Summary: <p>Abuse in any form is bad news: <strong>verbal abuse</strong>, <strong>emotional abuse</strong>, <strong>physical abuse</strong>, <strong>financial abuse</strong>, <strong>spiritual abuse</strong>, <strong>sexual abuse</strong>. All bad!</p><p>And, you need to know <strong>what <em>intimate terrorism </em>is </strong>because it has the most dire consequences.</p><br><p><strong>Domestic violence</strong> is a term you're likely familiar with. You may not think of the verbal abuse as domestic violence, or the emotional abuse. It is, though. Often, it is very difficult--even more difficult now with the new wording recently changed by the current U.S. administration--to make your case for these in court. It's still domestic violence.</p><br><p>Definition of Domestic Violence from Project-Safe.org :</p><br><p>"<em>Domestic violence is the illegitimate use of physical force and/or control tactics within a relations that is intimate, familiar, or cohabitating. There are several types of domestic violence, including intimate terrorism and situational couple violence." </em></p><br><p>You may not yet have heard of "coercive control," either. When coupled with violence, it equals intimate terrorism, and occurs when one partner in a relationship, typically a man, uses coercive control and power over the other partner, using threats, intimidation, and isolation. Sady, this intimate partner violence may also involve all forms of abuse: verbal, emotional, sexual, economic, physical, and psychological.</p><br><p>In this episode, I compare <strong>Intimate Terrorism </strong>with <strong>Situational Couple Violence</strong> so that you can clearly see the difference. Neither feels better than the other but Intimate Terrorism is far more dangerous.</p><br><p><strong>No matter how much you might want to resist listening to this, please LISTEN! 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