How to Be More Attractive, Win At Apps, Flirt Better, And More: Relationship Scientist Logan Ury Answers YOUR Qs




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Summary: My guest today is the amazing Logan Ury.  Logan is a Harvard-educated behavioral scientist turned dating coach, and the Director of Relationship Science at the dating app Hinge, where she leads a research team dedicated to helping people find love. Her work has appeared in The New York Times, The Atlantic, GQ, Glamour, and on HBO and the BBC. She was a featured speaker at SXSW 2021, and her book, <a href="https://www.loganury.com/book">How Not To Die Alone</a>, is absolutely phenomenal, a really science-backed, totally unique approach to dating, and is available wherever books are sold. <br> <br> science-backed tips for being attractive and desirable on a date<br> how to be a great conversationalist (including the exact questions to ask)<br> how to let go of expectations for the first date and enjoy yourself<br> the one HUGE thing everyone does wrong on dates<br> how to feel super confident (and not self-conscious) on dates<br> how to design a perfect first date, according to behavioral science (including how long it should be, who should initiate, what you should do, and more)<br> if playing games works, according to science (the answer will surprise you!)<br> 3 tips for creating a perfect dating app profile<br> what to do if you're swiping and swiping and not finding anyone you like<br> exactly what to do if you never feel a spark or connection on dates<br> how to flirt better<br> how to get over exhaustion and dating despair<br> the one thing that sets successful daters apart from unsuccessful daters<br> green flags and red flags to look for on early dates<br> exactly how long to chat on app before meeting in person, according to research<br> why she tells people to have a 2 date minimum<br> how to increase your efficiency on apps so you can spend less time on them<br> how to meet people in real life, if you don't want to do apps<br> <br> We would LOVE to hear from you any thoughts, reactions, or takeaways you have as you’re listening, so definitely screenshot and tag me <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lizmoody/?hl=en">@lizmoody</a> and Logan (<a href="https://www.instagram.com/loganury/?hl=en">@loganury</a>)! We’re also doing a huge giveaway on Instagram, including a private coaching session with Logan, so definitely head over so you don’t miss that!<br> <br> I would SO appreciate it if you shared this episode or any favorite episodes with someone you love in your life!<br> <br> PS: My Patreon is live! You can join Green Smoothie Society and get access to ALL of my green smoothie recipes and advice! Get all the deets at patreon.com/lizmoody.<br> <br> This episode is sponsored by AG1 by Athletic Greens. Visit athleticgreens.com/healthiertogether and get your FREE year supply of Vitamin D and 5 free travel packs today. <br> <br> This episode is sponsored by Seed. You can get 15% off your first month's supply of Seed's DS-01 Daily Synbiotic by going to https://seed.com/daily-synbiotic and using the code LIZMOODY. <br> <br> This episode is sponsored by Nuzest. You can use the code “LIZM” for 20% off your order on <a href="http://nuzest.us/liz">http://nuzest.us/liz</a>.<br> <br> This episode is sponsored by Canva, which makes it super easy for non-designers to make professional looking graphics. Find out more at canva.com. <br> <br> Healthier Together cover art by Zack. Healthier Together music by <a href="http://www.alexruimy.com/">Alex Ruimy.</a>