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Summary: A listener muses about how, despite trying to choose a current GF who does not have the negative qualities of his ex, he is starting to see certain mannerisms that make him fear he has chosen as part of a pattern. James and Dr. Steve provide their analysis of hw relationships are formed, and how we may be "primed" to see certain issues in the people we love.