Summary: <br> Step 12 suggests that we “practice these principles in all our affairs”. What does this mean to you? How do you do it?<br> <br> <br> <br> Definition: principle<br> <br> <br> <br> * a fundamental truth or proposition that serves as the foundation for a system of belief or behavior or for a chain of reasoning.<br> <br> <br> <br> The AA 12 principles from the book 12 Steps and 12 Traditions<br> <br> <br> <br> * HONESTY – Fairness and straight forwardness of conduct: adherence to the facts.* HOPE – To expect with desire; something on which hopes are centered.* FAITH – Complete confidence; belief and trust.* COURAGE – Firmness of mind and will in the face of extreme difficulty; mental or moral strength to withstand fear.* INTEGRITY – The quality or state of being complete or undivided; soundness.* WILLINGNESS – Prompt to act or respond; accepted and done of choice or without reluctance.* HUMILITY – Not proud or haughty; not arrogant or assertive; a clear and concise understanding of what we are, followed by a sincere desire to become what we can be.* LOVE – Unselfish concern that freely accepts another in loyalty and seeks his good to hold dear.* DISCIPLINE – Training that corrects, molds, or perfects the mental faculties or moral character; to bring under control; to train or develop by instruction.* PATIENCE/PERSEVERANCE – Steadfast despite opposition or adversity; able or willing to bear; to persist in an understanding in spite of counter influences.* AWARENESS – Alive and alert; vigilance in observing.* SERVICE – A helpful act; contribution to the welfare of others; useful labor that does not produce a tangible commodity.<br> <br> <br> <br> * What do you consider to be “these principles”?* Why is it important to practice them “in all your affairs”?* What does the word “practice” say to you?* How have your life and your relationships been changed by practicing this step?* What tools help you to practice these principles?* How to carry them “out of the rooms and into traffic.”* How have you used Al-Anon recovery principles in your life, and how were your actions, feelings, and reactions different?<br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> Readings and Links<br> <br> <br> <br> We read from <a href="https://therecoveryshow.com/book-how-alanon-works">How Al-Anon Works</a> Step 12 discussion in Chapter 8.<br> <br> <br> <br> The reading referred to the book <a href="https://therecoveryshow.com/book-in-all-our-affairs">In All Our Affairs</a>.<br> <br> <br> <br> Elizabeth read from <a href="https://therecoveryshow.com/book-odat">One Day at a Time in Al-Anon</a>, November 4 (p. 309).<br> <br> <br> <br> Upcoming topics<br> <br> <br> <br> Our topic for next week is honesty. what does a lack of honesty with ourselves and others look like and what does the program teach us about the importance of honesty to our recovery? <br> <br> <br> <br> Please call us at 734-707-8795 or email <a href="mailto:feedback@therecoveryshow.com">feedback@therecovery.show</a> with your questions or experience, strength and hope. Or just leave a comment right here.<br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> Music from the Show<br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> The Avett Brothers – No Hard Feelings<br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> Indigo Girls – Hammer and a Nail<br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> FC Kanuna – Hayling<br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br>
