Life After Your Divorce

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It's your life that's on the line! Join me on August 2nd when my guest will be Noah Rosenfarb, CPA and Managing Director of Freedom Divorce Advisors, a CPA firm dedicated to helping divorcing women plan for their financial future via his four step patent-pending process. Knowledge is power especially when it comes to entering unknown territories. My own personal experience with divorce proved that time and time again. Everything is brand new and confusing when ti comes to divorce. No one prepared us for this. That is why it is so important to make certain that you get the best advice possible. Noah will outline the questions that need to be asked and impart his considerable knowledge and experience in the area of divorce and finances.

The concept of forgiveness may be as appealing to you as a bunch of angry wasps BUT perhaps you have forgiveness confused with approving of your ex's bad behavior. NOT! Forgiveness is a gift you give to yourself in order to free yourself of all of the negative emotions that weight you down and keep you stuck. Forgiveness begins with self-forgiveness and that's where we'll start this discussion. You simply cannot craft your best life after divorce if you are carrying around all sorts of resentment, blame and anger. Those emotions are like boulders you lug around in a backpack...how does that feel? Join me on Monday the 24th of May for this important discussion on forgiveness. We're toll free now!

Lisa Decker will be discussing the crucial things you must know when you are entering/considering divorce as far as your financial future is concerned. These are decisions that will affect your entire future and knowledge is power! Don't miss this hour long show that will cover the most important financial considerations in divorce. Lisa Decker is a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and the founder of Divorce Money Matters.Her work has led her to be interviewed by the media including CNN, Good Morning America, Business Week, The NY Times, Forbes Women’s and Oprah magazines. Ms. Decker is the 2009-2010 Treasurer on the Board of Directors for Visions Anew. www.VisionsAnew.org Visions Anew is one of the Premier Women’s Divorce Support Organizations in the country with support groups and weekend divorce school retreats that support, guide, empower and encourage women during divorce.Her primary goal as a trusted advisor is to provide powerful knowledge for her clients so that they can make informed decisions today which will enlighten, enrich, and empower their financial future tomorrow.

Author and founder of the Child-Centered Divorce Network, Rosalind Sedacca, CCT will share her insights and advice about choices and decisions parents make that can adversely affect their children during and long after a divorce. Learn key questions to ask yourself before making any parenting decision – and concrete ways to avoid the most disastrous mistakes parents make in the months and years following a divorce. Recognized as The Voice of Child-Centered Divorce, Rosalind Sedacca, CCT, is the founder of the Child-Centered Divorce Network and author of, How Do I Tell the Kids about the Divorce? A Create-a-Storybook™ Guide to Preparing Your Children – with Love! Rosalind is the originator of National Child-Centered Divorce Month every July. She is on the Board of Directors of WE Magazine for Women and ChildSharing, Inc. She writes a monthly column for divorceinteractive.com, is an Expert Advisor at ParentalWisdom.com, a Contributing Expert for Divorce360.com, on the Panel of Experts for the National Association of Divorce for Women and Children (NADWC.com), a Monthly Columnist for DivorceInteractive.com, a Contributing Columnist for MommyMentors.com and a Contributing Author to Exceptional Magazine. She is also the National First Place Winner of the 2008 Victorious Woman Award. Rosalind shares her expertise through group and personal coaching services, teleseminars as well as print, TV and radio interviews. To learn more about her book, free ezine, blog and other valuable resources forhttp://www.childcentereddivorce.com and http://www.howdoitellthekids.com.

If you are moving towards a divorce there are myriad issues that must be attended to. Join Pat Barbarito, a leading matrimonial lawyer for this must-listen to show on the legal aspects of your divorce and what you need to know going in! Patricia M. Barbarito, a former Chair of the Family Law Section, New Jersey State Bar Association has practiced family law since 1980. She is a Fellow of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers and Certified Matrimonial Law Attorney, Ms. Barbarito handles cases in the area of divorce, custody, domestic violence and related areas. Extensive involvement with the Executive Committee of the Family Law Section of the New Jersey State Bar Association, membership of the Family Division Practice Committee of the Administration of Office of the Court's for the Supreme Court of New Jersey, have resulted in Ms. Barbarito being integral in the shaping and practice of law in the matrimonial area. In 2004, Ms. Barbarito was selected to receive the Saul A. Tischler Award from the New Jersey State Bar Association Family Law Section. This prestigious award is presented annually in recognition of a person whom has made a substantial impact upon the development of family law and the legal profession. Ms. Barbarito is a prominent speaker in the Family Law field, she has lectured extensively for the institute of Continuing Legal Education, various civic organizations, and has appeared on numerous television programs regarding matrimonial law. A Certified Arbitrator, Ms. Barbarito has orchestrated seminars, supervised legal interns for the New Jersey Battered Women's Service and has established the Battered Women legal advocacy project. Ms. Barbarito has also been a co-chair person for the task force on domestic violence court procedure sub-committee in Morris County, and a Trustee of the Morris County Bar Association.

I am very excited to welcome Lisa Athan, an expert in grief recovery. Lisa will be discussing the nature of the grief that grips us during divorce as well as offering concrete methods of effectively dealing with grief. Lisa will be taking your questions and concerns live on air. Lisa Athan is a Grief Recovery Specialist, Executive Director of Grief Speaks and a popular speaker on grief, loss and healthy coping. Lisa holds a Master's degree in Counseling and serves on the Traumatic Loss Coalition for Youth in NJ and serves on the advisory board of Good Grief, a free year round grief support program for children. Lisa herself has experienced the loss associated with divorce. Lisa believes that we grieve over many different types of loss, and divorce is a huge loss on many levels. Unlike a loss through a death, people going through a divorce receive little support, acknowledgment or compassion from family, friends or co-workers. Often people don't know what to say or even wind up taking sides and expressing anger toward the grieving person. There are many different aspects to the grief of divorce which when left unacknowledged or unexpressed, can impede our healing process, energy and overall life satisfaction. Lisa's web site www.griefspeaks.com is full of information and resources about grief and loss in the lives of children, teens and adults.

Learn to Cope! Divorce and it's aftermath make handling life difficult. Emotional reactivity, sadness, depression, anger...you name it, they all get in the way of your ability to effectively deal with not only your divorce but your everyday life. There are highly specific skills and tools that you can utilize in order to make your life easier at this critical time. There are things you can do so that you maintain your sanity and deal with all the details of your divorce and your life. You can stop emotional reactivity, you can channel your anger, you can improve your mood, you can reduce stress, you can think more clearly and you can feel better both physically and mentally. Join me on Monday, February 15th when Life After Your Divorce will discuss all the proven methods for coping with your divorce. Bring your pen and paper so you can take notes!

If you find yourself unable to accept your divorce it will show up in your life as resentment, blame, regret, anger and sadness. Does your mind chatter keep you stuck in the pain of your divorce and the past? Let's look at the signs of resistance to reality so you can pinpoint where you need to do some work on divorce recovery. Then we'll talk about the steps you can take towards acceptance. You can call in and pose any question on your mind.