Summary: <p><strong>Verbal Violators</strong> <strong>in any work situation make working together next to impossible. </strong></p><br><p><strong>At a minimum, they make you cringe, avoid, and prefer to take sick days over going to work.</strong></p><br><p>In my book, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Wrestling-Rhinos-Conquering-Conflict-Wilds/dp/0971168989/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1546818332&sr=8-1&keywords=wrestling+rhinos+conflict" target="_blank">Wrestling Rhinos: Conquering Conflict in the Wilds of Work</a>, I talk about folks who commit "<strong>malpractice of the mouth</strong>!" Those are verbal violators, <strong>verbal abusers</strong>. These folks have control issues that lead to anger issues that lead to rage and lack of reason. And, they think they're right.</p><br><p>You know that I talk about my term,<strong> Hijackals®</strong>. Those are the difficult, the r<strong>elentlessly difficult people</strong> in life who just have to run everything, including their mouths! Well, you meet them at work, too.</p><br><p>In today's episode, I'm giving you some thoughts on how to proceed when you're around folks whose "mouths enrage before their minds engage" as I say in <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Wrestling-Rhinos-Conquering-Conflict-Wilds/dp/0971168989/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1546818332&sr=8-1&keywords=wrestling+rhinos+conflict" target="_blank">Wrestling Rhinos.</a></p><br><p><strong>HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:</strong></p><p><br></p><ul> <li>Three things that definitely cause verbal violence to erupt</li> <li>Two things that must happen to make the working environment safe for all</li> <li>What to do if you are the violator</li> <li>How to speak up and set boundaries if you're being violated</li> </ul><p>I hope this help you see that more clearly. If you need help with this, I'm here for you.</p><br><p>Let's talk soon. 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