Gays In The Wild

Traci Carson (@Traci_Carson) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to analyze Jeff's picky eating habits. How restrictive is Jeff's palate? What percentage of gay men actually have an eating disorder? Have you ever skipped a meal because you wanted to look skinnier? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/gaysinthewild/support

Anthony Guerrieri (@badboyantg) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss their experience hooking up with straight men. What't the appeal? How did it work out for Jeff & Anthony? The boys talk with 3 other anonymous guests who share how some have and some haven't gotten over their first love to a straight man. Jeff & Anthony try to leave the boys with some advice on how to navigate a curious straight male. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! https://www.instagram.com/badboyantg/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/gaysinthewild/support

James (@jj1993c) & Nico (@musically_nico) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share what exactly a Power Bottom is. Is there one sole definition of a power bottom? Does a power bottom mean you can take any dick size? Is a power bottom a sexual position or a personality trait? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! You can follow the boys here: James: https://www.instagram.com/jj1993c/?hl=en Nico: https://www.instagram.com/musically_nico/?hl=en --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/gaysinthewild/support

Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by 4 guests; Mike, Derek, Ryan, & Theo who have all been fetishized for their outter appearance. How does it feel when someone treats you like a fetish? Is there a difference between having a type and being a fetish? Is it wrong to be curious about how big a guy's dick is because of his race or what color his pubes are because of his hair color? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! Follow the Boys from this Episode! Derek: https://www.instagram.com/d.nuded/?hl=en Mike: https://www.instagram.com/mikemontiel/?hl=en Ryan: https://www.instagram.com/ryan_sutton87/?hl=en Theo: https://www.instagram.com/the_red_wizard.gr/?hl=en --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/gaysinthewild/support

Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by his good friend Jimmy Pezzino (@JimmyPezzino) to share why they motivated one another to make an Only Fans.  What's the craziest request they've received so far? What made Jeff finally pull the trigger? How pissed did Jeff get when he saw his pictures leaked? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! If you would like to follow the boys, you can support them below :) https://onlyfans.com/jeffreyjohn https://onlyfans.com/jimmypezzino?rec=98741474 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/gaysinthewild/support

Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by Dr. Greg Cason (@DontAskGreg) a psychologist for over 20 years with an expertise in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.  The boys go through behavioral patterns of gays traveling to Mexico for New Years Eve. Why did men travel for New Years? If they think people know it is wrong why are they still posting about it? Do people partying during a pandemic have a mental illness? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! If you would like to see more of Dr. Greg Cason you can follow him below! Website: www.drgreg.com Youtube: youtube.com/drgreg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dontaskgreg/  Facebook: www.facebook.com/askdrgreg --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/gaysinthewild/support

Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by 3 different couples, who met on various dating apps; Tinder, Scruff, & Grindr. First we have Steven and Connor or married couple VIA Tinder. How did Steven handle being Super-liked by Connor? How far into dating someone do you delete dating apps? Should you talk to a few guys at once to keep your options open? My next couple is Tony & Alejandro from Scruff. After a 15 year marriage Tony dove into scruff. How long did it take to find Alejandro? Last but not least our Grindr couple that has been together for 7 years, Samuel & Euan. Is it safe to lead with naked photos when looking for a boyfriend? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! Tinder Couple Steven & Connor https://www.instagram.com/stevenjaws/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/connorbsenning/?hl=en Scruff Couple Tony & Alejandro https://www.instagram.com/tonyjanczak/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/alealejandro23/?hl=en Grindr Couple Samuel & Euan https://www.instagram.com/mrsamuelshearer/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/euandme_/?hl=en --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/gaysinthewild/support

Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by 2019 Mr Gay World South Africa, Charl-jaquairdo van Helsdingen (@charlieboy23) to share his experience with testicular cancer. How did he first find out? What are some ways you can check your testicles from home? Does testicular cancer lead to the removal of your testicles and reproductive organs? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! If you want to follow the Charlie from this episode; https://www.instagram.com/charlieboy23/?hl=en For more information on Testicular Cancer; https://www.loveyournuts.org/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/gaysinthewild/support

Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by Instagram friends; Shane (@theshaneh), Chris (@itsgalby) & Christopher (@cjrfitnessforward) to share their experience being HIV+. When did they first find out? What does it mean to be Undetectable = Untransmittable? How has being HIV+ affected their relationships? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! If you want to follow the boys from this episode; Shane: https://www.instagram.com/theshaneh/?hl=en Chris: https://www.instagram.com/itsgalby/ Christopher: https://www.instagram.com/cjrfitnessforward/ If you or anyone is in need of additional resources: https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/default.html If you have had a possible exposure to someone who is HIV+, look into PEP: https://www.hiv.gov/hiv-basics/hiv-prevention/using-hiv-medication-to-reduce-risk/post-exposure-prophylaxis If you are someone looking to lower your chances of contracting HIV: https://www.descovy.com/prep --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/gaysinthewild/support

What's The Craziest Thing You've Done For Money? Alex Vangurp (@Alexvangurp) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss "What's The Craziest Thing You've Done For Money?" The boys are joined by 4 guests throughout the episode; Hayden, Matt, Anonymous Chad, and Rhys to share the craziest things they've done for money.  From farts to blow jobs, you'll need a glass of wine for this one. Keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! Give the boys a follow: https://www.instagram.com/mattdmcknight/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/rhys_ridge_evans_93/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/h4yd3nn/?hl=en --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/gaysinthewild/support

Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by other Instagram Booty boys; Ties (@Strip.Ties), Daniel (@NKD.Dan) & Jeremy (@Grmhenry). Does posting photos of your butt make you a bottom? How have your friends and family reacted to your social media accounts? When people see you in public do you get nervous? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! If you want to follow the boys from this episode; Ties: https://www.instagram.com/strip.ties/?hl=en https://onlyfans.com/strip.ties Daniel: https://www.instagram.com/nkd.dan/?hl=en Jeremy: https://www.instagram.com/grmhenry/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/gaysinthewild/support

Ty Talley (@TyTalleyOfficial) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to  discuss what life was like growing up in what they felt was homophobic towns. Does it feel like you need to leave your home town to be accepted for your sexuality? What have you gained from leaving where you grew up? What advice would you give to anyone who is feeling uncomfortable or stuck in a small town? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! https://www.instagram.com/tytalleyofficial/?hl=en --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/gaysinthewild/support

Brent Everett (@BrentEverett_com) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss his career in the adult entertainment industry. What was his favorite scene? Has doing porn ever affected his relationships?  Do you think gay porn is a good way to educated gay men on sex? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! Website: www.brenteverett.com  Just For Fans: https://www.justfor.fans/brenteverett Instagrams: https://www.instagram.com/brenteverett_com/?hl=en  https://www.instagram.com/caribbeandreamfestival/?hl=en   https://www.instagram.com/be.clothing.apparel/?hl=en Twitter:  https://twitter.com/brenteverett --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/gaysinthewild/support

Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) invites on Eddie (@eddiebeiler), Fernando (@fernandodc), & Jon (@jonjondotcom) to discuss life as a sober gay male. At what age did you guys first start experiencing drugs and alcohol? Have you ever had a problem with drugs or alcohol? Do you find it difficult to build friendships and find a safe gay space without the use of drugs or alcohol? Keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! Follow the boys; https://www.instagram.com/eddiebeiler/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/jonjondotcom/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/fernandodc/?hl=en For anyone looking to explore resources, some recommendations are; https://www.amazon.com/Leaving-Rest-Leslie-L-Smith-ebook/dp/B00ED7LHYY https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/0738215678/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_SSlIFb96NSJ34 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/gaysinthewild/support

Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) invites Arielle Scarcella (@arielle_scarcella) & JC Dombrowki (@jc.dombrowski) to discuss their final thoughts before Election Day. Who is voting for Trump and who is voting for Biden? Is it possible for someone to vote for Trump if they are in the LGBTQ community? Can you be friends with someone who has opposing political views than you?  Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! Follow! https://www.instagram.com/jc.dombrowski/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/arielle_scarcella/?hl=en --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/gaysinthewild/support