Summary: Who said school can't be fun? This episode, we sit down with our friends Roger and Jan Smith, long-time homeschool parents and leaders in Louisiana. The topic is simply, "Fun" - what it can do to create memories, bond family members, and make learning a lot more enjoyable for parents and students alike!<br> <br> <a rel="NOFOLLOW" href="https://ultimateradioshow.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/MBFLP-224-The-Importance-of-Fun-FB.jpg"></a><br> <br> Recently we visited with Roger and Jan Smith, leaders in the Louisiana homeschool community and dear friends of ours. One evening our family and our friends were playing a fast-paced game together, laughing hysterically, and thinking about what an important, bonding thing that is.<br> <br> We were noticing how well our teenagers interacted with the adults in the room, and the obvious respect going in both directions, and we were talking later about how the shared experiences build that sort of relationship. They’re more and more important as we all become more individualized and isolated, focusing on our work and entertainment through private screens—even when we’re in the same room, we’re not interacting.<br> <br> That’s one reason <a rel="NOFOLLOW" href="https://www.raisingrealmen.com/product-category/audiobooks/">we love audiobooks</a> when we’re driving or working together, because the whole family can share that experience and have a basis for conversations later. It’s a good reason for reading aloud together, even when the children are reading well on their own. We try and make intentional choices to do things together so in later years, our adult children will have memories that draw them back to their family home.<br> <br> Another thing we do is make a big deal over family holidays. Birthdays are an example. In our home, the one we’re celebrating gets to choose the family menu for the day. At supper, we center the conversation on memories of the birthday person. Afterward, we take turns sharing things we love or admire about them. It’s really touching – everyone loves being appreciated, and it’s very easy to overlook the chances to communicate that respect.<br> A Sense of Humor<br> <a rel="NOFOLLOW" href="https://ultimateradioshow.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/MBFLP-224-The-Importance-of-Fun-P..jpg"></a><br> <br> Shared humor is another thing we look for. A study of newlywed couples noticed how they interacted, especially the moments of humor in the midst of a problem. It defuses situations and reduces tension if we can refer to a shared joke or inside story. It’s a sign of a healthy relationship if you can still smile, if you can still laugh, if you can lighten up in the midst of your stress. That applies to your kids as well as your mate!<br> <br> In fact, that study really pointed out that our relationships are formed from the moments we share. Little things count. It's not like you have to learn a new language to really score points with your kids. Instead, you just need to hear when they speak, make eye contact, and come back with a positive response.<br> <br> And that's something you get a dozen times a day to do. If you miss one, just determine to catch the next. It's something you can build up without feeling like you have to make a huge investment before you see any benefit.<br> <br> (Listen in for more great ideas about building memories and relationships with your family!)
