We Gotta Thing - A Swinger Podcast show

We Gotta Thing - A Swinger Podcast

Summary: We are a long-time married couple deepening our relationship through the swinging lifestyle . We intend for our podcast to resonate with those having similar life experience and values who are either in or potentially entering the lifestyle. Not a "how to" resource but more of a "what if" resource that generates authentic conversation between couples to help them find their place in the lifestyle. Care to join us?

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  • Artist: Mr & Mrs Jones's Swinging Adventures
  • Copyright: Copyright WGT 2021

Podcasts:

 Episode 90: The Importance of Trust in the Lifestyle | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:38:38

We discuss the importance of trust from four different angles: trusting your relationship, trusting each other, trusting other couples and trusting who you are becoming in the lifestyle. Also, I (Mr Jones) share my first ever experience getting waxed...

 Episode 89: Enjoying Group Play | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:32:41

Group play can be fun but also tricky! In this episode we explore the benefits and pitfalls and share our perspective on how we approach and navigate playing in larger groups. We also recap our very first Desire Mansion takeover event!

 Episode 88: The Art of Avoiding Mistakes | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:22:11

No matter how long you've been in the lifestyle you are going to make mistakes. So we've come up with a few tips to help you minimize those mistakes and make your play experiences more meaningful and fun!

 Episode 87: Normalization by Exposure | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:19:32

In this episode we discuss how our perceptions change to our reality the more we are exposed to actual events. All of us have pre-lifestyle perceptions, newbie lifestyle perceptions and even veteran lifestyle perceptions that can change- but only if we take a step (or two) forward and try new things.

 Episode 86: Being Bi-Something in the Lifestyle | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:32:10

There are perceptions in the lifestyle that a woman must be 'bi-something' to attract other couples. On the men's side there is a double standard and a stigma attached to being 'bi-something' in the lifestyle. Our goal is to dispel myths and share personal views in an attempt to provide a safe space for sharing thought provoking conversations. These conversations must occur for people's minds to be opened and more accepting to those interested in exploring being 'bi-something' in the lifestyle.

 Episode 85: Feels Like the First Time | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 56:23

Perhaps you have not had your first play experience yet or haven't had one in a very long time due to the current pandemic. Preparing for that first play experience creates a lot of build up, anticipation and nerves. No matter how that first time goes one can lose sight of the fact that it's only one experience and should not be the benchmark for all future play times in the lifestyle!

 Episode 84: The Let Down- Can We Still Be Friends? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:22:40

Do you struggle with if, when and how to tell other couples you're not interested in meeting? What about after you've played and you've lost interest? What if they ask you why you aren't interested? What if you are the recipient of a 'let down' message? Do you want to know why or would you rather just move on to the next couple? Does the sting of rejection ever get easier? We invite you to listen in as we discuss this topic from both sides!

 Episode 83: The Struggle is Real | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:16:30

Not only does real life often get in the way of engaging in the lifestyle, but simply staying sexually connected as a couple is a struggle. Add a global pandemic to the mix and you have the perfect storm of events that make this struggle almost impossible to avoid. In this episode we really don't have solutions to the issue, we simply share where we are in this so that as a couple you know you are not alone.

 Episode 82: The Compatibility Conversation | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:20:01

We believe there are three important components of compatibility that we need to consider when trying to find connections with people in the lifestyle: General Compatibility, Safety & Health Compatibility and Sexual Compatibility. In this episode we define these components, discuss why they are critical for success and how to know if such compatibility exists when you're meeting new friends.

 Episode 81: The Language of the Lifestyle | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:25:53

In this episode we discuss the idea that there is a unique language spoken by those of us in the swinging lifestyle. We believe this language is comprised of four distinct elements: the language of speaking, the language of listening, the language of the body and the language of behavior. We also believe becoming fluent in this language will help smooth the pathway forward and help you more easily connect with others.

 Episode 80: Finding True Friends in the Lifestyle | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:21:09

We talk a lot about all the special friendships we've made in the lifestyle and many of you express frustration over finding the type of connections we describe. In this episode we offer tips on what it takes to be successful finding and building special relationships with those who will become true friends! 

 Episode 79: Can We Afford the Lifestyle? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:09:08

It's not a secret that engaging in the lifestyle can be expensive! In this episode we discuss budgeting tips for your lifestyle adventures and why we prioritize spending money on us as an investment in our relationship.

 Episode 78: How Do I Know She is Interested in Me? | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:36:23

Men are programmed through all aspects of life to avoid showing interest in other women. But now we are in this lifestyle where other women expect us to show some interest. This is so confusing! How are us guys supposed to know when you ladies are interested in getting to know us better? Get out your notepads for this episode as Mrs Jones sets us all straight in the matter...

 Episode 77: I Never Imagined I Would Ever... | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:34:57

Before entering the lifestyle or becoming experienced in the lifestyle we never imagined doing some of the things we've actually done and things we've learned about the lifestyle. We share how our perspectives change over time and also share what some of our listeners have to say about their own experiences!

 Episode 76: Be Authentic- Acknowledging All Facets of You | File Type: audio/mpeg | Duration: 01:05:59

As we are mired in the current pandemic many of us are being pulled back away from our social and sexual mindsets. When we are concerned about our jobs, our children, our families and our health we need to be deliberate to ensure our relationships and our sexuality is a priority! We discuss the difficulty of resolving the tension between who we are wired to be as humans and who we are trained to be by society.

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