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The Abortion Question - considering a third option. In the ongoing public debate between the right to life of unborn children, often argues as "pro life" and the right to self determination of prospective mothers, a third option is almost never considered. This third option is neither pro life, nor pro choice. Tonight JtO and guest Bob O'Hara will examine the question : why do we assume the right to reproduce at all? The third option in the debate over abortion is mandatory abortion, the question of choice. Join us at 6PM Pacific Standard Time on AVFM Radio.

Please join your host, Shrink4Men's Dr Tara J. Palmatier, and her special co-host, AVoiceforMen's Paul Elam, this Monday, February 20, 2012 at 9pm EST when they'll be speaking with Daddy Justice aka Ben Vonderheide about his role in exposing Pennsylvania's most recently outed corrupt judge, Kelly S. Ballentine. We'll also be talking with Ben about his brand of activism and how he manages to bust one corrupt official after the next like catching fish in a barrell. The telephone lines will be open, so please Skype in or call 310-388-9709 with your questions and comments. It should be another inspiring evening with Daddy Justice. Hope you can make it!

  As recently reported by SAVE, and editorialized by Phyllis Schlafly, On February 2, the reauthorization of the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) passed out of the Senate Judiciary Committee.  That in itself is not remarkable. What is remarkable is that all eight Republicans voted “No” to the current Leahy version of the bill up for consideration. Schlafly was quick to pronounce that this admittedly thunderous moment was an indication that Washington Republicans were “no longer intimidated by feminist demands.” And she might be right. The typical leftist suspects are losing their minds. Both CNN and Huffpo are so bent out of shape that they are explicitly calling for the Obama administration to EMPLOY VIOLENCE against the republicans. If Schlafly is correct, then we can start icing down the champagne, because if either party really qualifies as being henceforth unfriendly to feminist governance we’re gonna throw a shindig, the likes of which has not been seen since, well, since people started throwing shindigs. But don’t get out your party poppers just yet. It is clear that this is a big one. Bigger than big. A straight party line vote against the feminist owned VAWA behemoth is a monstrosity of a change in the status quo, no matter what the reasons. But just like we do with everything else around here, we are going to dig through the politics and other poop and try to piece together what is really happening. We are doing our homework, folks. This ought to mean a very interesting episode of AVfM Radio. So be sure to tune in for yours truly, along with co-host JTO as we put the red pill analysis to this shocking turn of events. Heck, this show is so special we got a doctor there, just to take your phone calls. And that ain’t no campaign promise.  Tonight folks. Be there.

  In a recent “experiment” I wrote an article on feminist influence in the atheist community. Given that the conversation that followed did not devolve into flame war between the Godly an the Godless, I think it turned out pretty well, and speaks to the focus of MRA’s, even those with vastly different views on religion. What also came about in the discussion was an acknowledgement of the ideological parasitism that constitutes modern feminism, and how the philosophy mimics the characteristics of a virus in order to spread. We thought this would make good discussion for the next episode of AVfM Radio, where we will examine how feminist ideology has begun to usurp the collective consciousness of a growing segment of the population that connect to each other based on their rejection of religion. And in that we witness the erosion of reliance on hard science and empiricism that many atheists would say is core to their system of beliefs. Just as we have witnessed in some elements of the religious community, feminist influence has resulted in the undermining of the very principles on which these individuals rely. While we will likely, predictably, need to over explain that we are not pigeon holing the entire atheist world, we do consider this show to be a challenge to vocal atheists to confront the pseudo-science, mythology and outright quackery that feminism is now bringing in to the realm of atheist expression. Hopefully, before we are done, MRA’s of differing views will find more common ground, and PZ Myers will be limping to the drug store for some KY Jelly.

  Tonight on AVfM Radio, the subject is jury nullification. Rather the subject is why we advocate for it in cases of rape, domestic violence, drug offenses and all other areas where state and federal governments across the western world have become more criminal than the people they are prosecuting. Rape shield laws mean that in some trials a physical barrier, a literal protective wall, is constructed between the alleged rapist and his alleged victim in order to make the supposed victim feel safer.  It is the visible manifestation of the presumption of guilt put on display right in front of the jury. In other cases key evidence as to an alleged victims credibility is withheld. That’s just the legal, institutional stuff. Add to that the immoral scheming and treachery of over-zealous police and prosecutors and you come up with one very undeniable fact. There is no way any person sitting on the jury of a rape trial can know if they are getting seeing evidence of a crime or, or a state constructed circus side show. In that light, there are very few circumstances that justify a juror voting for a conviction when the obligation is to hold the evidence to a “reasonable doubt” standard. And the problem is not confined to rape. From prosecutions of so called domestic violence to the war on drugs, the criminal justice system has been remolded into a tool for tyrants control the masses and satisfy the appetites of rent-seeking beurocrats and other state functionaries. Fortunately, there is a way to fight back against this kind of malfeasance. Tonight Join JtO and Paul as we dig deeper into the criminalization of masculinity and the criminalization of humanity itself.

  Tonight AVfM Radio returns with JtO and Paul Elam discussing what is happening in the criminal justice system, and indeed in the world at large. For tonight, blue pill listeners with think that both JtO and Paul have contracted with the Stetson Company, who has produced an AVfM Special Edition 10 Gallon tin foil hat that both be wearing during the broadcast. Some facts to consider before listening: 1.     More people are incarcerated in the United States than any other industrialized nation. 2.     Most of those imprisoned are for non-violent crimes, such as drug offenses and failure to pay child support. 3.     Congress is currently engaged in turning over the penal system to private contractors. 4.     Those private contractors are subletting the labor produced by those incarcerated to other corporate entities. Add to the mix that we are now undergoing a massive expansion of what is considered criminal conduct in men, from having sex with an intoxicated woman to simply asking for sex and getting it, and you have a prescription for the most tyranny we have ever seen in American history. Other countries are following suit. Australian, Sweden, India have all begun adopting laws that ultimately undermine any notion of civil rights and could well land men in prison committing crimes that no civilized society has ever considered unlawful.

Shrink4Men Radio is back tonight, Monday, January 16, 2012 at 9pm EST with you host Dr Tara J. Palmatier and her guest, author and MSW, Tom Golden, an expert in male grief and mourning. Tom's book, Swallowed by a Snake: The Gift of the Masculine Side of Healing is an excellent resource for men who are mourning a loss and for women seeking to understand the masculine grieving process. Many men and women who have been involved with abusive, high-conflict and/or personality disordered partners often have a difficult time grieving the loss and letting go of the hopes and dreams they attached to their partners and exes. This is to be expected. Mourning the loss of someone who has repeatedly hurt and betrayed you is typically more complicated and painful then mourning the loss of someone for whom you have primarily positive feelings. This can be confusing for men who believe they should feel relief to be free of an abusive partner. We will be discussing these issues for the first 20 minutes or so of the program and then we will take your calls. Tom will only be available for approximately an hour, so if you would like to talk to him, please be sure to call (+1 310 388 9709) or Skype in early.

  Female entitlement, a subject near and dear to the heart of many an MRA, is often a target of the work we do at A Voice for Men. It’s an area of life that covers a lot of ground, from women expecting they are entitled to be wined and dined, to women that think they are entitled to cut off their man’s junk if he treats her badly, or if he doesn’t wait for her to cum, or if he wants a divorce. Setting aside the more extreme examples of this brand of gender insanity, you are invited to join myself and co-host John the Other for a countdown of the top twenty Female Entitlement Fails (FEF’s) from recent times. From funny to fantastic to downright bizarre, we are going to deliver a truckload of narcissistic antics.  And of course, being MRA’s you will want to call in to the show at 310-388-9709 to tell us what we really should have selected for the show. So, gents and ladies, gather up your FEF examples, listen to ours, and be ready to have a few laughs at the decidedly feminine world of Meeeeeee! Dr. T will be on the phones, of course provided she doesn’t suddenly decide she doesn’t have to answer them.

Shrink4Men Radio is back this Monday, January 9, 2012 with your host, Dr. Tara J. Palmatier, and her guest, family law attorney, Natalie Malonis. The topic will be High-Conflict Divorce. Ms. Malonis is both a supporter and contributing author to Shrink4Men. Her articles include: Leaving an Abusive Wife: Pre-Divorce Checklist Parental Alienation: Navigating the Court System Personality Disorder Diagnoses in Family Law: Pros and Cons Family Court Minefields: Dirty Tricks Used by High-Conflict People in Custody Disputes and Parallel Parenting If you have questions or stories you would like to share, please Skype in or call (310) 388-9709 or post them as comments here on the Shrink4Men website if you're unable to listen to the show live.

  AVfM News Director Robert O’Hara just brought us a diligently researched article with a story so intriguing that we decided to dedicate the entire episode of AVfM Radio, the first show of 2012, of to the subject. The United Nations is implementing a plan to push, and then later to mandate, circumcision across much of the African Continent. As Robert cited in his article, the science they are using (that it will stop the spread of HIV) to justify this is flawed, corrupt and misleading actually, but backed by some of the most powerful individuals and organizations in the world. And of course some of the usual feminist suspects are on the ground leading the shame campaigns designed to rake in money and coerce men to comply. The real reason this is happening are sketchy and elusive. AVfM regular Alfred E. came out early in the comments and said, “Follow the money.” Well, that is what we are going to do, and there is a lot of it to follow. Initially, somewhere along the lines of 300 million dollars, but that is just the beginning. We can easily predict that much of the money will be siphoned off by corrupt government agencies and African “care” organizations, but there is going to be a lot more to this story before it is over.  As we have already discovered, foreskins are money. It is hard to believe that African doctors will be rounding up 28,000,000 of them without some serious money changing hands. So tonight we begin what will be undoubtedly a subject of interest that you will be hearing about through Robert O’Hara for some time to come.  He will be on the show tonight, of course with John the Other and the ever present Dr. T handling the phones.

  As the men’s rights community scours over volumes of information just released regarding the hateful and often illegal online activities of radical feminist ideologues, it begs for a special edition of AVfM Radio; one like you have never heard before. Tonight, John the Other and I will be joined, first by AVfM News Director Robert O’Hara, who just blew the lid on this almost incomprehensible story, and then by Agent Orange himself, the operative that infiltrated the Radfem group and gathered a library of data on these individuals and their agenda. The regular show schedule is off tonight. No music, no commercial parodies, and no news broadcast. Tonight, the show is the news, from start to finish. Join is, as we continue the FTSU on the program.

Shrink4Men Radio is back this Monday, December 12, 2011 at 9pm EST with your host, Dr. Tara J. Palmatier, and special guest, Ben Vonderheide aka Daddy Justice. Recently, Mr. Vonderheide and his video camera exposed the violence, bigotry, sexism, arrogance and hypocrisy of NOW attorney, vice president of Legal Momentun (a syndicate of over 2,000 domestic violence organizations), and VAWA chief counsel and DV spokesperson, Lisalyn R. Jacobs. Ms. Jacobs physically attacked Mr. Vonderheide in the hallway of the U.S. Senate outside of the VAWA judiciary hearing. Jacobs has since been charged and arraigned for her violent crime. Mr. Vonderheide will discuss his brand of in your face activism and dogged commitment to exposing the corruption of U.S. Family Courts, the dishonest, hate-fueled, feminist driven and privately and publicly funded multibillion dollar Domestic Violence Industry, the multibillion dollar spousal support and child support industry, and much more. Please tune in to hear how one man is fighting to make a difference in the lives of men, women and children. The telephone lines will be open (+1 310 388 9709). Hope you can make it!

  Do you find it strange that a 6 year old boy was charged with rape for playing doctor? Or that a 9 year old boy was suspended for school for “sexual harassment” after calling his female teacher “cute”?  How about the 13 year old boy that just recently burped in class, and was arrested for it? Combine that with the fact that there is currently an unchecked epidemic of fully grown school teachers sexually molesting their students, and you get a reality that could only come to you courtesy of a stout dose of LSD, or perhaps George Orwell. Tonight on AVfM Radio we examine how what Christina Hoff Sommers called “The War on Boys,” is sinking to depths that Sommers herself could not have imagined when she penned that book. And of course all this is happening in a culture where our supposed leaders are either whistling and looking the other way, or fully participating in the abuses. Join co-hosts John the Other and Paul Elam tonight at 8:00 Central Time U.S. for another foray into the increasingly bizarre world of feminist-chivalrist governance. This program, like all the others, will demonstrate why the evil twins of Feminists and White Knights never muster the courage to call in.  The red pill is poison to them, and so is the truth. Dr. T will be screening calls.   

  We have a humdinger lined up for you on this Thursday,  December 1, 2011. What is the problem with Sweden? Is it meatballs? ABBA? Volvos? Bergman films? Bjorn Borg? Well, how about the golf club swinging Elin Nordegren? No? Ericsson phones, maybe?  Nope. Actually, aside from ABBA and Nordegren, not too much bad can be said about the lengthy list of Swedish icons. That leaves the matter of gender politics, which we are starting to understand are so corrupted by feminism that the country may soon rename, reshape or do completely away with Swedish meatballs as they might be oppressive artifacts of the patriarchy. Come Thursday, your cohost John the Other and I will be talking about the land of frozen vaginas a little bit. Actually, we will be talking about it a lot, along with a few tidbits from the States and other parts of Europe that highlight why we may not be near as far from Sweden’s model of feminist governance as we would like to think. Join us for the return of A Voice for Men Radio now that we have taken a much needed break.  We will be back with enough heat to grow palm trees in Stockholm.

Do you experience an impending sense of doom when Walgreen’s sets up their Christmas displays? Do you wish you could settle down for a "long winter's nap" on Halloween and wake up on February 15th? Do you brace yourself for your wife’s inevitable tantrums, tears, rage outs, the cold shoulder and other forms of abuse directed at you and your family as the winter holidays approach? Does your wife or girlfriend sabotage every holiday and then blame you for ruining “her” holiday? Does your wife or girlfriend demand that you spend the holidays with her family and give you grief if you spend time with your family, that is, if she’ll even let you? Does your wife, girlfriend or ex make shopping lists and expect you to buy every item for her and the kids on Santa's List™? Does your wife, girlfriend or ex throw more tantrums at Christmas and New Year’s than an actual 2-year old? Does it seem like your wife, girlfriend or ex ruins every holiday and special occasion? If so, tune in to Shrink4Men Radio on Monday, November 27, 2011 at 9pm EST when your host, Dr. Tara J. Palmatier of Shrink4Men, will explore the question, why does my wife, girlfriend or ex ruin every damn holiday? The phone lines will be open, so if you have a story to share about how your wife, girlfriend, ex, partner's ex, mom, sister or aunt tries to ruin every holiday, please call in (+1 310 388 9709) or Skype.