Summary: <a href="http://brianjpombo.com/business-owners-are-you-a-mess/"></a><br> <br> <br> <a href="http://DreamBizChat.com">http://DreamBizChat.com</a><br> <br> <br> <br> Are you a mess?<br> <br> <br> <br> Hi I’m Brian Pombo welcome back to Brian J. Pombo Live. Today we’re going to be discussing the concept that a lot of business owners get hit with and that’s the idea that they are an extreme mess of a person on all levels.<br> <br> <br> <br> We’ll get into that in a second. First I wanted to remind you about DreamBizChat.com.<br> <br> <br> <br> If you’re a business owner or an executive and you happen to be in the self reliance field, meaning you have products and services that help people to become more self-reliant, go to DreamBizChat.com link is in the description and you can find out more about it there.<br> <br> <br> <br> There’s a quick video to watch. It’s all about a dream business transformation. Completely free. Go check it out. DreamBizChat.com.<br> <br> <br> <br> So I was accused by my wife of all people and some other people that I work with during the day of basically being an unorganized mess.<br> <br> <br> <br> This is something that has haunted me my entire life. And no matter how hard I try not to be, it seems that if I don’t have something that is habitual, if it’s not a constant, it will get dropped along the way.<br> <br> <br> <br> If it’s something that I don’t enjoy doing and it’s something that doesn’t fit into what I’m really good at.<br> <br> <br> <br> I wish there was a way around this. I’ve looked over and over again. I’ve read time management books, I’ve read books about organizing. I’ve tried all the different methods, very few fit and have been able to allow me to do what I need to do as a business owner and an executive at my company.<br> <br> <br> <br> Then I came across Kathy Kolbe. Now I don’t get paid by, Kolbe, the organization or the lady.<br> <br> <br> <br> But Kathy Kolbe started exploring deeper the concept of conation.<br> <br> <br> <br> We’ve discussed this on earlier talks here, on the podcast and the video chats.<br> <br> <br> <br> Conation has to do how you function as a person in terms of when you are in action mode.<br> <br> <br> <br> So whether you are working or doing schoolwork, when you are in the mode of action, you’re a different area of your brain lights up and his act is active and it’s separate from personality, which is more an affective. <br> <br> <br> <br> Meaning it has to do with how you deal with people and how you handle emotions and so forth.<br> <br> <br> <br> That’s the effect of end of your personality and it’s different from the cognitive part of your brain which handles just the regular day to day thinking and memory and things of that sort knowledge.<br> <br> <br> <br> This is the conative part of the brain. It’s a specific area and what it deals with is you, when you are in action mode, when you are willing things to occur.<br> <br> <br> <br> She found four separate areas that people tend to be high or low in across the board.<br> <br> <br> <br> Some people are a lot higher in one and some people are a lot lower, but it seems to all kind of fit together. So that’s, this is one of her books, Conative Connection.<br> <br> <br> <br> This is a good primer to kind of explain this and the reason why I bring this up is because most entrepreneurs tend to have a large amount of quick start. Now it’s not true across the board, but it is very common for the, especially the the visionary person in the company to have a lot of quick start and what quick start.<br> <br> <br> <br> It basically means that you have the instinct to set things in...
