PMP:127 Why Social Emotional Learning Matters – Interview with Tamara Fyke




Principal Matters: The School Leader's Podcast with William D. Parker show

Summary: Educators are talking a lot about students in trauma. Although you may not always know when students are stressed or facing a crises, research by the <a href="http://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2000/12/anxiety.aspx" rel="noopener" target="_blank">American Psychological Association</a>, shows that today’s students have the same level of anxiety as psychiatric patients did in the 1950’s. <br> Some of this anxiety is the result of increased expectations placed on students. Sometimes it is their unstable environmental conditions. At other times, it may result from unfiltered content they view via social media. <br> As a result, today’s students need schools that provide places of stability and belonging. A first response to the growing number of students with anxiety is awareness. When you have a mindset of anticipating students face emotional stress, you can commit to building relationships of trust so that they feel safe in school. A second response is just as important: practicing social-emotional learning strategies that work well for all students.<br> Interview with Tamara Fyke<br> <br><br> Tamara Fyke is an expert in social-emotional learning. She is an educator and creative entrepreneur with a passion for kids, families, and urban communities. As the creator, author, and brand manager for <a href="https://www.loveinabigworld.org" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Love In A Big World</a>, she equips educators with a social-emotional learning (SEL) curriculum that is both research-based and practical. She also provides the supporting resources necessary to empower students to be socially competent, emotionally healthy problem-solvers who discover and maintain a sense of purpose and make a positive difference in the world. <br> Tamara is also the editor of <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Building-People-Social-Emotional-Learning-Communities/dp/150187800X" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Building People: Social &amp; Emotional Learning for Kids, Schools &amp; Communities</a>, a book that brings 12 wide-ranging perspectives on SEL to educators, parents, and leaders. <br> In our conversation, Tamara shares some great takeaways for educators wanting to reach students and move them from risk to resiliency. Here are a few golden nuggets from our talk:<br> Three Essential Needs<br> 1. Students need caring and nurturing environments.<br> When adults understand and relate to students, students find a place to belong. Principals should encourage environments with entrances and surroundings that are welcoming and inviting. Teachers and staff are dedicated to showing up with smiles on their faces, and students know teachers enjoy being with them.<br> 2. Students need high expectations.<br> First, teachers must share a common language that points to good behavior expectations like kindness, honesty, and courtesy. Students need examples of what that behavior looks like inside and outside of class. In addition, students must understand the expectations to learn, to succeed, and to work hard academically.<br> 3. Students need meaningful engagement.<br> This happens in places that encourage methods like flipped model classrooms, hands-on lessons, and active participation from students for real-life learning. <br> Resiliency, Prevention &amp; Intervention<br> These methods become practice that leads toward resiliency. As Tamara explains, prevention is different from intervention. Intervention is important when we see students who are triggered. Just as importantly, we can put measures in place to reduce those triggers: the key is building healthy relationships with students. Tamara’s research and practice confirm that one caring adult in the life of a student can make all the difference. Especially in middle school, students need to be “anchored” through advisory periods, homerooms, or teachers whom they trust.<br> Finally, Tamara shares about the observations she has made of principals and teach...