Summary: <p>Oh, my! I can imagine that for a few folks the title of today's episode caused them a brief moment of near apoplexy!</p><br><p>No, I didn't choose it for its shock value, nor did I choose it to be controversial. I chose it because there are<strong> a few things about unconditional love that you may not know</strong>, and maybe, you may have a little blind belief that to be a "good" person. you must strive to be unconditionally loving to all people at all times. Not so.</p><br><p><strong>Before you set your hair on fire--or want to do that to mine...lol--please listen to the whole episode.</strong></p><br><p><strong>It is NOT heresy.</strong> I am a deeply spiritual person and I've led several spiritual centers and organizations. I am very familiar with the constructs and demands of unconditional love. So, I feel I'm a good person to give you this food for thought.</p><br><p>I've covered the four ways in the highlights section below, but each one requires explanation and that's what I've done in the episode.</p><br><p><strong>I really, really, really hope you'll think about these things, after listening to the whole episode. You'll find it relieving and freeing, I hope. </strong></p><br><p>--------------------------------------------------------------------</p><p>If you <strong>want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships</strong>. Join my Optimize Circles now.</p><p>Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Ask Me Anything Calls with me.</p><p>WOW! 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You'll find that in <a href="https://www.relationshiphelpnetwork.com/" target="_blank">many other episodes of this podcast,</a> and on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/forrelationshiphelp" target="_blank">my YouTube channel,</a> too.</p><br><p>Listen to today's episode, and, if by chance, you're still wondering if you have had a #Hijackal in your life, <strong>grab my</strong></p><p><strong>FREE EBOOK, How to Spot a Hijackal®</strong> at <a href="http://hijackals.com/" target="_blank">Hijackals.com</a> . You need to know what's up now, so you don't make mistakes that will hurt you. Grab it!</p><br><p><strong>HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:</strong></p><ul> <li>Unconditional love may be a toxic myth</li> <li>Unconditional love is like a "Get Our of Jail Free" card</li> <li>The term "unconditional love" has a surprising, and out-of-context, origin you might not know...til now</li> <li>Unconditional love undermines justice</li> </ul><p><br></p><p>If you need help with any part of the journey with--and from--a #Hijackal, I'm here for you. <strong>Let's talk soon. I make it easy and accessible for you to have your </strong><a href="https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/join" target="_blank"><strong>first one-hour session with me for only $97.</strong></a></p><br><p>Make positive changes NOW.</p><br><p>Big hugs,</p><p>Rhoberta</p><br><p><strong>Rhoberta Shaler, PhD,</strong></p><p><strong>The Relationship Help Doctor</strong></p><p><a href="https://forrelationshiphelp.com/" target="_blank">ForRelationshipHelp.com</a></p><br><p>P.S. 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