Summary: <a rel="NOFOLLOW" href="http://ultimateradioshow.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/MBFLP-205-Preparing-Teens-FB.jpg"></a><br> <br> "You think this is hard - just wait till they're teenagers!" the stranger told Melanie as she pushed our four young children through the Atlanta zoo. But that's a cultural expectation, not a foregone conclusion. Why can't the teen years be productive years of growth, maturity, and deeper fellowship between parent and son or daughter? This episode we're looking at positive ways to build up your teens during these critical years of transition from childhood to independence!<br> <br> <a rel="NOFOLLOW" href="http://ultimateradioshow.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/MBFLP-205-Preparing-Teens-P.jpg"></a><br> The Remarkable Potential of Teenagers<br> The oncologist looked at Hal skeptically.<br> <br> “Well,” he conceded, “if you feel up to it, you can travel. And you can speak from the platform. But you can’t stand around shaking hands afterward – your immune system is going to be completely shot.”<br> <br> The results had come back from the biopsy – Hal had advanced lymphoma, and he was about to start chemotherapy. The good doctor from Duke had listened while we explained what we do in our ministry, and travel was a concession – no compromise on the personal contact.<br> <br> We had hardly gotten this far explaining it to our family when our teenagers burst out, “Don’t worry, Dad – we’ll take care of the book fair!”<br> <br> Our oldest still at home were 16, 14, and 12. We might have been a little skeptical, but at the time, we didn’t have a choice. Hal was sidelined, Melanie would be busy counseling and praying with parents, and somebody needed to handle the business part of our resource table. If teens are who we had, then teens would have to do the job.<br> <br> And it has made a world of difference!<br> Don’t Underestimate Teenagers<br> So many people consider the teen years and react with alarm, “Batten down the hatches! Duck and cover!” And yet, we look back and history and wonder. Laura Ingalls Wilder was put in charge of a school before she turned 16. John Quincy Adams was 14 when he became the sole translator for America’s embassy to Catherine the Great of Russia. Paul Tripp calls it “The Age of Opportunity;” why shouldn’t we expect more from the teenage years?<br> <br> What started as a necessity in our family developed into a tradition – ever since that day, our teenagers and their younger siblings have managed our booth and many aspects of our travel. They shoo us out into the aisle, telling us, “You need to be talking with the parents that need help! Let us take care of this stuff.” They load and unload, set up and manage. They deal with customers of all ages, polite or combative. And they take turns in charge of the booth and their siblings, watching the younger ones and passing on job skills to the middle group.<br> <br> Sometimes they even challenge us! Our third son made it a point of honor to learn to drive our 15-passenger van and trailer in any situation – threading night-time traffic alone in downtown Phoenix, backing the trailer into a tight parking space, or turning the whole rig around on a one-lane road that suddenly became impassable. Hal had to step up and improve his own skills to keep from calling the 16-year-old to get us out of a spot!<br> <br> They became so involved in the business and support of our ministry, we naturally included them in all our planning. “We need some products to keep the younger children quiet while you talk with their parents,” they told us. We challenged them to come up with ideas, and they located sources for the swords and rubber band guns we sell alongside our books on parenting and marriage.<br> <br> Three of our teens took what they were learning from our own business and bought another for <a rel="NOFOLLOW" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51);text-decoration:none;font-weight: normal;" href="https://onlinecasinogo."></a>
