Bobo and Flex

This week we're diving into some moral dilemmas! we answer the questions: where do we draw the line between altruistic vs invasive? what does it mean to be a good friend? when, if ever, is it appropriate to give unsolicited advice? and, is honesty really the best policy? Enjoy! JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL: www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SA Instagram: Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjila Flex: www.instagram.com/flex.mami YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQ Flex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15Q Twitter: Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjila Flex: www.twitter.com/flexmami

This week we're talking about the Jada, Will & August dilemma. We talk about the difference between a life partnership vs a romantic partnership. We unpack what it really means to commit and be loyal to someone. AND; most importantly we talk about sexual consent and how that intersects with class, privilege and power dynamics. JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL: www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SA Instagram: Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjila Flex: www.instagram.com/flex.mami YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQ Flex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15Q Twitter: Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjila Flex: www.twitter.com/flexmami

This week we're dissecting the recent popularization of black liberation. why are companies suddenly so interested in black representation? We discuss the futility of getting a 'seat at the table,' why being 'the first black' is not success, and we unpack the popular idea that the black experience is improving over time. JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL: www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SA Instagram: Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjila Flex: www.instagram.com/flex.mami YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQ Flex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15Q Twitter: Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjila Flex: www.twitter.com/flexmami

This week we're talking about family dynamics! We discuss the ethics surrounding familial love, we talk about the inability to escape childhood trauma, whether or not the nuclear family is an outdated format for raising kids, and so much more! enjoy :) JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL: www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SA Instagram: Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjila Flex: www.instagram.com/flex.mami YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQ Flex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15Q Twitter: Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjila Flex: www.twitter.com/flexmami

This week we're dissecting some AITA's, and talking about the very unique experience of being raised black ... but more specifically, being raised African. We talk about black parenting vs white parenting, and the exhaustion of being perceived as a strong black woman. Enjoy! JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL: www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SA Instagram: Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjila Flex: www.instagram.com/flex.mami YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQ Flex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15Q Twitter: Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjila Flex: www.twitter.com/flexmami

This week's episode was sooo funn!!!! we're playing our new REFLEX Expansion Pack, made by Flex in collaboration with Bobo :) we talked about everything from the ethics of animal agriculture, the moral significance of our thoughts, the paradox of moral obligations, AND SO MUCH MORE ! BUY REFLEX: https://flexfactory.store/collections/everything-but-clothing/products/reflex-bobo-matjila-edition JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL: www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SA Instagram: Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjila Flex: www.instagram.com/flex.mami YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQ Flex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15Q Twitter: Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjila Flex: www.twitter.com/flexmami

This week we're extending our conversation about race! we talk about the personification of race, why cultural appropriation is prioritized over black lives, and we discuss whether liberation can or will ever be achieved! JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL: www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SA Instagram: Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjila Flex: www.instagram.com/flex.mami YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQ Flex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15Q Twitter: Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjila Flex: www.twitter.com/flexmami

This week we're discussing all things activism! What does it mean to be an ally to Black Lives Matter, and black liberation movements as a whole? Is activism still valid even if it's performative? Enjoy! JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL: www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SA Instagram: Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjila Flex: www.instagram.com/flex.mami YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQ Flex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15Q Twitter: Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjila Flex: www.twitter.com/flexmami

This week we're talking about success! Do we need successful friends in order to thrive? Are we really the sum of our friendships? What does it really mean to be successful under capitalism? Is success even a worthwhile pursuit? Enjoyyy!!! And let's continue the conversation on socials! JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL: www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SA Instagram: Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjila Flex: www.instagram.com/flex.mami YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQ Flex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15Q Twitter: Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjila Flex: www.twitter.com/flexmami

This week we're digging into the drama surrounding Lana Del Rey & Doja Cat. We have an honest conversation about race, antiblackness and practical ways to navigate living in a white supremacist world and tackling racism head-on. JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL: www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SA Instagram: Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjila Flex: www.instagram.com/flex.mami YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQ Flex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15Q Twitter: Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjila Flex: www.twitter.com/flexmami

This week we're talking all about love and vulnerability! Where do we learn to love? How do we undo our toxic ideas about love? and how can we become more vulnerable in our relationships! :) JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL: www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SA Instagram: Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjila Flex: www.instagram.com/flex.mami YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQ Flex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15Q Twitter: Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjila Flex: www.twitter.com/flexmami

This week we're discussing social media, toxic positivity and the illusion of permanence and happiness. This is probably one of our more philosophical discussions, so if you're ready to spiral, let's goooooooo :) JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL: www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SA Instagram: Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjila Flex: www.instagram.com/flex.mami YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQ Flex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15Q Twitter: Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjila Flex: www.twitter.com/flexmami

This week we talked about class, clout, Caroline Calloway, privilege and how that all intersects with romance! What does class look like in 2020? is clout a more valuable currency than money? and how do we navigate financial dilemmas in our romantic relationships without making our relationships transactional? Enjoy!!!! JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL: www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SA Instagram: Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjila Flex: www.instagram.com/flex.mami YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQ Flex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15Q Twitter: Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjila Flex: www.twitter.com/flexmami

This week we're discussing solitude and morality! Why do some people need more human interaction than others? What do we owe each other? kindness, compassion, or just basic human decency? And; how should we relate to each other JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL: www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SA Instagram: Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjila Flex: www.instagram.com/flex.mami YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQ Flex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15Q Twitter: Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjila Flex: www.twitter.com/flexmami

This week we're discussing some relationship dilemmas: how do you live with your partner without killing them? How do you navigate cross-cultural dating and how to set boundaries during corona. Enjoy! JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL: www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SA Instagram: Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjila Flex: www.instagram.com/flex.mami YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/UCMqf8MD1qkIdpsmBrgtHGQQ Flex: www.youtube.com/channel/UC5GaziUPGc4bC8dP--gK15Q Twitter: Bobo: www.twitter.com/BoboMatjila Flex: www.twitter.com/flexmami