Summary: <p><strong>#Hijackals--those relentlessly difficult, demanding people--NEED to be the center of the attention, the star of the show, the center of your Universe. And, they have to come first. </strong></p><p><strong>You, then, are expected to be their adoring, validating audience, clapping at the least of their ideas. Exhausting, and inappropriate...at the least! </strong></p><br><p>Whether they take center stage by being charming, or by being nasty, doesn't matter to them, as long as they occupy that space and garner your attention.</p><br><p><strong>#Hijackals® believe that life should revolve around them</strong>, their needs, wants, thoughts, feelings, and desires. NO! That's not true. But, have you been falling into step with what they want? Time to re-assess!</p><br><p>Yes, she can be charming, alluring, and magnetic.</p><p>Yes, he can be amusing, engaging, and promising.</p><p>But. it's all about them. That's not a <strong>recipe for a healthy relationship</strong>. It's toxic!</p><br><p>Is this sounding familiar? If so, it's time for a change. It's time for a clear look at what's really going on, and decide if you're ready to do something that is healthier for you.</p><p>----------------------------------------------------------------------</p><p>If you <strong>want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships</strong>. Join my Optimize Circles now.</p><p>Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Ask Me Anything Calls with me.</p><p>WOW! Join now. <a href="https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/Circles" target="_blank">ForRelationshipHelp.com/Circles</a> Only $5 for the first month at any level.</p><p>----------------------------------------------------------------------</p><br><p>You deserve to <strong>create a life that is calm, peaceful, creative, and productive</strong>. A #Hijackal wants to be sure that you do not.</p><br><p>You will find yourself<strong> blamed for things that couldn't possible be your fault</strong>. You'll be<strong> told how you feel</strong>, and it will be completely wrong. You'll be <strong>told what you think</strong>, and no one every asked you. Sound familiar? That's how #Hijackals roll.</p><br><p><strong>No emotional safety</strong> when you're in a relationship with a Hijackal!</p><br><p>Today's episode offers insights into the <strong>crazy-making minds of narcissists</strong>, <strong>narcissistic #Hijackals</strong>, anti-social people, and <strong>drama queens.</strong>..and, of course, <strong>drama kings</strong>.</p><br><p>Once, you recognize this, you'll need more information to change that. You'll find that in <a href="https://www.relationshiphelpnetwork.com/" target="_blank">many other episodes of this podcast,</a> and on <a href="https://www.youtube.com/forrelationshiphelp" target="_blank">my YouTube channel,</a> too.</p><br><p>Listen to today's episode, and, if by chance, you're still wondering if you have had a #Hijackal in your life, <strong>grab my free ebook, How to Spot a Hijackal®</strong> at <a href="http://hijackals.com/" target="_blank">Hijackals.com</a> . You need to know what's up.</p><br><p><strong>HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:</strong></p><ul> <li><strong>Why #Hijackal must blame and find fault</strong></li> <li>Why that<strong> blame is all coming your way</strong> </li> <li> <strong>Destructive patterns</strong> you can notice right now, and move away from</li> <li>One BIG STRATEGY to do right away to <strong>change things positively</strong>...if possible.</li> </ul><p><br></p><br><p>If you need help with any part of the journey with--and from--a #Hijackal, I'm here for you. <strong>Let's talk soon. Want my help? I make it easy and accessible for you to have your </strong><a href="https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/join" target="_blank"><strong>first one-hour session with me for only $97.</strong></a></p><br><p>Make positive changes NOW.</p><br><p>Big hugs,</p><p>Rhoberta</p><br><p><strong>Rhoberta Shaler, PhD,</strong></p><p><strong>The Relationship Help Doctor</strong></p><p><a href="https://forrelationshiphelp.com/" target="_blank">ForRelationshipHelp.com</a></p><br><p>P.S. 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