Summary: <p><strong>SAVE YOUR SANITY: HELP FOR HANDLING HIJACKALS®</strong></p><p><strong>with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor</strong></p><br><p><strong>HOW WILL I FEEL WHEN I'M LEAVING A HIJACKAL?</strong></p><br><p>Whether that person has <strong>passive-aggressive</strong>, <strong>narcissistic</strong>, <strong>antisocial</strong>, <strong>borderline</strong>, or <strong>histrionic</strong> behaviors or tendencies, you need to know that you're going to have a totally mixed bag of opposing feelings on the day--and for a few weeks after--you leave. It's natural and normal.</p><br><p><strong>Leaving a toxic situation</strong> can be a double-edged sword: there is freedom and peace, and there is anxiety and loss. You'll experience both.</p><br><p><strong>Toxic people, Hijackals®, are looking for power and control over you</strong>. Because you are a good person, a loving, compassionate person, you were chosen by the Hijackal. Now, you're choosing health, peace, well-being, and self-esteem for yourself and your children. That's why you have made the decision to leave, and I know you've thought a lot about it.</p><br><p>You likely thought for a long that, if only you would go the extra mile, be long-suffering, or justify, rationalize, or excuse the bad behavior, the Hijackal would relax, change, even love you. You thought that, with enough love and patience, s/he would change. <strong>Hijackals don't change...for the better!</strong></p><br><p>Today, I want you to know what to expect when you are leaving, and just after. I'm using my personal story because it taught me a whole lot. I hope it helps you, too.</p><br><p><strong>Leaving is not easy except where there is sexual or physical abuse. Even then, some people stay longer than is healthy. Now, you're on your way to a new life. Yahoo! </strong></p><br><p>A few highlights of today's episode:</p><p><br></p><ul> <li>It's normal to be scared.</li> <li>It's natural to second-guess your decision.</li> <li>You will live.</li> <li>You'll do the samba: two steps forward and one back many times.</li> <li>You'll live.</li> <li>Things will get better.</li> <li>You will walk through SO many emotions, but keep walking!</li> <li>You'll live...lol.</li> </ul><p><br></p><p>Are you ready to be free of this? To <strong>stop questioning your sanity</strong> and <strong>second-guessing yourself</strong>? GREAT!</p><br><p>Hijackals are <strong>toxic people</strong> who create <strong>toxic relationships</strong>! You are being poisoned. You are NOT the poison that the Hijackal insists you are.</p><br><p>I hope this help you see that more clearly. If you need help with this, I'm here for you.</p><br><p>Let's talk soon. I can help. <a href="https://forrelationshiphelp.com/free-consult" target="_blank">Schedule an initial hour consultation HERE</a> for only $97.</p><br><p>I hope this <strong>empowers you to make positive changes NOW.</strong></p><br><p>Talk soon.</p><p>Rhoberta</p><br><p><strong>Rhoberta Shaler, PhD,</strong></p><p><strong>The Relationship Help Doctor</strong></p><p><a href="https://forrelationshiphelp.com/" target="_blank">ForRelationshipHelp.com</a></p><br><p>P.S. Subscribe to my <a href="https://forrelationshiphelp.com/subscribe" target="_blank"><strong>newsletter, Tips for Relationships, HERE.</strong></a></p><br><p><strong>CONNECT WITH DR. 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