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Hey sex fans, welcome back. Author, educator, counselor, nurse and hypnotherapist, the delightful Kathy Labriola is back with us for Part 2 of her appearance on this the Sex EDGE-U-cation show. But wait, you didn’t miss Part 1 of our chat, did you? Well not to worry if ya did, because you can find it and all my podcasts in the Podcast Archive right here on my site. All ya gotta do is use the search function in the header; type in Podcast #393 and PRESTO! But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search. Kathy and I discuss: Autonomy vs. intimacy; Love In Abundance; A Counselor’s Advice on Open Relationships; Being a card-caring bisexual; Advocating for poly rights, but not universal polyamory; The role the internet plays in building the poly community; The fallacy that people are repressed into monogamy; Serial adultery and the myth of life-long monogamy; Tips for coming out as poly; The people who inspire her and her sexual heroes.   You’ll find lots of information about Kathy on her fantastic website HERE! Click on the book art below to check out Kathy’s books. BE THERE OR BE SQUARE! Look for all my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode. Today’s Podcast is bought to you by: DR DICK’S — HOW TO VIDEO LIBRARY.

Hey sex fans, welcome back. Coming up is a brand-spankin’ new edition of the Sex EDGE-U-cation show. By now I’m sure you know that this is the series that takes a look at the world of fetish sex, kink, and alternative lifestyles and we do so with remarkably talented people from all over the freakin’ world, don’t cha know. My guest today is one such person. Author, educator, counselor, nurse and hypnotherapist, the oh so amazing Kathy Labriola is in the house! Kathy has been writing, and teaching, and presenting on the topic of open relationships for decades. She has a brand new book out that deals with one of the biggest bugaboos for the non-monogamy set, as well as all you monogamous folks out there. And that is — jealousy. You can be sure that we well be talking about that timely topic and so much more. You won’t want to miss this sex fans! Kathy and I discuss: The whole workbook concept; Dealing with emotional responses to triggers in our relationships; Jealousy and envy; Belief in a sacristy economy fuels jealousy; Seeing if an open relationship is right for you before tackling jealousy; The disparity in feeling of jealousy in a relationship; How we grow up my determine how fit we are for open relationships; Her background and training; Ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and open relationships; Her feminist perspective on monogamy and other relationship models.   You’ll find lots of information about Kathy on her fantastic website HERE! Click on the book art below to check out Kathy’s books. BE THERE OR BE SQUARE! Look for all my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode. Today’s podcast is bought to you by: Dr Dick’s Stockroom.

Hey sex fans! Welcome back. Author, activist, and passionate advocate for pelvic floor strength, the incomparable, Lara Eardley is back with us today for another go ‘round on this the SEX WISDOM show. I’m still kinda breathless from last week’s show, so I can’t tell you how eager I am for more of her today. But wait, you didn’t miss Part 1 of our chat, did you? Well not to worry if ya did, because you can find it and all my podcasts in the Podcast Archive right here on my site. All ya gotta do is use the search function in the header; type in Podcast #391 and Voilà! But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search. Lara and I discuss: Her difficult early life; Being in your body instead of living in your head; From adversity to empathy; The perineal lift; Hands-free orgasms; Reversing incontinence; Those who inspire her and her sexual heroes. Lara invites you to visit her on her site HERE! Don’t miss her YouTube channel HERE! And she also on Facebook HERE! And Twitter HERE!   Click on the cover art below for more information about Lara’s books and her DVD. BE THERE OR BE SQUARE! Look for all my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode. Today’s Podcast is bought to you by: DR DICK’S — HOW TO VIDEO LIBRARY.

Hello sex fans! Welcome back. I know, let’s take an audio field trip to the land down under to visit with one of the most exciting women I’ve ever met. She is a pioneer in her field. She is an author, an activist, and advocate for pelvic floor strength. In a minute the incomparable, Lara Eardley will join us. But. before she does, I want you to prepare yourself to be bowled over. Laura is a powerhouse of passion and I’m pretty sure we will be treated to the full force of her signature SEX WISDOM. Buckle your seat belts, sex fans! Lara and I discuss: Being passionate about pelvic floor muscles; Good, responsive and supple muscles prevent incontinence; Education, education, education; Sexual fitness; Her study of Buddhist tantra, sexual medicine, and energetic work; 6000 years of cultural knowledge; Awareness and evolution; Bliss; Ejaculation control and life-force energy conservation; Self-cultivation. Lara invites you to visit her on her site HERE! Don’t miss her YouTube channel HERE! And she also on Facebook HERE! And Twitter HERE!   Click on the cover art below for more information about Lara’s books and her DVD.           BE THERE OR BE SQUARE! Look for all my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode. Today’s podcast is bought to you by: Dr Dick’s Stockroom.

Hey sex fans! Welcome back. That internationally famous sexologist, sex educator, author, relationship expert, advice columnist, and television and radio personality Dr. Yvonne Fulbright is back with us today for Part 2 of her turn on the SEX WISDOM show. And that means I get to ask her all the questions I didn’t get to last week. So yay for that! But wait, you didn’t miss Part 1 of this show, did you? Well not to worry if ya did, because you can find it and all my podcasts in the Podcast Archive right here on my site. All ya gotta do is use the search function in the header; type in Podcast #389 and Voilà! But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search. Yvonne and I discuss: Sex coach/sex therapy; Sexual performance concerns for women — preorgasmia; Performance anxiety; Sexual performance concerns for men — premature ejaculation; Masturbation and self-pleasuring; Expanding our sexual repertoire; Sex trends — circumcision; Erection enhancers; The G-spot debate; Sex play; Who inspires her and her sexual heroes. Yvonne invites you to visit her on her site HERE! Her Sensual Fusion site HERE! Her Facebook page HERE! And her twitter feed HERE! Click on the book covers below for more information about Yvonne’s books.     BE THERE OR BE SQUARE! Look for all my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode. Today’s Podcast is bought to you by: SPUNK Lube.

Hello sex fans! Welcome back. Guess what? It’s my birthday today! So, ya wanna know how old I am? I’ll give you a hint. Remember the old Beatles tune the begins… When I get older losing my hair, Many years from now. Will you still be sending me a valentine Birthday greetings bottle of wine. Yep, pretty freakin’ old, hun? So I know what you’re thinking; hey Dr Dick, why are you working on such an auspicious occasion? The answer is simple. There’s no rest for the wicked! Oh, and I have an amazing guest who is here as part of the SEX WISDOM series. I am proud to welcome a remarkable woman who is a powerhouse in the field of human sexuality. My guest today is internationally famous sexologist, sex educator, author, relationship expert, advice columnist, and television and radio personality Dr. Yvonne Kristín Fulbright. Yvonne and I discuss: Being a multimedia sex guru; Her background and early interest in human sexuality; Parent/child sex communication; Sensual Fusion; Holistic and body-centric sex education; Owning our eroticism and sharing that with a partner; Role models and intimate relationships; Sex toys and health concerns; Pornography and erotica; Sex, sexuality, and gender.   Yvonne invites you to visit her on her site HERE! Her Sensual Fusion site HERE! Her Facebook page HERE! And her twitter feed HERE! Click on the book covers below for more information about Yvonne’s books.                       BE THERE OR BE SQUARE! Look for all my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode. Today’s Podcast is bought to you by: SPUNK Lube.

Hey sex fans, Alrighty then! As I promised, I have a swell Q&A show in store for you today. I have a whole bunch of very interesting correspondents vying for their moment in the sun, so to speak. Each one is ready to share his or her sex and relationship concerns with us. And I will do my level best to make my responses informative, enriching and maybe even a little entertaining. But, before we get to that, I want to acknowledge three recent donation to the upkeep of this site. The donations come from: Peter of Knoxville, TN with a contribution of $25, Annie of Chicago, IL, my hometown, with a contribution of $25, and Terrence of Santa Barbara, CA with a contribution of $50. Thank you all! First, a couple general announcements: website redesign and a word about The Gospel of Kink. Some guy wants to know if it’s ok to have annual (anal??) sex on a daily basis. Matt jerks off using women’s panties.  He wants to know if I think he’s gay? Selena is really getting into her boobs and nipples. Finally, another one of my outstanding sexual enrichment tutorials: Six Reasons Why Women Don’t Enjoy Sex. Today’s podcast is bought to you by: Dr Dick’s Sex Advice and Dr Dick’s Sex Toy Review.   BE THERE OR BE SQUARE! DON’T BE SHY, LET IT FLY! Look for my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously, or just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode.

Hey sex fans! Welcome back. Kate’s back! That’s Dr Katherine Frank, cultural anthropologist, sex researcher and noted author, to you guys, don’t cha know. And this is the SEX WISDOM show. So Kate and I got such an amazing response after last week’s episode that I could hardly contain myself for her return today. And I’ll just bet she’ll be bringing us more of her signature candor and insight. But wait, you didn’t miss Part 1 of this show, did you? Well not to worry if ya did, because you can find it and all my podcasts in the Podcast Archive right here on my site. All ya gotta do is use the search function in the header; type in Podcast #386 and Voilà! But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search. Katherine and I discuss: Gender power dynamics in group sex; Differences between gay and straight group sex etiquette; Sexual taboos may still apply; The mainstream and the fringe; Disgust, shame and guilt; Sexual transgressions and transcendence; Strings and Sympathy: Strip Club Regulars and Male Desire; Sex work is labor; Sex as barter; Double standards; Sex worker rights; Those who inspire her. Katherine invites you to visit her on her site HERE! Click on the book covers below for more information about Katherine’s books.          BE THERE OR BE SQUARE! Look for all my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode. Today’s Podcast is bought to you by: DR DICK’S — HOW TO VIDEO LIBRARY.

Hello sex fans! Welcome back. I’m delighted to continue the SEX WISDOM series today. After the last two weeks of chat with an up and coming therapist who is just beginning her sexological career, I am proud to welcome a woman of distinction in our field. My guest today is cultural anthropologist, sex researcher and noted author, Katherine Frank. Katherine has distinguished herself as one who can tackle some of the thorniest issues of human sexual behavior with objectivity and compassion. Her three books as well as her numerous academic papers and popular articles provide us with an intelligent and intimate view of the sexual fringe. And she’s here today to tell us about her research and why she chooses to study what she does. Katherine and I discuss: Cultural anthropology and sex research; Meanings and taboos; Sex and the boundaries of our bodies; Dispassionate observations and objectivity; Participatory research; Critical thinking, human nature and generalizations; Fears, desires, and wounds; Sex research and its repercussions; Plays Well in Groups: A Journey Through the World of Group Sex; Breaking the rules; The myths associated with group sex. Katherine invites you to visit her on her site HERE! Click on the book covers below for more information about Katherine’s books.      BE THERE OR BE SQUARE! Look for all my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode. Today’s podcast is bought to you by: Dr Dick’s Stockroom.

Hello sex fans! Welcome back. Look out, ya’ll, because my friend, fellow therapist, and all-around amazing person, Brittany Steffen, is back with us today for Part 2 of her appearance on this the SEX WISDOM show. She made quite a stir last week with her premiere performance, so I can hardly wait to chat her again this week. But wait, you didn’t miss Part 1 of our conversation, did you? Well not to worry if ya did, because you can find it and all my podcasts in the Podcast Archive right here on my site. All ya gotta do is use the search function in the header; type in Podcast #384 and PRESTO! But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search. Brittany and I discuss: Sex positions and body image; Swinging, polyamory and open relationships; Checking-in, the lifeblood of all relationship models; Infant circumcision; Same sex marriage and LGBTQ parenting; Teen sex and sex ed; People who inspire her; Her sexual hero. Brittany invites you to visit her on her site HERE! You can also find her on Facebook HERE! And she’s on Twitter HERE! BE THERE OR BE SQUARE! Look for all my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode. Today’s Podcast is bought to you by: DR DICK’S — HOW TO VIDEO LIBRARY.

Hello sex fans! Welcome back. We take a break from The Erotic Mind series today so that I can introduce you to a remarkable woman who is just beginning her career in the field of human sexuality. And this is the SEX WISDOM series, don’t cha know. Now generally, on this show, I chat with colleagues well established in our field, but every now and again I like to check in with those people who are just starting out. I tell you, it reassures me no end to know that brilliant young folks are picking up the sex-positive banner and carrying it forward. And I am delighted to welcome one such person to my show today, a new friend and fellow therapist, Brittany Steffen. Brittany and I discuss: Open Door Ministries; Adlerian theory; When people get stuck; Growing up in two very different households; Being able to sit with dissonance; Becoming Brittany; Sex and religion; Shame, embarrassment, and guilt; Morality vs. science. Brittany invites you to visit her on her site HERE! You can also find her on Facebook HERE! And she’s on Twitter HERE! BE THERE OR BE SQUARE! Look for all my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode. Today’s podcast is bought to you by: LibidoStack.

Hey sex fans, welcome back. The award winning filmmaker, Kyle Henry is back with us today for Part 2 of his appearance here on The Erotic Mind show. He is here to discuss his movie: FOURPLAY; Tales of Sexual Intimacy. But wait, you didn’t miss Part 1 of our chat, did you? Well not to worry if ya did, because you can find it and all my podcasts in the Podcast Archive right here on my site. All ya gotta do is use the search function in the header; type in Podcast #382 and Voilà! But don’t forget the #sign when you do your search. Kyle and I discuss: The four stories of FOURPLAY; Tales of Sexual Intimacy; Skokie, IL — unleashing the animal within; Austin, TX — a conception story; Tampa, FL — roll-on-the-floor funny T-room sex; San Francisco, CA — a crossdressing sex worker and a quadriplegic man; Sex and disability; Directing sex scenes; Erotica and porn; What he looks for in the erotica art of others; What the future holds. Kyle invites you to visit him on his site HERE ! And be sure to like his film’s page on Facebook HERE ! (Click on the box art below to buy or stream Kyle’s movie.) BE THERE OR BE SQUARE! Check out The Lick-A-Dee-Split Connection. That’s Dr Dick’s toll free podcast voicemail HOTLINE. Don’t worry people; no one will personally answer the phone. Your message goes directly to voicemail. Got a question or a comment? Wanna rant or rave? Or maybe you’d just like to talk dirty for a minute or two. Why not get it off your chest! Give Dr Dick a call at (866) 422-5680. DON’T BE SHY, LET IT FLY! Look for all my podcasts on iTunes. You’ll find me in the podcast section, obviously. Just search for Dr Dick Sex Advice. And don’t forget to subscribe. I wouldn’t want you to miss even one episode. Today’s Podcast is bought to you by: DR DICK’S — HOW TO VIDEO LIBRARY.

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