Summary: <br> <br> <a href="http://brianjpombo.com/how-do-your-feelings-define-your-actions/"></a><br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <a href="http://DreamBizChat.com">http://DreamBizChat.com</a><br> <br> <br> <br> How do your feelings define your actions? <br> <br> <br> <br> Hi this is Brian Pombo, welcome back to the Orange Office in Grants Pass, Oregon. <br> <br> <br> <br> I got some books I want to tell you about. And today we’re continuing our series all on human psychology and the three different modes, of three different parts of your brain, the Cognitive, the Affective and the Conative. Today we’re going to talk about….your feelings.<br> <br> <br> <br> How do you feel, not just right now but in general? <br> <br> <br> <br> How do you feel, how does your mind go about feeling things? How is that different from other people that you know, especially different from your spouse, from your significant other, from other people that you may have been attracted to now or in the future? <br> <br> <br> <br> It’s almost always the opposite when it comes to Affective. <br> <br> <br> <br> This is a very, very clear thing, is that at some point that there is something that’s dynamically different between you and the person you’re most interested in. And very oftentimes it’s on the Affective of scale. <br> <br> <br> <br> So we’re going to go through that a little bit. I’m going to go through the four parts of human personality, the four-part model. I’m going to tell you about a couple of books, a couple things to look into.<br> <br> <br> <br> If you’re interested in this, you want to find out some more personally, my favorite thing to look at is called the D I S C model, the DISC model. <br> <br> <br> <br> And one of the best people out there talking about it today that I have found. It’s a guy named Dr Robert Rome. This is one of his top books in terms of that it’s a positive personality profiles. He’s got different colors here representing the D I S or C. <br> <br> <br> <br> This is Dr Rome right here. I’ve got to see him. I’ve got to meet him in person a couple times. He’s given speeches at conventions and conferences that I’ve been at. Really fond of him. He’s a great speaker. <br> <br> <br> <br> You can see some of his videos on YouTube and so forth. Robert Rome, go and check out Positive Personality Profiles. That’s a really good book.<br> <br> <br> <br> Another good book. The, she doesn’t use the D I S C but this was actually the original book that I read on this and it’s called Personality Plus, by Florence Littauer. <br> <br> <br> <br> This is a pretty much a classic in the field of personality theory. I think this came out, let me see…..yeah, 1983. The original version of this came out and she uses the original terminology from one of the first people that ever started discussing personality theory, which was Hippocrates. <br> <br> <br> <br> If you’ve ever heard of the Hippocratic Oath, famous, famous Greek Hippocrates came up with the four different personality theory and she uses those. That terminology, but it’s the same concept. You can, you could tie that back to DISC and I’ll tell you more about what that is in a second. Just hold on. This is my favorite book and you can tell by how worn out it is. <br> <br> <br> <br> My favorite book on personalities is called Getting to Know You. This is by Chris Carey. <br> <br> <br> <br> He passed away a number of years ago. If you know about this book, if you know about Chris Carey and if you know his family or anybody that holds the rights to this book, let me know. I would love to see this republished and I love to do it myself if necessary, because this is such a great book.
