Summary: <br> When Don Parker was a Dean of Students, he knew his students were struggling – especially those with high risk factors. <br> <br> <br> <br> Photo by Anders Jildén – Creative Commons No known copyright restrictions https://unsplash.com/@andersjilden?utm_source=haikudeck&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=api-credit<br> <br> <br> <br> Don’s passion became simple and challenging: Find the best ways to help students be more successful. Through his doctoral dissertation and his practice as a school administrator, he narrowed his focus to two approaches: 1. Building relationships. 2. Providing authoritative counseling.<br> <br> <br> <br> Meet Don Parker<br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> Dr. Don Parker is a highly sought-after speaker and professional development provider. He is the principal of Posen Intermediate School in Posen-Robbins School District 143.5 in Posen, Illinois. Previously, he was the principal of Lincoln Avenue School, a K–8 school in Dolton, Illinois, where he improved the culture, implemented a resilience program, managed the implementation of restorative justice, and increased attendance and student achievement. <br> <br> <br> <br> He is also the author of the new book, <a href="https://www.solutiontree.com/products/building-bridges.html" class="aioseop-link">Building Bridges: Engaging Students at Risk Through the Power of Relationships</a>. <br> <br> <br> <br> <a href="https://www.solutiontree.com/products/building-bridges.html"></a><br> <br> <br> <br> In this week’s podcast episode, Dr. Parker covers several takeaways for serving serving all students: <br> <br> <br> <br> * How his school has responded to the COVID-19 closures and distance learning challenges. * How you must develop a relationship building mindset. * Why it is important to take an ecological approach in leadership.* Ways to promote “opening up” for yourself and those whom you serve. <br> <br> <br> <br> Building Relationships <br> <br> <br> <br> First, Dr. Parker explains practical strategies that will benefit teachers in building relationships and helping their students be successful in school and in life. These actions begin with mindset: a relentless effort to never give up. And this mindset is grounded in hope. As he explains, “Student must have hope that life will get better. And a leader must have hope that no matter how much resistance, my efforts will make a difference.” <br> <br> <br> <br> Don explains his own story as a college freshman and how his uncle convinced him to hold on to hope and see why his degree would help him acheive his dream of teaching and coaching. He also challenges leaders to “burn your ships” if you’re going to make signficant changes happen. <br> <br> <br> <br> Taking an Ecological Approach<br> <br> <br> <br> Dr. Parker also encourages an ecological approach, a term he discovered in his reseach. He explains how researchers view student behavior under three lenses: <br> <br> <br> <br> Lens 1: Epidemiological approach – This approach looks at DNA, physical or mental states that impact outcomes. <br> <br> <br> <br> Lens 2: Social constructivist approach – School practices, for instance, can be constructed to help students become more successful. <br> <br> <br> <br> Lens 3: Ecological approach – “Eco” means environment, and “olgy” is study of – and describes the culture and interventions that happen inside and outside of school. <br> <br> <br> <br> By working through an ecological lens, schools can address the whole-child. In Don’s experience, he found one out of twenty-five of his students came from a two-parent household family. Most children, especially boys, did not have positive male role models. Thus, Don started a mentor program for students and adults. <br> <br> <br> <br>
