Summary: Darin and Robert talk about the usual pattern of healing that Free Believers goes through after leaving the church system. Usually there is a phase the first year or two where people are angry with the institutional church and all the lies they were taught to believe over the years. There comes a point during the \"church bashing phase\" when people either come full circle and asknowledge their own responsibility in the bondage precess. We have to own up to our part in all this. Oppress and manipulate me once; shame on YOU. Oppress and manipulate me twice; SHAME ON ME. Until we are willing to take at least some of the responsibility for our bondage, we usually end up stuck in the \"church bashing phase\" for way longer than we want too.
