Be Still: Being Enough




Road School Moms show

Summary: <a rel="NOFOLLOW" href="http://ultimateradioshow.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/benoughpinterest.jpg"></a>Being enough is the focus in Episode #171 of Roadschool Moms Radio. This is the last episode of the three-part series for the RSM focus on two words:  Be Still. The replay is a live recording by the Roadschool Moms team from the back porch and behind the wheel. Holly Giles, the creator of <a rel="NOFOLLOW" href="http://www.thegilesfrontier.com">The Giles Frontier</a>, broadcasts from <a rel="NOFOLLOW" href="https://visitcentralflorida.org/">central Florida</a>.  This week, Mary Beth Goff, the <a rel="NOFOLLOW" style="line-height: inherit;" href="http://www.roadtripteacher.com">Road Trip Teacher</a> is alongside her co-host at The Giles Frontier for a little time together to share their thoughts on being enough. The pair examines this sentiment closely, what it means to other mamas, and how to bust up the myth that surrounds it.<br> Being Enough<br> Holly shares the solar eclipse story she mentioned on the last episode. Her family was caught in a lightning storm on a boat after the epic solar event. The events that transpired afterward sound like chaos. In the end, she realizes it was a lesson in perspective. While everyone has a different perspective on how we fit into the world, it often leads to the question Am I enough?<br> <br> (7:30) Mary Beth and Holly converse about the mom-struggle with being enough in today's culture with social media pressure to always do more. Mary Beth tells us that "you are the example for your children" (good, bad or indifferent.) She reminds to always be mindful of our actions.  Holly shares the idea that moms are told to do it all, but at what price?<br> <br> Mary Beth uses an example of being a ball field mom quickly morphs into a whole job for moms who really just want to watch their kids play ball. Holly shares a similar story of her <a rel="NOFOLLOW" href="https://www.thegilesfrontier.com/2014/11/secret-soccer-mom-society/">experience with soccer</a>.<br>  The self-sufficient worker may seem to be moving the world but it is the humble, praying worker that moves heaven. David Paulson<br> Moms Without a Cape<br> (11:30)Are we being pushed to be self-sufficient supermoms? Mary Beth confesses her issues with priorities. She is a solo mom, not by choice, and juggles work, school, and home life. Admitting she is motivated by finances right now, tears begin to fall as Holly shares her take on what the family dynamics look like from the other side. Mary Beth opens up about being vulnerable to the super mom syndrome and not choosing the right road for her family during times of chaos that lead to stress.<br> <br> (16:45) The RSM duo talk about words of wisdom from Kristen, the RSM prayer team leader. Further, they share her advice that to ask God to go before you in daily struggles. It may not lead to perfect days but will smooth out the rough edges every time.<br> <br> Somehow society has taken motherhood and twisted it to be a <a rel="NOFOLLOW" href="https://www.thegilesfrontier.com/2017/01/sunrise-babcock-ranch-youth-quail-hunt/">side note of greater things.</a> Mary Beth tells mothers to take off their cape and let go of the supermom role. Much of this broadcast refers back to a previous show <a rel="NOFOLLOW" href="http://ultimateradioshow.com/uncover-comparison-myth/">about comparison</a> and how saying NO leads to peace in your home. Are you giving away your best to everyone else but your family?<br> <br> (24:00) Final thoughts from these veteran homeschool moms including the idea to be present with your time. Do not regret yesterday. Do not compromise today on the plan for more time tomorrow. Holly puts this into perspective with the sudden passing of her cousin, Wesley. She describes the beautiful afternoon they shared a few months ago as they set everything aside for a cousin get-together lunch.<br> <br>  <br> <a rel="NOFOLLOW" href="http://ultimateradioshow.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/photo-8.jpg"></a><br> Making time to be present,