Summary: What REALLY changed my behavior? for good? even when no one else is watching? Well, it happened in my 30s when I was out mowing on nice Saturday afternoon. The kids were in the garage and I was fully outfitted with PPE… or so I thought. I was about halfway done with the lawn when my youngest, then around 8 years old, came running out to me waving. I put out my hand for him to stop and turned off the mower. What happened next changed my life. I still get choked up telling it.