. So, I think it was Dave Ramsey that said being rich will just amplify who you are, that means good or bad. So if you are a greedy person and you're not a giving person, then you will be more of that with the more money that you have, because you will use that tool or that vehicle in a way that doesn't line up with what the word of God says. That's a lot easier to say that money is evil, especially if you don't have it, because then there's kind of an excuse of, well, I don't need it because it's evil, but it also takes out our responsibility to work for money or work for what we earn it's takes away that need to be disciplined with that resource. So if you've got the mindset that, well, I don't have money and it's okay because I don't want the trouble that comes with money. Well, then that just means that we're not the responsibility and using the discipline, using what it is that God has blessed us with. There will be poor always, and there will be rich, always. The other thing too, is that when you think about rich and the definition, that's all in perspective, the reality is a lot of people in the United States, regardless of their circumstances, are rich compared to someone in another country. For example, I think I saw a stat, something like, you know, for every one person, uh, with an average salary of 20,000 or something like that per year, it's 160. People are in poverty in Bangladesh, I think is what the it was looking at. But the point is, is that what is rich? What even is that? What does that look like to you? Because there are different ways and the scripture talks about this as well. There are different way, ways to be rich. Rich doesn't have to equal money or, uh, things. There's another scripture in Matthew 19, it talks about it's easier for a camel to get through the eye of a needle than for someone who is rich to enter the kingdom of God. So that's another popular scripture that people bring up, but that was in context to a young, rich ruler who was not able to give up what God asked him to give up. It wasn't about his riches. It was about his inability to give up what God asked him to give up or what Jesus asked him to give up, give up all your belongings and things and come follow me. He wasn't able to choose at that point Jesus, over his materials, which means he held those materials in money, in as an idol. Okay. So that's the difference, understanding that it is not about the tool. It's not about how much money you have. It's about what you do with it and what heart you're doing it with. It is no secret that God asked us to give. There are. So, I mean, there are hundreds of scriptures about money. Deuteronomy 8:18 It says, you shall remember the Lord, your God for it is he who gives you power to get wealth that he may confirm his covenant, that he sort of your fathers as it is this day, Philippians four 19 says, and my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory, in Christ. So the money and the blessing and the favor and all of your things come from God in the first place. So that's the other thing is that remembering that what you already have has been given to you as a gift from God, and he will only give us what we are ready and disciplined enough to steward. There's a lot of scripture about borrowing. It's clear that we are directed to not put ourselves in so much debt that we are in slaved to the lender. Proverbs 22:7 says the rich rules over the poor and the borrower is the slave of the lender, Romans 13: 19, Oh, no one. Anything except to love each other for the one who loves another has fulfilled the law and Psalms 37:21 is the wicked borrows, but does not pay back. But the righteous is generous and gifts. So that's where we're being told to give that speaks to not that we're bad people, if we have to take a loan on something, but it's about the discipline and the stewardship in which we choose to do those things. So it's just about being mindful about what it is we are asking to borrow and what it's for 1 Corinthians 16: 12 says on the first day of every week, each of you is to put something aside and store it up as he may prosper so that there will be no collecting when I come. So that's about saving and being disciplined. Again, being disciplined with the money that we've been blessed with. Finally, the, this whole point about giving. If we have been blessed with a lot of money, a lot of materials, this also includes our gifts that we've been given. Then we are to give to others. It's always better to receive, to give than to receive. That's an acts 20 to 35. It's always blessed. It's more blessed to give than to receive. If we have a mindset of that, it's about, we should always be looking at, are we putting our money as an idol? I'll use my personal example. When I felt that God was asking me to leave my position and my job, my salary, and give it to an offering to him as I processed that and prayed about sought counsel on that from a few of my close people that I trust that will give me the feedback I need. That's also in alignment with God's word. It was about what I was placing as an idol in my job, my career, I was in a sense idolizing that that had become what I trusted in. I trusted my job to provide for me. I trusted myself to provide for me. I depended on my own actions and gifts that I had been given by God, my own actions to ensure that we were provided for that became an idol. It wasn't that the salary was bad. In fact, I believe that I was blessed with that position when it got to the point where that I was trusting that as my provision, in my own actions, it was revealed to me that that was like an idol in my life. So I had to be reminded that he would provide for me and that I needed to put him first when we're out, trying to make money. Yes, that is an end result of what happens for paid for the value that we provide in the workflow, in the workplace. Or if we have a business, we are paid for the value that we provide to others. And so we get compensated for that. There's nothing wrong with that. The problem Proverbs 31 woman, profited from providing value in the marketplace with things that she made with her hands and trading that she did, there's nothing wrong with that. It says, keep your life free from the love of money and be content with what you have for. He has said, I will never leave you nor forsake you. So if you get into a place where you're forgetting, who's providing that blessing in that favor in the first place, then you might be in a place where you need to reassess and make sure if you're stewarding what he's given you in the way that's in alignment with God, I'm not going to get into tithing necessarily in this episode. But I do think that it's worth your time to pray about how much should you be giving back to God, whether that's through ministry that you're paying, paying into or a donation to a charity or to your church. Certainly if you have a church house that you go to, you should be pouring back into that church house, because that's where you're going to get fed spiritually and scripturally. That certainly shouldn't be the only place that you're getting that, but that's the community in which you guys are supporting and supported that you receive the word of God. So, and you should support the ministries that your community plays a part in. I think that's a part of our responsibility. When we are blessed with money, we should be spending that money to give back to God and whatever that means for you. You have to pray about that and understand what percentage that should be, where you should focus that money. There is plenty of evidence in the Bible that we should be giving back to God. And that's another way that we can show that we trust him in providing for us. It says that it'll come back to us many times over when we give, okay, so actionable items about finances. Number one, write down on a piece of paper. What are the top five things that you believe about money? And then once you have those things, assess where those are coming from, and if they're based in truth, then great. If they're based in information that may or may not be in alignment with the truth, then those are the things you got to look at and see what behaviors are coming out of those beliefs. Okay. For example, if you, aren't giving a portion of your money back to supporting something from God church, a non-profit sponsoring a child, whatever it is that you pray about and decide, that's how you're going to give back to God. If you're not doing that, why is that? Is it that you don't trust in the provision that you've been given? Is it that you don't think that you'll have enough? Is it that you love your money and you don't want to give it away? Assess why it is you are holding on to that. Okay. That's just an example. If you think that money is evil or you've realized that money is evil, then get into the Bible and read about that or seek some counsel about why it is you believe that and what you can do differently to steward what it is God's giving you. And to actually go out and increase, because if we are in abundance, then we can give to others abundantly. And I believe that that's what God wants. I believe God wants us to receive from him so that it's overflowing. If it's overflowing and we have a heart of giving and love for God and love for our brothers and sisters, then we would want to give our overflow. And that will only enhance the kingdom here on earth. Here's another tip that I would give you related to money. And it would be to make sure that you have a savings of at least $1,000. Now some of you may be saying, Oh my goodness, I'm living paycheck to paycheck as it is. I can't even fathom having a thousand dollars savings, but just start small. Think about what are you doing every single week that you could go without, for example, a Starbucks, can you do a coffee at home instead and say that six, seven, eight, nine bucks. And if you're getting two or three of those a week, then a month worth of Starbucks, think about how much that could be in a savings account. The key is for savings is that you always want to have a thousand dollars in a savings account in case something crazy happens with health, with a, like a copay you have to pay, um, with health insurance, uh, ER, visit, or let's say you need a new battery on your car, new brakes, whatever. If you have a thousand bucks in a savings account that takes the pressure off and you are so much more able to steward your finances in a way that is not from a lack mentality, I guess, or anxiety driven situation. When you're faced with an emergency, I've had this for the past, probably four years where I've had a thousand dollars in savings that I do not touch, unless there has been some sort of emergency. And let me tell you something, there have been several we've had to buy a new engine. We've had to buy a new set of tires. We had to buy a new water heater, an MRI that we had to get and pay for out of pocket. So when you have a thousand bucks sitting in your savings account that, you know, you can use for emergencies. And what I do is write down what kinds of things constitute an emergency so that I don't touch it. And I also have an account that I don't have a debit card attached to. I don't have any way to get to it without having to go to the bank to get it. That keeps me from dipping into that. That would be a way to be responsible and use discipline in stewarding the money that God's giving us back to that if you have anything in your life that you can look at to say, okay, if I stopped getting a Starbucks and I only got one once a week, then how much money would that be? And let me put it into a savings until I hit a thousand bucks. And then of course you don't touch it until you've got that emergency. And once you have that emergency, then you start sacrificing one Starbucks a week or whatever it is for you. I don't even drink coffee y'all so I just know how much people spend on Starbucks. And it's like, Oh my gosh, that's a way that you can quickly get to a thousand bucks in your savings account. And I am telling you, it will take so much pressure off your back and so much anxiety away from a situation that might come up when you have to pay for that MRI or the brakes go out or whatever it is. Okay. Those are the two things. Write down what your beliefs are about money, figure out where they come from and then figure it, make sure you've got a thousand bucks in a savings account. And then once you get that, then you start working on paying down whatever debts you might have, credit cards, et cetera. And I don't know if you've ever heard of Dave Ramsey's snowball to pay off quickly. So basically the debt snowball real quick. And we did this with all of our credit, except for we've got four things left. We've got the cars, we've got the house and I've got student loans that I'm still working on. Take a look at Dave Ramsey stuff. There's all kinds of stuff out there about the snow, that snowball. So that's the other thing that I would work on. As you know, I'm not working in a full-time job right now, I'm doing coaching. And by the way, you can get coaching. If you would like to get coaching, uh, half hour sessions and one hour sessions, and you are welcome to email me at Angie, tonyRogers@gmail.com, but I'm doing coaching. I'm doing some teaching and that kind of thing. So what has come in very handy is that I had worked these past said four, but probably about five years paying off everything saving so that when I was able to give up my job, give up that salary that we have, we are still, okay, God has provided. He has sent me some clients. He has sent me different opportunities that I can take a part in that still allows me to have the flexibility to be working from home. So it's been amazing that God has provided. He does what he says. He's going to do guys, listen, like I said, I still got cars and a house and student loan debt to pay off. So I'm still working on that as well. None of us have it exactly as we want it, but it's about making small steps. So in your financial bucket or in your financial piece of pie, you've talked about what are your beliefs about money? You're working on making small steps so that you can get that thousand bucks in a savings and then you start working on your debt. Okay. And it doesn't have to be that overwhelming look at today. What you can do differently today, maybe you don't buy the Starbucks or today. Maybe you don't take that target run, which I don't know about you, but I can't get out of target under a hundred bucks. So I just don't go as much as possible. I've actually, I think I've been to target one time since I stopped. It's working full time, uh, in a nine to five in a corporate job. I do that on purpose. I do that intentionally because I know that it is hard for me to get out of target under a hundred bucks. So anyway, just making some daily different steps that you can take like that. Okay. All right, ladies, make sure that you join us over in the Facebook group, because that is a community of women that are supporting each other in each area of our lives. None of us have it all together in any parts of our, and every parts of our life, but all of us have strengths and areas for growth that we can either help someone else with. If it's our strength or we can receive from others whose strengths are maybe our areas of growth. Okay. All right, ladies, I'll see. On the inside of the group.  

Is your motherhood a mess- how to make sure your kids are seen and heard in less than 15 minutes a day Useful links: Take the quick "Wholly Made Life Assessment" Have a question or comment? Email Angie here: atoninirogers@gmail.com Get all the updates & new episodes first! I want to hear the episodes first! Connect with Angie on FB: toninirogers_facebook Connect with Angie in her Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/whollymadelife Interested in learning how to start your own podcast? Take a look at this course to learn everything you need to know! ppu.atrogers.com If you enjoyed this episode of the Wholly Made Life Podcast, then make sure to subscribe to the podcast, and don't forget to give Angie a review. You can also take a screenshot of the episode and tag Angie in your Insta and Facebook stories. What does Motherhood being a Mess even mean?  How do you define Motherhood? What does it mean to be a mother?  How do I know if I'm doing motherhood the right way? Am I failing as a mother? Where did I learn how to be a mother?  Who defines whether I'm a good mom or not? How can I see or hear my kids every day?  How can I spend time with my kids every day? Use the technique of Be Here Now. Be present in the moment. Don't focus on the past or the future. Focus on right now. Avoid multitasking. Focus on the person in front of you for 15 minutes per day. Use time blocking to schedule time with your kids. Be intentional about spending time with your kids.  Don't compare yourself to other mothers. God gave you your children on purpose, for a purpose.  Join a community of other mothers to learn from them, share your stories, give your testimony, empower each other, encourage each other. Sisterhood, Friendships, Motherhood Welcome back to episode 17. And today we're going to talk about, is your motherhood a mess and how to make sure your kids are seen or heard in 15 minutes or less a day. All right. So the first thing I want to start with is talking about motherhood, being a mess. First of all, I want to know what does your motherhood being a mess even mean? Can you even define what your motherhood being a mess is? What does that look like to you? What does it feel like to you? Who says it's messy. Okay. You know, in the garden where God asked Adam and Eve, once they were, uh, covering themselves with the leaves, he asked them who told you, you were naked. Well, who has told you that your motherhood is a mess? Has someone told you that? Or are you telling yourself that? And where did you get the idea that your motherhood is a mess? So I want you to first think about really, I really want you to think about what does your motherhood being a mess mean? Like where do you get that definition from? What does that look like? What are you using to define or judge that your motherhood is a mess. But when I started thinking about this, as far as when you hear people say, Oh, my motherhood's a mess, I'm a mess. Um, I'm like, well, what does that mean? That you're a mess or that your motherhood is a mess. And who, or where do you get those thoughts who are aware? Do you get those definitions? And so my thought was, I couldn't really think of how motherhood was a mess, which also meant that if I can't really define what motherhood being messy is then can I even define what motherhood should look like? Like, what is motherhood look like if it's not a mess, can, I mean, can any of you guys even define it? What I'd love is for you to hop over to the Facebook community, Holy made life. And let's talk about this because I want to hear your ideas of what motherhood being messy is, or your motherhood being a messes. If your motherhood wasn't a mess, what would it look like to you? Is there a picture in your head that you think of that motherhood should be? Is there something that you're thinking of as motherhood being defined as what it should look like, feel like, and what is that? If not, then how do you even know if you're doing it right? Or how do you even know that you're not doing it right? If you don't even know the answer to what motherhood is or what being a good mom looks like, then how in the world do we ever achieve being a good mother or achieve motherhood, not being messy. You know, it's kinda like that. It's kind of like saying, um, you know what? I want you to go. I'm talking to my kid, Hey, go and get that. Watch them a call it, my kids like, okay, what's that? Where's that? How do you get there? What do you do? Where do I go? What am I looking for? Right. So if you're not even realizing what you're looking for or what it's supposed to look like or where to go to find it or what to do to get it, then how are you ever going to achieve? What quote, unquote, motherhood, not being a mess. It's you can't sit there and compare yourself to something or someone or somewhere that you don't even know what it is you're going after. Like how do you even know what motherhood not being a mess is if you don't know how to define it, you know what? And if I say to my kid, Hey, go get that Shema last day. I mean, if he doesn't know what he's looking for, then how in the world are either enough, either of us and I get to this shallow Mosty, look, I don't even know what the word was. Cause I made it up. Cause I don't even know what I'm asking for. Right. I don't even know what it is. My goal is when I talk about motherhood, not being a mess. So the actual definition of motherhood is the States of being a mother. Okay. The state of being a mother, that's it. Everything else we're talking about, everything else you're saying, thinking of is actually outside of the definition of motherhood. So if you're attaching other things to the word, then at least let's have an awareness of where we're pulling that information from. Is it social media? Is it motherhood magazine? Is it cosmopolitan? Is it, um, what to expect when you're expecting? I mean, to mother means to be a mother means to bring up a child with care and affection. So my guess is, is that on a daily basis, you are probably doing exactly what you should be to bring your child up with care and affection. You're looking after someone protectively and kindly. Okay. That's the other definition that you see as far as to mother and then finally to mother is to give birth to, so if you've given birth to your children and you're bringing up a child with Karen affection, well, you are succeeding in motherhood. So I think the, the point is here is that let's be really careful about defining our motherhood and the success of how good of a mother we are by things that are not necessarily meant to define the state of our motherhood, the state of being a mother. Now, what we're probably describing are things that we experienced during motherhood, right? It's hard, it's exhausting. Sometimes it doesn't feel as rewarding as we would like it to. Sometimes we feel like we have failed in a situation because we lost our patients or lost our temper or we yelled. Or we said something that we shouldn't have said in anger. Sometimes I think that when we think about our motherhood being a mess, it's talking about the experiences as we care for our children. So I just want us to be mindful of let's at least first define where it is. We are getting our definition of what makes us a good mother and what makes us, and also let's put it in perspective because if you look at your motherhood, well, all of us are still mothering. If we have children or we have adopted children, or we've taken someone into our home to, um, bring up with care and affection, then we are still in the process of mothering. We are still in the state of being a mother. So you can't mess up the entire motherhood in one day because you're always in process of being a mother. And that will continue until the day you die. Sometimes we make it bigger than what it needs to be. And we make it this big abstract thing out there that defines our entire state of motherhood. Instead of thinking about what can I do today to be a good mother. So that's what I want to talk about is let's make it small enough so that every single day we can practice being a good mother and we can learn to be a better mother tomorrow or later today, even. I mean, when you think about your kids and you think about, I mean, I want my kids to be successful. I want him to contribute to community. I want him to make an impact in the world. Well, that's all great and fine. And absolutely, of course we want our children to contribute to society and be positive members of the community, but that doesn't happen today in, in all end of things, right? It doesn't happen today. And that's the end of it. It's an ongoing process because our children are growing every day and learning every day and becoming who they're supposed to be every day. Just like we are as women, as wives, as mothers, as bosses, as sisters, as friends, right? So our children are always going to continue to grow and learn just like we do. So it doesn't happen in one day. But what can we can do is start to focus today. How can we be successful in being a mother today? So I want to break down a technique that I like to use. And, um, it's called being in the moment or be here now. And what that does is it gives us the opportunity to really focus on our children in the moment. And this is not just a technique for motherhood. This is a technique for any relationship that you may have. So an example of this outside of motherhood would be if you're in a meeting at work or at the church or wherever you are on a zoom meeting, how many of us are doing other things while we're at the meeting, maybe we're looking at our phone. Maybe we're sending emails. Maybe we are checking our Apple watch. Um, I don't have an Apple watch, but a lot of people do. So what that means is that we're multitasking. And if you're multitasking, it's impossible to focus on one thing at a time. It's impossible to give your attention fully to the person or persons that are in front of you. Being here now is an intentional acts that we can take that allows us to be present in the moment. We're not in the past thinking about everything we should have woulda coulda done. And we're not in the future missing. What's happening right now in the present we're here now. And the technique is to really be intentional about being present in the moment at what's happening right now. So we are listening intently to the person that's in front of us. So when you think about your child and I am so guilty of this, so I've had to start being intentional about one particular thing that I'm going to tell you here in just a minute, but I'm so guilty of all of a sudden, I'll hear my kids say, mom, mom, and I'll be, and it'll be very urgent and pressured. And I'll be like, what? He's like, I called you 12 times and you have ignored me. You haven't answered me. And I literally didn't hear it. Him calling me yet. He's been in the background yelling my name 12 different times, several different times until finally I heard him because he's screaming in my face. Mom, mom, that's an example of me being present in physicality with my son in the same room, but not being present to him or for him. And usually what's happening is I'm either on the phone, maybe I'm on social media, maybe I'm checking emails, maybe I'm reading texts or sending texts. Maybe I'm watching TV, which is the least likely out of all of those things. So what you can do part of the title was how to make sure your kids are seen or heard in 15 minutes or less a day. What you can do is let's just start with today and 15 minutes, okay? Let's dedicate 15 minutes where you put everything else away, no phone, no social media, no texting, no TV. And you're looking at your child. And your intention is to listen to understand what it is your child needs, what they want, what they want to do. And also if you're looking at your child, you see their body language, their eye contact, their fidget, And you notice so many of them, More things. If you are being here now, while you are not only listening to the words or listening to the sound, but you're looking at them and you're listening to the entire person, you're watching the way their head moves, their eyes, their hands, their body, you're watching them shift uncomfortably. When they're talking about a certain thing, some of these things you miss, or I miss, you know, I'm guilty of this too. Some of these things that I have missed in the past, or even today present, if I'm not practicing the be here now, and this is something you have to practice, but you're missing all of those extra cues and extra opportunities to connect with the person in front of you because you're preoccupied or you're not fully listening. Or sometimes we listen to respond. Instead of listening to understand, if we're just listening to understand, then we're really trying to put ourselves in their shoes. We're trying to intentionally use empathy and understanding. Versus if you're listening to respond, you're thinking about what it is. You can say next. So as you're listening, you're in your head thinking what you're going to say next. Well, you cannot do two things at once. You can't really listen to what they're saying and pay attention to their body language and everything else. And also come up with your next response. So the technique is a specific, intentional action that you take in order to be present in the moment. And it's called be here. Now, you're not thinking about the past and you're not thinking about the future. You're right here right now. So what if you scheduled 15 minutes a day with each child to either have a conversation or maybe it's to play Legos, maybe you give that choice to the child about what it is he or she wants to do for that timeframe. And you look at them, you interact with them. Maybe it's just to sit with them. Maybe it's just the cuddle. How much more effective can you be at listening and connecting with your child if you're being present in the moment without other distractions? So that's the biggest tip that I have is to be here now. And certainly we can't do it all the time because we are moms and we do wear a lot of hats. But a lot of what we've talked about in a of a lot of these past episodes are ways to be intentional about what it is we're doing. So this is another skill that you can practice and be intentional about practicing it. Something else that I've done for the past two weekends is turn off social media. On Friday nights, I have not checked messages. I have turned off the notifications to my messages on Instagram and Facebook, and I haven't needed to delete the app. But if you're a type of person that will just click it out of boredom or click it when there's nothing else to do, then maybe you need to delete the app altogether. What if you do it just for the 15 minutes that you are going to dedicate to being with your child today. Okay. And this is the thing make it about today. Because again, when you think about motherhood as a whole, yeah, that's really overwhelming to think about all the times we've messed up all the times I've messed up, done the wrong thing, said the wrong thing. Um, yelled too loud, you know, responded in a way that was impatient or an anger. If I think about all those things all the time, that's really overwhelming, but we know about God's grace and we know about his mercy. And so that's what keeps me from just going kind of nuts is because I know that God can fill in the gaps where I wasn't able to, you know, be the best that I could be. Okay. So the focus is, is to be present, be specific, be intentional about, just start with 15 minutes a day, you can do anything for 15 minutes a day, right? When you look at it like that instead of a lifetime of motherhood or even a year or a week, when you think about it in just today. So today, what can I do to let my child know that I love him and that he's important and that I'm hearing him, you can do 15 minutes a day, right? Use that technique be here. Now let me know how it goes. I would love to hear an example of what you did to try to be here now, eliminate distractions, and really listen to understand in the moment, I'd love to hear your testimonies about how you were able to do that. What worked for you, what didn't work for you. And I think in the community, in the Facebook community, there's a lot of sisters in there that can resonate with what it is. You tried, what it is that worked, and then maybe what it is that didn't work because that's the other key to there. So the second thing I want to bring up real quick is you're going to be here now. And you're going to think about it just today to make it more manageable and make it more bite-size. But the, so it's really the third thing. First thing is be here. Now, second thing is to talk about just today, what can you do today to be here now? And third is to get in community with other mothers. I promise you, there are other mothers that you can be in community with that struggle, same places that you and I do when we're in community. And we can talk to each other and support each other, encourage each other, give each other our own testimonies of successes and failures, then better for it. And you know, my pastor said something the other day that I was like, yeah, that's so true. You know, you'd say, you know, that saying of it takes a village to raise a child. Well, it takes a village to raise me as an adult. It takes a village or a community to raise and grow me because we're never stopping in our growth. Right? We are continuing to grow. And if we're continuing to always grow and we're continuing to always be raised up in Christ, then our community is a place that God has called us to, to live that out with walk out that thing together in life. And so community is the, the third thing that I want to encourage you to get into a community, whether it's a Facebook group or any other place, maybe it's your church group. Um, maybe it's a group of friends, but get into community with moms. Talk about it and remember to be here. Now, when you're listening to that, mama share her story because maybe you have some advice for her, uh, that she hasn't thought of. Yeah. Maybe a word of encouragement or maybe a, yeah, me too. I feel that way too. Okay. Okay. All right, girls, let me just pray about this with you guys, because it's just about being strengthened and being realistic about what the expectations of motherhood are, understanding that you were given your children on purpose for a purpose. No other mother can raise her children. Like you can, you were put there on purpose. God knew exactly what he was doing by putting you in the spot to raise that seed, to raise your child. And he also puts you in the communities that you're connected with on purpose as well, because it does take a village to raise a child, but it takes a village to raise each other too. We're always growing. So are our children. So you never failed. As long as you don't quit, you've never failed. You can't fail if you don't quit. Okay. And every day is a new day. Heck every minute is a new is a new minute. So I messed up this past half hour. Well, let's take a 15 minutes and let's not mess up. Let's actually, um, do what we say we were going to do. And let's be here now for the next 15 minutes. And that could impact our child way more than just happened 30 minutes ago. Okay. So give yourself some grace. Okay. None of us are meant to be perfect. None of us are meant to be the perfect mother and none of us are ever going to achieve the perfect motherhood. Quote, unquote, I'm doing air quotes right now. None of us are going to achieve motherhood while we're still alive, because it's an ongoing thing. It's it never ends. We will always be a mother and we always have an opportunity every minute that goes by, we have another opportunity. So I know that each of us can be empowered to do the best that we can do in just 15 minutes. Break it down to however small you need to break it down to, to make it work. Don't make it so big that you feel like it's a goal that you can never reach. And certainly do not compare yourself to other mothers that you see, because the reality is you don't live 24 seven with that mother and you don't know everything that happens in that home. And so you're only comparing yourself to what the story that you're telling yourself about what you see in front of your eyes, whether it's on social media or in a magazine or on TV or whatever it is. You're, um, you're, you're pulling that information from just remember, that's not a reality. That's the reality that you've created and told your story about, okay, that's not, you don't live their life and you don't know what's happening in their home. So don't compare your state of motherhood with other mothers. Certainly let's be in community and talk and encourage and empower with each other, but let's not compare ourselves to each other. Okay? God, I want to thank you today for my sisters, my friends, my fellow mothers. And I just ask that you give us each the clarity and, uh, about what it is you're calling us to do and how it is that you want us to serve our children, let us be attentive to the needs of our children. Let us have the strength that we need to, uh, stay in patients to use wisdom and discernment. When it is we're responding to whatever happens with our children and help us know that you are standing in the gaps when we have not done what we felt like we should have done and let us not be condemned. There's no condemnation in Christ. So there's no guilt or shame. That's not of God. We want to be accountable. God point out to us, let the Holy spirit convict us where we need to be convicted and help us repent, which means turn away from those things that we've done that are damaging to ourselves and to others. But give us the strength to walk in grace and mercy, as you have given us and give us the strength to walk in. Love the love that you have shown us. Let us show that love to our children. Thank you for all that you've done in the name of Jesus. Amen. Okay, sisters, uh, don't forget to join us over on the Facebook group. Holy made life. I can't wait to see you over there until then. I'll see you on the next episode.  

EP 16 Who does God Say that I am- What does God Say About You- Seeing Yourself in Scripture- True Identity in Christ Jesus   Take the quick "Wholly Made Life Assessment" here: com Have a question or comment? Email Angie here: atoninirogers@gmail.com Connect with Angie on FB: toninirogers_facebook Connect with Angie in her Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/whollymadelife Interested in learning how to start your own podcast? Take a look at this course to learn everything you need to know! atrogers.com   If you enjoyed this episode of the Wholly Made Life Podcast, then make sure to subscribe to the podcast, and don't forget to give Angie a review. You can also take a screenshot of the episode and tag Angie in your Insta and Facebook stories.   Welcome back, sisters, to this episode, 16 of Wholly Made Life. So I'm going to go over a continuation of our spiritual piece of our pie. I really wanted to talk through something I talked about in the last episode, episode 15, about our spiritual piece of the pie and where I referenced, focusing on who God says that I am. And I wanted to go through some of these things, because I think it's important to, if you're not used to using the words in the Bible, the truth in the Bible of who God says that you are, then this could actually change your life. So I'm just going to start off by going through some of the words that I wrote down. And I read to myself every single morning for almost a year so that I could remind myself of the truth so that my mind would be transformed and be perseverating on the truth versus the lies. And this made up stories that we tell ourselves. So who does God say that you are? What does God say about you? And how can you see yourself as God sees you in the scriptures? What is your true identity in Christ? Jesus? So here's some of the things. Here's what I want you to say to yourself. I am loved. I am worthy. I am purposed. I am his, I belong. I am called. I am chosen. I am royalty. I am an heir. I am accepted. I am adopted. I am fearfully and wonderfully made. I am created in his image. I am redeemed. I am restored and renewed and refined. I am saved. I am forgiven. I am transformed. I am valuable. I am spirit filled. I am powerful. I am mighty. I am strengthened. I am able, I am free. I am sealed and delivered. I am faithful. I am a friend of Jesus. I am full of peace. I am lavished by grace, a child of light. I am Holy and righteous. I'm a Saint, a steward, a servant and a soldier. I'm a witness and a worker. I am victorious. I'm a citizen of heaven. I'm no longer a slave to sin. I'm an ambassador for Jesus. I'm set apart and sanctified. I'm a special possession. I'm made new. I'm anointed. I'm triumphed. I'm joined with the Lord. I'm one with him in spirit. I am blameless before God. I am God's workmanship. I am blessed and favored. I'm covered protected. I am safe on salt of the earth, light of the world. I'm completely forgiven. I'm a temple of the Holy spirit. I am bold, courageous, confident I am above and not beneath the head and not the tail. I am more than a conqueror and an overcomer. I'm justified by grace. I'm a quit. I'm rescued. I'm complete. I am whole, I am healed. I am far from oppression. I will not live in fear. Belonged to him. I'm intricately woven. I am seated in high places. I'm raised up with Christ. I'm made alive in Christ. I've given access to the father. I'm a member of the body. I'm a member of God's household. I am given hope. I am given faith. I am given peace. I am given mercy. Okay. So I don't know about you, but if I read these things to myself every single day, and I'm reminded of all of those things, I don't know how you can't walk with your head up and shoulders back and chest out and walk powerfully. And in the authority and dominion that he has given us. Those are powerful things that God says about that about us. And Ephesians is one of the best places to go to read through what God says about you. Uh, in Ephesians four, he says things like I can mature spiritually. I can be certain of God's truth. I can have a new attitude and a new lifestyle in Ephesians five and six. He says things like, I can honor God through my marriage. I can parent my child with composure. I have God's power. I can stand firm in the face of evil. Okay. So I, again, just wanting to give you some of these things that I wrote down and you don't have to write down all of these things, but certainly I don't know about you, but before your feet hit the floor in the mornings, if you read through all of these things out loud, number one, what you profess with your mouth is real and it's powerful. And also why not just shake up the devil and let the devil know, Hey, I'm getting ready to get up. And my feet hit the floor and I am God's warrior. Okay. I'm God's woman of God. And I am all those things that I just shouted out loud. Here's another couple of things. So there's a lot of places in the new Testament, Ephesians Romans, uh, John, and first John Corinthians, Galatians, Philippians Colassians Timothy Corinthians. I think I said that first and second Corinthians, Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John. Those are all, some great places to find yourself in how God sees you and how it is confirmed by the truth of scripture. Some other places in the old Testament are going to be Proverbs, Proverbs 31. I think all of you guys probably know that Proverbs 31 is related to, you know, you've heard about the Proverbs 31 woman. So I'm just going to read a little bit of the Proverbs 31 women, because this kind of also speaks to eludes to who it is that God says that you are so a good, woman's hard to find and worth far more than diamonds. Her husband trusts her without reserve and never has a reason to regret it. Never spiteful. She treats him generally all her life long. She shops around for the best yarns and cottons and enjoys knitting and sewing. She's like a trading ship that sails to far away places and brings back exotic surprises. She's up before Dawn preparing breakfast for her family and organizing her day. She looks over a field and buys it. Then with the money she's put aside, she plants a garden. First thing in the morning, she dresses for work, rolls up her sleeves, eager to get started. She senses the worth of her work and is in no hurry to call it quits for the day. She's skilled in the craft and of home and heart diligent and homemaking. She's quick to assist anyone in need. She reaches out to help the poor. She doesn't worry about our family. When it snows though, their winter clothes are all mended and ready to wear. She makes her own clothing and dresses and clubs, colorful, linens, and selves. Her husband's greatly respected it. And when he deliberates with the city fathers, she designs gallons and sells and bring sweaters. She nits to the dress. Shop. Her clothes are well-made and elegant. She's always faces tomorrow with a smile. When she speaks, she has something worthwhile to say, and she always says it kindly. She keeps an eye on everyone in our household and keeps them all busy and productive. Her children respect and bless her. Her, her, her husband joins in with words of praise. Many women have done wonderful things, but you have outclassed them. All charm can mislead. And beauty soon fades the woman to be admired. And praise is the woman who lives in the fear of God. So she's, God-fearing give her everything she deserves. And I Dorn her life with praises. So I think that some of us are overwhelmed sometimes when we read this about, Oh my goodness, this was like an amazing woman. And certainly she is, but we are the Proverbs 31 women. We are this woman and it doesn't mean we have to be perfect and do all these things, but we are blessed. We are admired. We are respected. We are treating people with kindness. You know, we are going to work, whether it's in our homestead where we're the CEO of our own home, or we are, have a career that we are bringing home, the bread, the bacon giving part of the finances. Maybe some of us own some of our own businesses. Maybe some of us own some of our side, a side hustle. So we're doing these things and these things point to some of those declarations that I just went through. Uh, another place to look is Psalms one Oh three so quickly. I want to read through this one. And these are all messaged, translations. All my soul. Bless God from head to toe. All bless his Holy name. All my soul. Bless God. So don't forget a single blessing. He forgives your sins. You're forgiven. He heals your diseases. Every one you're healed. He redeemed you from hell. He saves your life. You're redeemed and saved. He crowns you with love and mercy. Aperitifs crown. You are royalty. He wraps you in goodness, beauty, eternal. He renews your youth. You are renewed. You're always young in his presence. God makes everything come out, right? He puts the victims back on their feet. You're victorious. He showed Moses how he went about his work, opened up his plans to all Israel. You have wisdom and discernment. God is sheer mercy and grace not easily angered. He's rich in love. He, you are loved. He doesn't endlessly, nag and schooled or nor hold grudges forever. He doesn't treat us as our sins deserve nor pay us back in full of our wrongs. As high as heaven is over earth. So strong. It's his love to those who fear him. We're God-fearing and we're strengthened by him. And as far as sunrises from sunset, he has separated us from our sin. As parents feel for their children. God feels for those who fear him. He knows us inside and out for. He knows the plans that he has for us. That's in Jeremiah 29 11. He keeps us in mind that we're made of mud. He created us in his image by his own hints. Men and women don't live very long, like wild flowers. They spring up in blossom, but a storm snuff them out just as quickly leaving nothing to show. They were here. We are destined for higher places where we're seated in high places. God's love though is ever an always eternally present to all who fear him, making everything right for them and their children. As they follow his covenant ways and remember to do whatever he said, God has set, had set his throne in heaven. We are seated in high places. He rules over all of us, the Lord, God omnipotent reigns. And we are adopted by him. We are in air to his kingdom. He's the King. So bless God. You angels ready and able to fly at his bid and quick to hear and do what he says. Bless God. All you armies of angels alert to respond to whatever he will bless God, all creatures, wherever you are, everything. And everyone made by God and you. Oh my soul. Bless God. That was Psalms one Oh three with my interjections of some of these declarations that we just read. Okay. And then finally, what I want to point out is Psalms 91. This one has kind of helped me set fast through the whole COVID situation. When I was trying to keep my hospital safe and I'm making decisions that impacted patients and staff. So Psalms 91, you who sit down and the God in high God's presence spend the night and it should eyes shadow. Say this God, you're my refuge. He's our safe place I trust in you. And I'm safe. That's right. He rescues you from hidden traps. We are rescued shields. You from deadly hazards. We are covered in protected his huge outstretched arms protect you under them. You're perfectly safe. His arms bent off all harm, fear, nothing not while Wilson, the night not flying arrows in the day. Not disease that prowess of the darkness, not disaster that erupts at high noon, even though other succumb all around drop like flies, right? And left, no harm will even graze you. You are more than a conqueror. You'll stand untouched. Watch it all from a distance. Watch the wicked turn into corpses. Yes, because God's your refuge. The high God, your very own home evil can not get close to you. Harm can not get through that door. He ordered his angels to guard you wherever you go. If you stumble, they'll catch you. Their job is to keep you from falling. You'll walk unharmed among lions and snakes and kick young lions and serpents from the pack. If you'll hold onto me for dear life says, God, I'll get you out of any trouble. I'll give you the best of care. If you'll only get to know and trust me, call me and I'll answer be at your side at that in bad times, I'll rescue you. Then throw you a party. I'll give you a long life. I'll give you a long drink of salvation. So that Psalms 91 also is another way that it confirms all of these declarations that are in the new Testament about who God says we are. And if we're created in God's image, then everything that you know about God should be a new revelation about yourself. How deep is that? Think about that. If we're made in God's perfect image, then every new revelation we have about God, our father should be a new revelation about who we are. We're made in his image sisters. So if we're made in his image, then every revelation I have about him is about me. It's about you. So I want you to be encouraged today. I want you, if you have not done this exercise, I plead with you. I challenge you to write down the declarations about the I AMS that God says about you. And if you need to start in place, start in Ephesians, write down those declarations that God says about you and read them out loud before your feet hit the floor every single day, just do it for the next 30 days. And then I dare you to come back to me and say that you don't feel more empowered. You don't feel more strengthened. You don't feel more, uh, than a conqueror. So sisters, I always say, encourage you to go read the word in whatever translation it is that you read from, uh, in John, one, one, it says in the beginning was the word and the word was with God. And the word was God. So that's why, when I'm referring to Ephesians, for example, I know that Paul wrote the letter to Ephesians and the words are from Paul, but I read from scripture. And so when I look at the word, the truth, uh, that's from God in the Bible. When I'm saying in general, what God says about me, it's because I find it in scripture. And I believe that in the beginning was the word and the word was with God. And the word was God. So, um, but I always encourage you to just follow up and read and find yourself in the scripture, in whatever translation you want to use. I read several different translations just because different translations say things in different ways. So just wanting to clarify that and encourage you to find yourself in scripture, whatever translation you want to read, do it. And again, I can't wait to hear some of the feedback from you guys. Once you guys have done this, make sure that you guys head over to my Facebook group, a wholly made life. You can find it on Facebook and just join the group and tell us what you found about yourself. Talk about this exercise. And let's walk through this thing together, because I know that if we read these declarations about what we find about ourselves in scripture, and we read these things out loud and we walk with the knowledge of who we are and who God is calling us to be that we will come out stronger for it. Our families will be blessed for it. The people in our circles will be blessed for it. You sister will be blessed for it. All right. So I will see you in the next episode and I hope to see you in the Facebook group as well. All right. See you soon. Okay.