Java with Juli

Men are simple—or at least that’s what you’ve been led to believe. Give them food, sex, perhaps throw in a little sports, and you’ve got the makings of a happy husband. But are men more complicated than that? We think so. Would you believe that your husband wakes up every morning doubting if he has what it takes to make you happy? Can you imagine that deep down in his heart of hearts what he really wants is to be needed by you? Grab your latte and join Juli and her guest, John Eldredge, as they discuss the deep longings housed in the hearts of your husbands and sons. Guest: John Eldredge

How many times has a confident, opinionated woman who speaks her mind been labeled something that was far less than flattering? Strength and conviction are always thought of as noble traits for a man, but why not for a woman? Author and former police officer, Cynthia Tobias explains the differences of a strong-willed women with God, and one without Him. Guest: Cynthia Tobias

Your marriage NEEDS conflict. You may think that sounds crazy, but learning to manage conflict is essential to building intimacy and sustaining a life-long love. Greg and Erin Smalley are back at the coffee shop to share how you can allow God to open your heart and fill it abundantly full of His love. Then you can open your heart to others and allow God’s love to flow through you. Grab a latte and pull a chair for some “heart care” on this Java with Juli! Guests: Greg & Erin Smalley

In marriage, even the smallest offense can lead to a BIG fight. Couples fight about money, in-laws, dirty dishes, dirty socks, driving too fast, driving too slow… you get the idea. But there’s good news: fighting can actually help you have a stronger marriage! All this conflict, when handled correctly, can lead to greater intimacy between you and your spouse. So call a time out, put your gloves down and pull up a chair. Join us at the coffee shop and learn how to Fight Your Way to a Better Marriage on this Java with Juli! Guests: Greg & Erin Smalley Guests: Greg and Erin Smalley

Juli Slattery and Mary DeMuth talk about how to deal with hurtful people and situations within the Body of Christ.

Do you ever feel like you’ve been permanently marked with a Sharpie® pen? That the hurts and heartache from your past just won’t go away –no matter how hard you scrub, pray, and memorize God’s word? You’re not alone. And we have good news: our God is a healer! Today Juli sits down with Mary DeMuth, author of Not Marked, to hear some of the practical steps Mary took toward healing as God restored her life from the pain of childhood sexual abuse. Pull up your chair, grab your latte, and listen in to rich conversation and bold truth on this Java with Juli! Guest: Mary DeMuth

What you believe about God has a huge impact on what you believe about yourself. When you’re at the top, it’s easy to feel like you’ve got it all together. But when you’re at wit’s end and harassed by life, the ground you’re standing on may start to feel a little flimsy –unless you know who created you. Join Juli and her guest at the coffee shop to hear how you, with all of your flaws, were created by a sovereign and creative God. And He’s not finished with you yet. Guest: Michele Cushatt

How many times have you been disappointed or felt inferior because of your weight? Have you ever asked yourself where those emotions are coming from? It’s time that women understand the love the Lord holds for His daughters, just as they are! This is a vulnerable conversation about struggle, self-worth and dress size that will help you evaluate what you’re believing about your past. It will also help bring you into a brighter future!

How you relate to others as a single person now matters to your future marriage. Whether it’s friendships, dating online or face-to-face, we form emotional ties when we share our hearts through conversation. Join Juli and her guests at the coffee shop to find out how much to share, and when, when you’re talking with the opposite sex. Guests: Sherry Graf & Lisa Anderson

One hundred percent of couples struggle sexually. The truth is, if you want great sex in a great marriage, you’ve got to take off more than just your clothes. True intimacy means taking off your masks and baring your emotions too. Some couples have an active sex life but still feel unknown and unloved by their spouse. Others feel disconnected both in and outside the bedroom. On today’s Java with Juli, learn how you can experience the thrilling and sweet intimacy –physically and emotionally—that God intends for you and your spouse to share. Guests: Tim & Anne Evans

Do you walk on eggshells around your husband? Are you constantly trying to be a better wife, friend, or daughter? This candid conversation will help you discover the courage to deal with destructive relationships, and confidently speak your thoughts and feelings in a constructive way. Grab a cup of coffee and join us for rich conversation and bold truth on this Java with Juli. Guests: Linda Dillow & Leslie Vernick

Women all over the world are excited about the release of the movie Fifty Shades Darker – but do they realize how this type of erotica exploits our longings rather than satisfies them? If you’re enticed by the Fifty Shades of Grey series, we understand – and this program is just for you! Juli and her guests boldly discuss the underlying issues in our culture around female sexuality, and how the questions women have are answered in the book Pulling Back The Shades.

Why do we care if Fifty Shades of Grey has sold over 125 million copies? Because it means that women are looking to fiction—instead of God, the Creator of sex—to understand their sexual desires. And that’s a problem. On this Java with Juli hear how erotica is a counterfeit solution that will only leave you feeling empty. Don’t settle for the counterfeit. God wants you to have the real thing…and so do we. Guest: Tim Sisarich

For many, PMS makes our bodies feel as if they are out of our control. Whether it's tears, anger, bloating or one of another dozen crippling symptoms, PMS takes over our lives for a week or two out of every month. In this Java with Juli, Lorraine Pintus and Kim Brown share encouragement for getting through the tough days and offer suggestions on how to ease the symptoms of PMS. Guests: Kim Brown & Lorraine Pintus

At the core of any relationship are two people who care about each other. So when you don’t approve of a relationship, how do you reflect God's unconditional love to the people who are in it? On this Java with Juli, you’ll hear the story of a girl who grew up uncomfortable in her own skin, confused by her feelings, and who took the courageous step to leave her same-sex relationships after she became a Christian. If you’re walking alongside a friend or loved one who is struggling with same-sex attraction, you’ll find wisdom and practical advice on this Java with Juli. Guests: Christine Sneeringer & Janelle Hallman Follow Up Resource: The Heart of Female Same-Sex Attraction by Janelle Hallman