Summary: Last year I sat across my desk from a student whose father had abandoned him and left the state. <br> A family in our community had taken in the young man, and our school had been in contact with the Department of Human Services on what to do next. That morning I had been watching a video by Josh Shipp called <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u_Oapo1Q7_w" rel="noopener" target="_blank">One Caring Adult</a>. <br> On a whim, I asked the student if he would watch the video on my computer with me. In his story, Josh Shipp shared his own story of abandonment, foster-care, abuse, and eventually finding stability and hope. His story was a powerful reminder of how one caring adult can change the life of a young person.<br> After watching the video-clip, I asked the young man if he’d ever had one caring adult on whom he could depend. He said, “Yes, my adopted mom who lives out-of-state. But I left because I didn’t want to follow her rules, and I don’t know if she’d have me back.” After several calls and other conversations, his adopted mom arranged a flight for him, and he flew back to her home to start the next chapter in his life.<br> Josh Shipp has a powerful story that inspires educators and students alike. Earlier this year, Josh spoke at the Oklahoma Middle Level Educators Association annual conference. Later, I was able to sit down with him for an interview. You can listen to our <a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/principalmatters/PMP109.mp3" rel="noopener" target="_blank">podcast interview</a> or watch the <a href="https://vimeo.com/264224504" rel="noopener" target="_blank">video of our conversation</a>.<br> Who is Josh Shipp?<br> <br><br> Josh is a best-selling author, global youth empowerment expert, and acclaimed speaker. A former at-risk foster kid turned youth advocate, he is known for his documentary TV series Teen Trouble on A&E, that followed his groundbreaking work with teens.<br> Josh has spoken at universities such as Harvard, Stanford, MIT & UCLA. He is a recognized teen expert for media outlets such as MTV, CNN, FOX, The New York Times, ABC 20/20, & Good Morning America. He’s worked with groups of parents, educators & mental health professionals plus has spoken to more than TWO Million teens and parents live.<br> His ultimate goal is to help as many young people as possible. He trains other speakers through Youth Speaker University and his online mentoring program One Caring Adult has a world-wide reach.<br> Questions for Josh<br> In this interview, Josh answers the following questions:<br> 1. Can you share some of your own story with us, and why you are dedicated to reaching today’s youth?<br> Josh shares about the influence of a foster parent named Rodney, an educator from Yukon, Oklahoma, who provided him with unexpected stability, firmness and fairness. After being arrested for writing hot checks, Josh has an important conversation with Rodney who tell him: “We don’t see you as a problem, we see you as an opportunity.” As Josh shared, “Every kid is one caring adult away from being a success story.”<br> 2. Can you share one or two strategies on ways to have conversations with youth about uncomfortable topics?<br> Some strategies that Josh uses when working through difficult conversations include:<br> A. Be vulnerable.<br><br> Vulnerability leads to vulnerability. Just like you catch a ball when it’s thrown your way, when you go first in taking risk, students will often reciprocate the appropriate vulnerability you model. With a half million foster kids in the U.S., Josh believed he was the only one. As he has learned to see life from the perspective of others, he has also learned that we must operate from the position of “Heal the wound, reveal the scar.”<br> B. Give them a sense of control.<br><br> When talking to a young person about a difficult topic, name the topic. Don’t avoid the obvious.
