Summary: <p><strong>SAVE YOUR SANITY: HELP FOR HANDLING HIJACKALS®</strong></p><p><strong>with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor</strong></p><br><p><strong>10 REASONS YOU MAY HAVE FOR NOT WALKING AWAY FROM YOUR ABUSER</strong></p><br><p><strong>Could any of these things be true? </strong></p><p><br></p><ul> <li>Your relationship is bad. And, you don't want to admit it.</li> <li>You keep hoping that things will get better.</li> <li>You make excuses for your partner's outbursts.</li> <li>You believe your abuser when s/he says you are nothing worth having, and no one else would want you.</li> <li>You hang onto the last time you heard "I love you" and fool yourself that it is true.</li> </ul><p><br></p><p>Any of these sound familiar? You're not alone. And, these aren't even the ten reasons in today's episode!</p><br><p><strong>Who wants to believe they are being abused?</strong></p><br><p>Yet, <strong>you are being abused</strong>. And, yes, that is the only word that covers it.</p><br><p>S/he is not going through a bad time, stressed, depressed, or repressed. S/he is like that most of the time, and wants you to think it's your fault, right?</p><br><p>Well, <strong>it isn't your fault</strong> that s/he is unhappy, nor is it your fault that they are angry, upset, yelling, stomping, or threatening.</p><p>It also isn't your fault if s/he is frozen and giving you the dreaded <strong>Silent Treatment.</strong></p><br><p>All those are choices your partner, parent, friend, or co-worker is making in response to their lives. They could choose differently but they don't because <strong>they want to make you believe it's all your fault.</strong> And also, being Hijackals, they will take responsibility for nothing, nor be accountable for anything.</p><br><p>So, today's episode gives you <strong>ten reasons you may be using in your head that may be keeping you in an abusive situation. </strong></p><br><p>Once your recognize the truth in them you can change all that. It won't be easy, but it is best. You can have a healthy life!</p><br><p><strong>Today's episode will give you insights into:</strong></p><p><br></p><ul> <li><strong>why you don't want to recognize the abuse</strong></li> <li>what scares you about actually calling it the abuse it is</li> <li>how you have been groomed to put up with the <strong>emotional abuse,</strong> and <strong>verbal abuse</strong> </li> <li>how the Hijackal reinforces your <strong>fears about leaving</strong> </li> <li>the real facts about what's real and what's not about leaving</li> </ul><p><br></p><p>Hijackals are <strong>toxic people</strong> who create <strong>toxic relationships</strong>! It's SO important not to respond with toxicity to them.</p><p>Most important reason: you won't like yourself when you do!</p><br><p>I hope this help you see that more clearly. If you need help with this, I'm here for you.</p><br><p>Let's talk soon. I can help. <a href="https://forrelationshiphelp.com/free-consult" target="_blank">Schedule an initial hour consultation HERE</a> for only $97.</p><br><p>I hope this <strong>empowers you to make positive changes NOW.</strong></p><br><p>Talk soon.</p><p>Rhoberta</p><br><p><strong>Rhoberta Shaler, PhD,</strong></p><p><strong>The Relationship Help Doctor</strong></p><p><a href="https://forrelationshiphelp.com/" target="_blank">ForRelationshipHelp.com</a></p><br><p>P.S. Subscribe to my <a href="https://forrelationshiphelp.com/subscribe" target="_blank"><strong>newsletter, Tips for Relationships, HERE.</strong></a></p><br><p><strong>FINDING MY CONTENT USEFUL? BE A PATREON SUPPORTER AND GET FURTHER GREAT BENEFITS</strong></p><p>...like access to a Secret Facebook Group, my 21 Steps to Empowered Emotional Savvy program, and monthly "Ask Me Anything" calls.</p><p><a href="https://patreon.com/rhobertashaler" target="_blank">Patreon.com/RhobertaShaler</a></p><br><p><strong>CONNECT WITH DR. 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