Coaching, Cocktails, & Conversations

According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (ncadv.org), on average, nearly 20 people per minute are physically abused by an intimate partner in the US.  During a year, this equates to more than 10MM women & men. This is a story of healing through forgiveness. This is a story of perseverance, discovery, and forgiveness. In this month of 2022, we become aware of Domestic Violence. Join Danne Smith Mathis and I, as she shares her story and helps to heal a nation. Breakdown of the Episode: 0.35:  Welcome 1.03:  Intro to Danne Smith Mathis 2.44:  A bit about Lolita E. Walker 4.12:  Danne Smith Mathis 4.20:  Shout out to Monica Floyd 5.33:  Introducing Danne's story 8.12:  "Girl I Can't Leave Now" - Danne's Letter of why she could not leave her marriage during her domestic violence encounters 14.22:  Dialogue about Danne's story 16.01:  Why'd you stay so long Danne? 35.56:  Be patient and give time - time. 56.14:  Cocktails & a cheers to each of you 58.14:  Thanks Danne and help request from Lolita 58.44:  Women Listeners - This is an invitation to you 1.00:  OutroDanne is a co-author of 4 books, including "Celebrating Life Beyond Domestic Violence.” She is a mother and a former homeschooling mother of adult children who Contribute significantly to this planet. She is the grandmother to Aiden and Zakariah and a domestic violence survivor who promotes healing through forgiveness.However, this is a weighty topic that we will share and help heal from. Our stories are for so many others that hear them and gain strength. Danne wants to leave you with three key takeaways: Forgive so you can begin the healing process because if you don’t, you’ll bleed on people who didn’t cut you.Don’t be afraid to love yourself.Don’t fear loving again but next time take your brain with your heart! To stay connected to Danne: - Clubhouse! https://www.clubhouse.com/@blackamethyst22?utm_medium=ch_profile&utm_campaign=f461tdYVgPOGfgqeUo28Gg-397688- Wisdomhttps://wisdom.app/dannesmithmathis----------------For anonymous, confidential help 24/7, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE)

Yan Yu has a story to tell and we can all gain a bit of insight from her share.  Imagine cleaning toilets and working in a factory day and night where the hustle was real.  Imagine now, this same you, as an analyst on the trading floor of Wall Street then to finally recognize that wow - it no longer serves me to be results-oriented!  Such a foreign concept to many of us.  In this episode, Lolita and Yan talked about everything from gratefulness and faith to worthiness and temptation and so much more. Yan can now be found in areas of ministry, health, finance, Metaverse, AI and so much more!  Tap into this episode to be reminded of what a bit of perseverance, honesty, and faith has the power to do.   During this episode: Minute 0.33 - Welcome Minute 3.24 - Our individual takes on goal setting versus being results-oriented Minute 4.30 - What Yan learned from Wall Street Minute 6.15 - Temptation, results, risk-taking, realizing self-worth and gratefulness Minute 8.00 - From Cleaner to Wall Street Then Lolita leaves you with 5 Considerations to Lean into Your Self Worth. Work on you and your development Open doors to endless possibilities Remember your strengths and leverage them daily Tackle one problem at a time Help is an asset - ASK! To grab a deeper dive download on Self-Worth to leverage as a working resource, CLICK HERE Dig in with Lolita in her group coaching program, which meets every 2nd & 4th Thursday of each month.  The power of women within this group is nothing short of amazing.  Learn more at https://www.lolitawalker.com/groupcoaching Learn more about Yan, her amazing story, and the work that she is doing within the world - https://yan10k.com    and ...... there are still 6 more spaces at this upcoming women's weekend renewal retreat.  Grab your space at https://www.lolitawalker.com/retreats. 

In this episode, Lolita leaves everything on the table with a single question - Are you the best friend that you want, need & deserve?  What if the question was, Are you the best friend TO YOU that you want, need & deserve? Hmmm, would the answer change? Delve in as Lolita engages with a live audience on this exact question.  Show Breakdown: Minute 0.19 - Welcome Minute 0.47 - Hello, We are Live Minute 7.00 - Soul Work by Lolita E. Walker Minute 9.05 - Observations from the relationship of Lolita & Her Son Enjoy the conversation that is curated just for you. Be sure to tap in even further with Lolita via: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/groups/coachingcocktailsconversations Group Coaching - https://www.lolitawalker.com/groupcoaching Retreats - https://www.lolitawalker.com/retreats   

Stepping into the impending recession is not the easiest thing to do. Sometimes it is laced with fear, anxiety, stress and lots of doubt.  In this episode, Lolita talks directly to you.  Using the word STEP, Lolita leaves you with four considerations to begin to STEP differently and more intently, as we look to thrive in a recession.    Are you ready?  Lean into each of these considerations, as Lolita engages with a live audience via Clubhouse, YouTube, Facebook (Coaching, Cocktails & Conversations), and Linked In.   Be sure to leave Lolita a 5-star review and tell the world what you took away - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/coaching-cocktails-conversations/id1513247012 PLUS, others will experience all of the juiciness that you hear from Coaching, Cocktails & Conversations!  Show Breakdown: Minute 2.24 - Shout out to Momentum Advisors - my saving grace Minute 5.00 - Celebrating our Listeners Minute 13.24 - A Soul Work Exercise for You Minute 22.00 - Live Engagement Minute 26.57 - An Invitation for You, From Lolita Minute 31.09 - Sharing on the Creative Process Minute 49.00 - Lolita Shares meaning of her First Book Minute 54.00 - Exciting news!!! Minute 55.19 - PhD Win:  A True Story of Stepping up Minute 57.00 - Thank You Stay Connected with Lolita via: Group Coaching - https://www.lolitawalker.com/groupcoaching Private FB Group -https://www.facebook.com/groups/coachingcocktailsconversations  YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcj7pMlERV0VW4m0JDp18bQ   

Meet Gina, Nicole and Crystal.  They are 3 powerhouses, who met on a social, audio app and leveraged their collective strenths to start a movement.  "The Mom Link" was birthed to ultimately become the most valuable social network of mompreneurs in the world.  Makin six-figures in less than one year, their mantra is that THE PRESENT AND FUTURE IS FEMALE.  In this episode, Lolita has a juicy conversation with the women of The Mom Link on how to best link moms to business and beyond. As busy women, we give so much to everyone else, yet rarely give the same time, resources an energy back to ourselves.  Listen in to grab a few laughs, take a few nuggets, and reclaim your power.  Be sure to share it with a power woman that you know.    Show Breakdown Minute 1.12 - Welcome Minute 1.39 - Introduction of Podcast Host, Lolita E. Walker Minute 2.03 - Coaching, Cocktails & Conversations - what is it all about? Minute 19.00 - Lolita outlines 4 Key Principles for LINKing to your business and beyond Minute 33.00 - An invitation just for you Minute 44.26 - Cheers to each of you, from The Mom Link Minute 49.05 - My Challenge to each of You Minute 49.54 - Thank You  Stay Connected with The Mom Link: https://momlink.club https://www.instagram.com/themomlink   Stay Connected with Lolita: https://www.lolitawalker.com  https://www.lolitawalker.com/retreats https://www.podcast.lolitawalker.com 

Laura Gassner Otting is joining Lolita on this episode to talk being limitless.  Not only is she a #2 Best Selling Author by way of The Washington Post, but she is also a power speaker, author and a sought-after, power woman within organizations.   At Minute 5.37, Laura tells Lolita of her Superpower Minute 7.37 - Laura talks how to ignore everybody Minute 9.0 - What does "lean in" mean to you? To Laura? To Lolita? Minuate 12.29 - Lolita leaves 6 Considerations of how to DEMAND more Minute 14.20 - Laura dives into two aspects of DEMAND N - Next Up is Action - specifically around servant leadership M -More doesn't mean more action Minute 20.00 - What is "Wonder Hell" Minute 23.00 - Laura's TEDx Journey Minute 30.00 - Learning from Our Children Minute 32.00 - Demanding more and being the Wizard of Speakin Minute 45.14 - An Invitation to Lolita's Women's Weekend Renewal Reteat Connect with Laura at: https://www.lauragassnerotting.com/ https://www.instagram.com/heylgo/ Connect with Lolita at: https://www.lolitawalker.com https://www.lolitawalker.com/retreats https://www.instagram.com/heycoachwalker

This episode is for all of my purpose-driven trailblazers.  Do we suffer, while still holding a badge of honor?  or Do youflow with the expectation to lead with integrity, power and being?  Meet Stacy Raske, speaker, author, podcaster, Iraq veteran, inFLOWential activator, and TV peresonality, Stacy has joined Coaching, Cocktails & Conversations Podcast to chat with Lolita about standing on your foundation, being a leader who serves through leadership, leaping over blocks we see as leaders and the notion of being, not simply doing.  Lean in, as Stacy and Lolita leave you with tips and strategies to consider, as you become an inFLOWential leader. Show Breakdown: Minute 0.24 - Welcome Minute 0.52 - Who is Lolita E. Walker Minute 7.33 - Functioning in Control and all of the challenges Minute 13.42 - Blocks we see in leaders Minute 16.02 - When meeting to meeting becomes everyday, what do you do? Minute 20.51 - The difference between wins and successes Minute 21.29 - An invitation from Lolita Minute 34.00 - Challenging limiting beliefs Minute 34.34 - Recovering from Rock Bottom Moments Minute36.49 - When You Should Call Stacy Minute 41.35 - Thank You Stay Connected with Stacy @ https://www.stacyraske.com Stay Connected with Lolita @https://www.lolitawalker.com and don't forget to check out the ucpoming Women's Weekend Renewal Retreat at https://www.lolitawalker.com/shop/september2022retreat 

This week, we have power speaker, author, business owner, marketing and sales guru, Kim Walsh Phillips, who grew her community from 32 followers to over 11K in less than 1 year. In this episode, we talk power, influence, marketing and the pitfalls of sales. Lean in, as we leave you with nuggets to challenge your thinking, celebrate the greatness of who you are and then have juicy conversations with you and my facebook, LI and Youtube communities. Come on in the room and let's connect with Coaching, Cocktails & Conversations with Lolita E. Walker. The Breakdown: Minute 0.26 - Welcome Minute 0.54 - Introduction of Kim Walsh Phillips Minute 1.06 - Coaching, Cocktails & Conversations - The Overview Minute 7.05 - Who is Kim's Ideal client + Associated myths Minute 9.35 - Making More Time for You Minute 11.08 - Lolita gives 5 Considerations on how to Lean into Your POWER Minute 20.36 - Imposter Syndrome Minute 23.14 - Car Salesman Sales Tactics Minute 23.58 - The M.O.M. Model Minute 31.50 - Invitation to Power You Differently & Intently Minute 32.39 - Thank You Stay Connected to Kim Walsh Phillips -  https://kimwalshphillips.com/ https://www.facebook.com/KimWalshPhillips/  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimwalshphillips/ https://www.instagram.com/thekimwalshphillips/  Stay Connected to Lolita E. Walker -  https://www.lolitawalker.com/coachingcocktailsconversations https://www.facebook.com/groups/coachingcocktailsconversations https://www.linkedin.com/in/lolita-e-walker https://www.instagram.com/heycoachwalker Be sure to tap into other aspects of Coaching, Cocktails & Conversations!  and be sure to leave your 5 star review!  Can't wait to connect.  

"We all have the ability to make someon's life better and to serve." This was only one of the quotes from David Spisak in this episode of how to use your uncommon to power you.   Have you ever felt uncommon but leaned more into the common to power you?  David challenges that theory, as he talks everything from his strengths vs superpowers, thinking differently, optimizing your income, and his soul goal to "empty his head before he isdead." Lolita leaves you with 6 considerations of how to lean into your uncommon: Challenge your thinking Open your mind to endless possibilities Make the most of your time Move with connection and collaboration Optimize your income Next up is action Show Breakdown: Minute 2.05 - CC&C and About the Show Minute 2.57 - Outline of the 6 considerations Minute 8.21 - David Spisak Minute 12.56 - David talks Strengths vs Superpowers Minute 18.37 - Lolita talks her superpowers Minute 19.50 - You are not different than the apps in your phone Minute 32.37 - New Book Alert Minute 43.30 - Paenting Tips according to David Spisak Stay Connected to David https://www.facebook.com/groups/333445165125102  https://davidspisak.com/podcast/  Stay Connected to Lolita https://www.lolitawalker.com https://www.nstagram.com/heycoachwalker https://www.facebook.com/groups/coachingcocktailsconversations   

Ramon Ray, power entrepreneur, small business magician and expert, entertainer, and keynote speaker joins Lolita and her audience to talk how to be the Celebrity CEO of your personal and professional brands.  So what is a "celebrity CEO" and how do you become one?  Great question.  Not only is it the name of one of Ramon's book's, but it is a philosophy that will challenge your thinking and shift you to a renewed state of being.  Tap in as Lolita and Ramon leave you with 5 considerations to BRAND you, a few laughs and so much more.  From the man who launched four companies, sold two, authored multiple books and brings a smile to anyone's face, he is CONFIDENT that he is a Celebrity CEO and believes that you are too.  Let's enjoy a bit of coaching, cocktails & conversations with Mr. Ramon Ray. Ramon is the founder of SmartHustle.com a contributor to Entrepreneur.com and a host of the podcast, Breakfast with Champions. He is a successful entrepreneur, in-demand, motivational speaker and event host.  Be sure to tap into this phenomenon and great spirit.  Web:  https://www.ramonray.com/ IG:  https://www.instagram.com/ramonraysmarthustle/ 

Tara L. Paige (aka The Patio Chic) joins Lolita for a fun and exciting conversation on community and how to navigate, what can sometimes feel like chaos amongst a crowd of many. Who is in your community? How are you building community? Tara grew her Facebook group from - to over 233,000 members and of course that came with ups and downs. In this conversation, EVERYTHING is on the table. From leadership to inclusiveness to helping/nudging/exiting people immdiately out of your space, to redefining what your most be free space is, there is nothing short of information and laughs in this episode. Grab your pen and pad for some good ole fashioned coaching, cocktails & conversations. Show Breakdown:- Minute 0.027 - Welcome- Minute 1.11 - Tara L. Paige Intro- Minute 36.10 - Special Gift for Listeners- Minute 52.17 - Thank You / Outro Stay Connected to Tara- FB Community - Black Women who Love Outdoor Spaces - https://www.facebook.com/groups/556264965092478- Web - https://thepatiochic.com/- IG - https://www.instagram.com/thepatiochic/ Stay Connected to Lolita- Women's Weekend Renewal Retreat - GRAB YOUR TICKET TODAY - https://www.lolitawalker.com/retreats- All things Coaching, Cocktails & Conversations, including podcast, group coaching, free zoom for women, newsletter & more - https://www.lolitawalker.com/coachingcocktailsconversations

Quinn Conyers joins me today and raises the roof when it comes to the power of amplification.  She is a power speaker and prides herself on transforming average experiences into epic events as an Emcee.  She broadasts the brilliance of Black Women in business and leaves nothing short of power around the Coaching, Cocktails & Conversations Kitchen Table today. From being vulnerable to debunking 3 speaking myths to leaning into 7 considerations to amplify your voice today, this is a power episode that you do not want to miss! IF YOU LOVED THE SHOW, DON'T FORGET TO LEAVE YOUR 5 STAR REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS! I'D LOVE TO READ IT ON AN UPCOMING EPISODE. Show Breakdown: Minute 0.03 - Episode overview and introduction of Quinn Minute 1.23 - Welcome to CC&C Minute 1.51 - The CC&C Three Layers Minute 3.22 - Conversations with Quinn Conyers Minute 8.30 - A special invitation to you from Lolita Minute 9:46 - 7 Considerations to Amplify your voice Authentic Connections Make imprints in the sand with choices Proper preparation prevents piss poor performance  Lead with your story I am - affirmation pave your way Feed the butterflies Your words are your worth  Connect with Quinn Website - https://www.quinnconyers.com/  LI:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/quinnconyers/  IG:  https://www.instagram.com/quinnconyers  Connect with Lolita Website - www.lolitawalker.com LI:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/lolita-e-walker IG:  https:/www.instagram.com/heycoachwalker Upcoming Women's Weekend Renewal Retreat - https://www.lolitawalker.com/retreats  Group Coaching Program - https://www.lolitawalker.com/groupcoaching      

Tamra Andress is helping us activate our purpose and lean into fitting faith within our business.  So many struggle with how or whether to walk a fine line. On today's episode, Christian Business Coach, Podcaster - ranked in top 1% in spiritual & busines globally,  & Best-Selling Author, Tamra Andress, leaves us with nothing short of power. It's time to stand up and Tamra helps with "how." Through her story, we have a great conversation surrounding 5 Strategies for you to consider when standing on your core values of faith. Show Breakdown: Minute 0.03  - Opening Minute 1.43 -  Welcome Minute 2.13 -  Powerful Affirmation from Walker & Walker Enterprises - "I am me.  I stand upon a strong foundation of faith and strength.  I am unskahable power." Minute 2.50 -   Show Expectations Minute 4.45  -  Coaching with Lolita, who leaves us with 5 Considerations for leaning in on your faith in your business (Focus on faith and set it as part of your foundation / Accept help and say thank you / I see you.  Do you see you? / True Surrender / Harness your strengths) Minute 17.23 - Invitation to Lolita's Group Coaching Program Minute 18:46 - Conversations with Tamra Andress Minute 44.51 - Stay Connected with Tamra Minute 45.29 - Conclusion and Thank You Connect with Tamra Web - https://www.tamraandress.com/  Podcast - https://www.tamraandress.com/fit-in-faith-podcast 

In this episode, almost 19-years young Layla Quick, also known as the OMG Girl joins us with her mother, Mrs. Melita Quick.  She is the CEO of OMG Lemonade, Pitch princess, 1st place PGA pitch competition winner and motivational speaker, who started the brand OMG Lemonade with only $20 and expanding into a 6-figure company within the 1st year. Not only do we meet Layla, but we are also joined by her mother, who inspired her to become a successful entrepreneur and now the 1st place youngest African American company to ever exhibit at the PGA merchandise show in Orlando, Florida. For a daughter who did not like school and wasn’t interested in extra curricular activities, mom had quite the feat.  Listen in as we have a few smiles, lots of laughs and leave you with 6 considerations of how each of you can LEAN IN today!  The affirmation that Layla left us wih today is "I am confidence.  I am boldness."  May you walk in your confidence and boldness today and grab a few nuggets from this episode to use on your way. Breakdown of today's show: Minute 1:09 - Welcome to Coaching, Cocktails & Conversations Minute 1:35 - Breakdown of the episode Minute 2:52 - Personal invitation from Lolita to meet live on September 15, 2022 Minute 4:10 - The OMG Girl and her mom join in for juicy conversations Minute 41:54 - Come as You Are Round Stay connected with OMG Lemonde at https://omglemonade.com/ @omggirllemonade across all social platforms

Retired 2x SuperBowl Champ, Tyrone Poole, played 13 seasons as a cornerback in the NFL and is joining Lolita to chat how to navigate the seasons of your life.  They talk through 5 considerations  to leave you with, have a ton of laughs, and drop other tidbits along the way.  The Show Rundown 0:39 -  Breakdown the Episode 1:29 -  Welcome to Coaching, Cocktails & Conversations 2:19 -  Conversations with Tyrone Poole 15:42 - An Invitation To You, From Me  46:33 - Thank You Listeners and Friends Oh...did you know that this episode's Conversations with Tyrone is on Lolita's YouTube as well?  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rsJHiZT00mE You can catch us, our smiles and our shenigans!   Connect with Tyrone Poole @ Web:  https://www.tyronepoole38.com/  Twitter:  https://twitter.com/tyronepoole38 IG:  https://www.instagram.com/tyronepoole38/  Connect with Lolita @ Web:  https://www.lolitawalker.com Twitter:  https://twitter.com/lolitaewalker IG:  https://www.instagram.com/heycoachwalker