Summary: <p>Hijackals use chemistry to manipulate and control you. They exploit it to feel they have power over you. It is a significant part of trauma-bonding. Get clear on what's really happening when you think you're in love, rather than knowing you're being used. </p><br><p><strong>HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:</strong></p><ul> <li>What lust, attraction, and attachment have to do with creating toxic relationships</li> <li>Why #Hijackals want to recreate their trauma from a position of control</li> <li>What part trauma-bonding plays in thinking you have chemistry with a toxic person</li> <li>How #Hijackals depend on the chemistry to keep you hooked in a toxic relationship, a verbally abusive relationship</li> <li>How misused chemistry can lead to emotional abuse</li> </ul><p><br></p><p>Chemistry may draw you back to a relationship of narcissistic abuse and emotional trauma. You may confuse it with love. It isn't love. Don't be fooled. Stop the trauma-bonding, too! </p><br><p>Big hugs!</p><p>Rhoberta</p><br><p><strong>Want clarity, insights, strategies, and support</strong> from me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler? We can talk: <a href="https://forrelationshiphelp.com/join" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Introductory session for new clients, $97</a></p><br><p><strong>CONNECT WITH ME</strong>: I invite you to like my pages and follow for further help with recognizing toxic relationships, realizing their impact, realigning your life, and recovering your self-confidence and ability to love and trust again.</p><br><p><strong>FOLLOW DR. RHOBERTA SHALER...</strong></p><p><strong>WEBSITE: </strong><a href="https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.ForRelationshipHelp.com</a></p><p><strong>PODCAST: </strong><a href="http://www.saveyoursanitypodcast.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.com</a></p><p><strong>FACEBOOK: </strong><a href="https://www.facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctor" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctor</a></p><p><strong>TWITTER: </strong><a href="https://www.twitter.com/RhobertaShaler" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler</a></p><p><strong>LINKEDIN: </strong><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/RhobertaShaler" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler</a></p><p><strong>INSTAGRAM: </strong><a href="https://www.instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler</a></p><p><strong>PINTEREST: </strong><a href="https://www.pinterest.com/RhobertaShaler" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.Pinterest.com/RhobertaShaler</a></p><br><p><strong>YOUTUBE</strong>: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp</a></p><p>-------------------------------------------------------------</p><p><strong>I'M HERE TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT YOU WANT TO DO ABOUT IT!</strong></p><p>If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships,</p><p><strong>join my Support Circle now.</strong></p><p>Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Saturday Support Calls with me.</p><p>WOW! Join now. <a href="http://relationshiphelpcircles.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Dr. Shaler's Support Circle.</a> Save $24 on your first three months.</p><p>----------------------------------------------------------------------</p><p>#traumabonding #chemistryisnotenough #verballyabusive #dontgobacktoabuse #lust #attraction #attachment #don'tmistakechemistryforlove #chemistryisnotcaring #goingbacktoanabuser #gotchemistry #sexualchemistrycanbedangerous</p><p>#savemysanity #saveyoursanity #relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stopemotionalgabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #antisocialbehavior #lackingempathy #journorequest #prrequest </p><p>Support this show <a target="_blank" rel="payment" href="http://supporter.acast.com/hijackals-conflict-toxic-people-narcissist">http://supporter.acast.com/hijackals-conflict-toxic-people-narcissist</a>.</p><br><hr><p style="color:grey;font-size:0.75em;"> See <a style="color:grey;" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" href="https://acast.com/privacy">acast.com/privacy</a> for privacy and opt-out information.</p>
