Summary: Do you obsess over the thought that your loved one might be lying? Do you have to prove the lies? How do you find the ability to trust in recovery?<br> <br> Julia joins Spencer to talk about lies, guided by these questions.<br> <br> How have you been lied to (in relationships with an alcoholic or addict)?<br> How have you lied to yourself?<br> How did you react to lies prior to recovery?<br> Did you become angry? withdraw?<br> Did you deny them? Ignore them?<br> Did you make excuses for your loved one’s behavior?<br> What else?<br> Can you see your loved one’s lies as a symptom of the disease?<br> What tools have you used to stay “sane” when you are lied to? How?<br> Detachment?<br> Boundaries?<br> When does lying become a “deal breaker”?<br> How do you rebuild trust in your loved one?<br> Are there things you still can’t trust about them or your relationship?<br> Upcoming topics include the 4 L's, listen, learn, let go, and love; and Concepts of service 11 and 12. Please call us at 734-707-8795 or email feedback@therecoveryshow.com with your questions or experience, strength and hope.
