Summary: <p><strong>Hijackals®, those relentlessly difficult, toxic people, have both a need and a want to make you always feel not good enough. Understand why and learn to respond in empowering ways, and that's a very good start! </strong></p><br><p>Nothing you do, say, or are will ever be good enough...unless they want something from you. Then, <strong>they love-bomb you</strong>, and the person you fell in love with returns--for a hot minute! You know I've said many times in these episodes that the person you fell in love with was the Love-bomber. The person you are having problems with is the real person. Sad, but true!</p><br><p>So, don't be listening another minute to a #Hijackal telling you that you don't measure up. <strong>Don't let a Hijackal put your down, wear you down, or tear you down for another second.</strong> Today, I'm laying out why they behave as they do so that you can clearly recognize it.</p><br><p>Then, <strong>SEVEN things</strong> you can quietly do to start pulling yourself up, no matter how hard the Hijackal wants to push you down!</p><br><p>Big hugs!</p><p>Rhoberta</p><br><p><strong>HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:</strong></p><ul> <li><strong>Why #Hijackals have unrealistic expectation</strong></li> <li><strong>How & Why narcissists and others will never allow you to feel good enough</strong></li> <li><strong>The abject entitlement of toxic people with traits like narcissists, sociopaths, and other Hijackals</strong></li> <li><strong>Why not and how not to lose yourself in a narcissist's expectations</strong></li> <li><strong>The pairs of opposites you'll face when you're with a Hijackal</strong></li> <li><strong>SEVEN ways you can pull yourself up again when a toxic person has pushed you down</strong></li> <li><strong>How to take back your power </strong></li> </ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Want clarity, insights, strategies, and support from me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler? 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