Summary: Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been with my now fiance for three years and what I can't wrap my head around is his closeness with his older sister. When we first started dating my fiance sister called and texted him excessively they would stay on the phone forever and she would pop up at his house whenever she wanted to. He told me that she just had to get used to the fact that he was no longer single and you know because they had always spent a lot of time together. His sister used to come over to his house on Saturday mornings to do her laundry and then she would stay and hang out with us for the rest of the day. She often included herself on our dates too........
