Summary: <p><strong>Shame is a painful emotion caused by recognizing guilt, shortcomings or impropriety, and the basis for narcissistic, over-nurturing, and needy behaviors. SO important to recognize these to understand the dynamics and how you may be caught by the cycle of shame in toxic relationships with partners and parents. </strong></p><br><p>Things happen when you're little and you don't realize what's becoming part of you. <strong>Being shamed at an early age</strong> by the people who were supposed to protect you makes a huge impact on you! </p><br><p>#Narcissists take shape then, and so do many people who are attracted to them--or at least, taken in by them. </p><br><p>This is NEED-TO-KNOW information. It can help you understand decisions you need to make that will change the quality of your life. </p><br><p>Big hugs!</p><p>Rhoberta</p><br><p><strong>HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:</strong></p><ul> <li><strong>What happens when you were shamed as a child</strong></li> <li><strong>Early choices you make in response to being shamed</strong></li> <li><strong>How shame affects your attachment style in adult relationships</strong></li> <li><strong>Two responses to deep shame...poles apart</strong></li> <li><strong>The difference between shame and guilt</strong></li> <li><strong>Who will be attracted to #narcissists and other #Hijackals</strong></li> <li><strong>Who #narcissists and other #hijackals are attracted to and why</strong></li> <li><strong>Projection: how it works in the shame cycle </strong></li> </ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Want clarity, insights, strategies, and support from me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler? 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