Summary: Darin and Aimee talk again with Aida Calder about how the human heart can rationalize any situation in life and make believe that it\'s not what it is. Many people who suffer abuse have learned to cope with it by rationalizing the abusers actions away until they\'ve even convinced themselves that they\'re really not being abused. Especially in the religion of Christianity, we have taught ourselves to make excuses for the leaderships behavior and assume the best of their intentions when the worst is staring us in the face. There is a point in every abused persons life where he or she must get a revelation of themselves and of their situation. It is often a shocking revelation because abused people redefine their abuse, making it something much more tolerable. \"Being seen\" is that point in our lives where the truth of what\'s really happening to us confronts our imaginary world we\'ve made up in order to cope with life.
