Strawberry Letter

Good morning Uncle Steve and Shirley. First let me say that I am addressing you as Uncle Steve because you are indeed an uncle to me. I don't have many men in my family and the ones I do have, I wouldn't dare ask them anything because all of their situations are jacked up. Background I've been lied to, put 2nd and not chosen so many times. Never fought for what I wanted or even spoke up about how I really felt. Always knew my worth but never live up to it. I finally made a choice not to settle for good enough. 

I really don't know what to do. I need a man's perspective on this issue. I'm 34 and I've been happily married for almost five years. We have no children my husband and I are very much in love. Most of our friends idolize our relationship. People say we look like we're in love. The problem is that he is not satisfied with me sexually. We do it four to six times a week all the time.

Hello Steve and Shirley I'm a 23 year old female. I recently graduated from college. Currently I'm working for the state of Arkansas and attending school full time to receive my master's. I'm a person that loves my family no matter what. However lately there's some things within my family that have hit me hard.

Good morning everybody. I love this radio station and I've listened to you guys every morning. OK here's my story. I'm a 28 year old black female I'm a wife of six years and a mother of two lovely girls. I love my husband and my family and I truly know that he is my best friend. Well here goes, my husband is nine years my senior. That's not the problem because I love older men.

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been having an affair with a married man and I am deeply in love with him. His brother has been allowing us to visit his apartment, or should I say our “Love Nest” to see each other. My man gives his brother $100 and the brother takes off for about an hour or so, leaving us alone in the apartment.

Dear Steve Harvey and Shirley. Currently I am separated and over 40 can't have any children. Main reason for my divorce anyway. I met a man Mr. Man who was also separated and we became very close.

Hello Shirley Steve and Tommy let me start by saying that I have been married for six years without a problem. At least this is what I thought in parentheses. My wife and I along with her two children attended her best friend's wedding. I noticed that my wife introduced me to everyone but this one guy. But she did state that he used to work with her. As the wedding went on, I saw the guy whisper to my wife among friends.

Hi Steve I want your advice. My boyfriend and I have a relationship for six years. He started cheating on me three years ago. He had a child with that girl and now he's cheating again. His mother stopped talking to me because she thought I was trying to take her son from her. I wrote him a letter a while back telling him that I need him to be a man that I can rely on the man that I need to head our household and the only way that can happen is if you stop allowing his mother to control him and our relationship as well.

Dear Steve I've been married 20 plus years and have two almost adult kids. I've been faithful devoted trying to hold things together for my family. I didn't want them to have to live a lifestyle I would have had to give them had I left my husband

Stressed wife and I both workaholics, he is a good provider and I've always served him because I believe my man should never have a reason to have his needs met any place outside of me. Well the past two years have been challenging due to my layoff from a nonprofit community arts job and my husband having surgery on his wrist and most recently a hernia operation.

Good morning Steve and family I'm a 30 year old female with no kids a great job and do pretty well for myself. I'm engaged to a great man who proposed to me on Valentine's Day of this year. He has two kids with someone else and takes very good care of his children which is just one of the things I respect about him. Here's my question to you. Does size really matter?

Dear Steve I met a gentleman about three months ago and we have been enjoying a platonic friendship. Lately it's become apparent that we are feeling each other on a deeper level and I have a strong physical attraction to each other. The other day during a discussion about herbal supplements versus prescription drugs he revealed that he has no choice but to take prescription drugs because he is HIV positive.

Hello all I would like to ask your advice about my sister. I am 37 years old and I'm going through a divorce. My husband and I separated because he hit me. That was the second time he had done that and my father didn't raise no fool. I left him and filed a charge against him. My older sister was at the house and witnessed my husband hit me. Now during the time before we went to court my husband was frequently visiting my sister.

Good morning Steve Shirley Tommy and Carla. I listen to your show everyday on my way to work and was wondering if you could give me some advice. I'm a 31 year old mother of two and I've been married for over seven years. I've noticed that our relations meaning my husband and I have decreased to almost nothing. I have to almost coax him into having relations both times while I was pregnant. It was like pulling teeth. My aunt was amazed as to how I even got pregnant not once but twice. Anyway I remember Steve saying a while ago that even when men are sick they still want to have sex. Here's a problem.

Dear morning crew buckle your seat belt because you're in for a journey. I'm a 25 year old mother of two. The problem starts and ends with my mother. When I was in my early teens my mom met this man. This man turned out to be a pervert, but my mom never listened. She in turn threw me out for saying he was trying to molest me and for me fighting him back.