Episode 58 // Grief & Shame in Horsemanship




The Willing Equine show

Summary: <p>In this episode I am joined by Julia Alexander and Bex Tasker for a discussion about grief and shame in horsemanship.<br> <br> We talk about perfectionism, getting "lost in our heads", allowing ourselves to be learners and to make mistakes, and so much more. It's a really important conversation that I hope you will take the time to listen to.<br> <br> This episode was recorded for TWE Academy in 2020, and we decided to release it to the public as a follow up to our most recent podcast episode, <a href="https://www.thewillingequine.com/podcast/episode/1f728985/episode-57-a-new-outlook-on-equine-assisted-therapy-with-julia-alexander-lcsw" rel="noreferrer noopener" target="_blank"><strong>Episode 57 // A New Outlook on Equine Assisted Therapy with Julia Alexander, LCSW</strong></a><strong>. </strong>To watch the accompanying video and to hear more conversations like this one, join the Academy! Enrolment opens in July, and you can jump on the <a href="https://www.thewillingequine.com/academy" rel="noreferrer noopener" target="_blank">First-to-Know List</a> today. We would love to have you!<br> <br> <br> <strong>More about Julia Alexander and the work that she does:<br> </strong><br> Julia provides compassionate therapy, education and consulting services rooted in anti-racist, social justice and liberatory frameworks. She offers a safe and accepting space to alleviate shame, heal trauma and discover inner resilience. Her approach is founded on an unwavering belief in the healing power of safe connection, and a deep knowing that sustained relationship to nature plays a major role in human healing. She specializes in providing eco and equine-assisted psychotherapy in the areas of childhood relationship trauma, coming out, systemic oppression, and shame held by white-bodied people. She combines her expertise as a therapist and social justice educator to offer a unique form of equine-assisted psychotherapy rooted in the ethical inclusion of horses in human treatment. Through this work, she loves supporting people in exploring connection, dialogue, choice and consent.<br> <br> <a href="https://www.juliaalexandercounseling.com/" rel="noreferrer noopener" target="_blank"><u>https://www.juliaalexandercounseling.com/</u></a><br> <br> @juliaalexander_lcsw<br> <br> <strong>More about Bex Tasker and her work:<br> </strong><br> Bex lives on a small farm in Western Bay of Plenty, New Zealand with her animals and young family. She runs classes for dogs and their humans, junior animal trainer classes and regular horsemanship clinics from her home property.  She also travels around New Zealand and overseas to deliver clinics and lessons to horses and their passionate and dedicated humans.  As well as the "real life" teaching, she has a<a href="https://www.clickertraining.co.nz/positively-us.html" rel="noreferrer noopener" target="_blank"><u> thriving online membership community</u></a>, and run <a href="https://www.clickertraining.co.nz/online-courses--coaching.html" rel="noreferrer noopener" target="_blank"><u>regular coaching intensives</u></a> with students from all over the world.  In early 2019 she partnered with her good friend and experienced youth worker Brooke Friend to establish a <a href="https://www.clickertraining.co.nz/nextgen.html" rel="noreferrer noopener" target="_blank"><u>successful youth programme</u></a>, focused around ethical animal training, life skills and mental health.<br> <br> <a href="https://www.clickertraining.co.nz/" rel="noreferrer noopener" target="_blank">https://www.clickertraining.co.nz/</a><br> <br> @positively_together<br> <br> <strong>Podcast Transcription:</strong></p> <p><a href="https://www.thewillingequine.com/post/ep-58----grief-and-shame-in-horsemanship">https://www.thewillingequine.com/post/ep-58----grief-and-shame-in-horsemanship</a></p> --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thewillingequine/message Support this podcast: <a href="https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thewillingequine/support" rel="payment">https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thewillingequine/support</a>