Summary: The number one question we are asked, is about simple living with kids: "Is it possible to simplify your life with kids?" Of course it is! Now we know not everyone has kids, but even if you don't you probably have nephews or nieces, or friends with kids. So, the good news is that even if you don’t have kids yourself, you’ll probably be able to apply a lot of this to other relationships in your life.<br> <br> <br> <br> Well first off, simple living with kids doesn’t have to be an oxymoron. Like simplifying the rest of your life, simple living with kids will take some planning, work, and positive change, but it will be well worth it. Read more...<br> <br> <br> Note: Our new book Supermom vs Super Mom will be free on Amazon all day Friday, 21 March 2014 from midnight PST to midnight PST.<br> <br> Topic: Simple Living With Kids<br> Well worth it, yes...but notice I didn’t say “well worth it in the end.” That's because there really isn’t an end when it comes to simplicity...that’s why we call it a journey.<br> <br> The “Stuff” Cycle:<br> Before we get into the different stages of our kids' lives and how that effects simplicity, there's something that needs to be addressed first. I call it the "Stuff Cycle"...for lack of a better term. If you don't realize you operate in a stuff cycle before you have kids, you will as soon as you're expecting. Here's how it goes:<br> Perceived Need Phase:<br> <br> <br> <br> <br> All the things advertisements tell you you need<br> All the things you ‘think’ you need<br> All the things everyone else ‘thinks’ you need and don’t hesitate to tell you<br> <br> <br> <br> Acquire Phase:<br> <br> <br> <br> <br> Purchase, gift, rent or borrow<br> <br> <br> <br> Utilization Phase: <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> You figure out what you really need and use<br> <br> <br> <br> Replacement Phase<br> <br> <br> <br> <br> You fill those needs with things that actually work<br> <br> <br> <br> Edit Phase:<br> <br> <br> <br> <br> You take action to get the things you don’t need, don’t use, and don’t work out of your life<br> <br> <br> <br> Refine Phase:<br> <br> <br> <br> <br> Continuously evaluate, acquire, replace or upgrade as necessary, edit as required.<br> <br> <br> <br> Simplicity Issues at Different Stages of Our Kids’ Lives<br> Babies:<br> <br> <br> <br> Just making sure they are cared for requires so much (or we think it does)<br> Amount of stuff required at home...but babies grow up so fast that it's impossible to use every toy or clothing item <br> Amount of stuff required on the road<br> Time and attention required<br> <br> <br> Toddlers:<br> <br> <br> <br> First steps of independence<br> Just trying to stay ahead or just keep up parents feel they need to buy every learning gadget or tool so they are ahead when they start kindergarten<br> <br> <br> Kids: <br> <br> <br> <br> Starting to understand commercials and get a taste for consumerism and wanting more<br> <br> Brand name toys<br> Brand name clothes<br> Even exposure to peer pressure<br> <br> <br> <br> <br> Teens: <br> <br> <br> <br> Consumerism: clothing, gadgets, food<br> More time commitments with extracurricular activity, work, etc.<br> As parents now it's crunch time to teach them the life skills to be successful adults.<br> <br> <br> Adults:<br> <br> <br> <br> Are you responsible or do you hang on to your grown kids' "stuff" as they start their adult life?<br> Do they feel "entitled" to things beyond their income?<br> What's your comfort level or threshold for monetary support?<br> <br> <br> Ways to Keep Simple Living With Kids, Simple!<br> <br> <br>
