Tabitha St. Bernard-Jacobs – Routines and Relationships – Tuesday




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Summary: Being present with your child, juggling work and school schedules, being 100% with work or child, postpartum and therapy, a supportive husband, date night, self care, and how a kid's routine also helps mom. Designer Tabitha St. Bernard-Jacobs, co-founder of Tabii Just (a zero waste line of womenswear clothing made in NYC), co-founder of Livari, and Youth Director of The Women's March, shares her mom routines and relationships with hosts Stacy Igel and Michelle Park.<br> (Tabitha's Instagram: @tabithastb)<br> In this episode:<br> <br> A walking to school routine with Stacy and her son Dylan<br> The importance of routines<br> Tabitha on trying to juggle being home with him twice a week with school 3 days/week<br> Finding relief with a nanny-share 2 days a week<br> Play dates are rough---need to do work in between<br> Cut off when he gets home and really be present with him<br> Way more efficient 100% working or 100% with him<br> When you’re working vs. fun on phone<br> Making an impression<br> Leap Frog- typing while mom is typing<br> Married in August, pregnant in April, dating for 3 years, but not enough time just them married together<br> Not easiest mom to be with, super paranoid, postpardum depression<br> All the pressures, many in her head<br> When she’d leave him, she’d be miserable and difficult with anyone when she was away from him<br> Husband is supportive, and pushes back t0 bring her to reality<br> How working with a therapist helped<br> Tried having a date night, the need to<br> Michelle on her Sunday movie dates, and a sense of freedom<br> Setting up routines, general schedule<br> Really be present with him<br> How Tabitha's son’s routine helps her as a mom<br> Take turns picking her son up<br> Try to say prayers together every night<br> Dedicating 4pm-8:30pm every day just for her son<br> Postpartum, been in therapy for over a decade so always had that help<br> Started centering happiness as action, instead of waiting to be happy again<br> How self care and working out centers her<br> <br> To share your #MOMSGOTTHIS MOMENT just call 833-844-THIS-MOM (833-844-7666) and leave a voicemail with your first name and city along with your moment.